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Spiritual Strength Of Women

Introduction **Fighting Spirit **Bibi Dalair Kaur - Martyr - Dec 4, 1705 **Bibi Prem Kaur - Heroic Nurse **Bibi Saran Kaur **Bibi Sharan Kaur **Sri Bibi Harbans Kaur **Bibi Joginder Kaur **Bibi Balwant Kaur **Bibi Jagjeet Kaur Khalsa **Khalsa Women and meer mannu's Jail


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BIBI JAGJEET KAUR KHALSA

Once while on a parchaar (preaching) tour, we arrived at a Gurdwara in Hollywood. There was a big sangat and a katha (sermon) was being held after Rehras Sahib paath (evening prayers). The Kathakar (preacher) had recently arrived from India. While doing katha, his eyes fell on some white American Singhnia and he commented, “Times have changed. Nowadays, even ladies have started wearing big turbans like men!” There were quite a number of white (non-Panjabi) American Singhnis who were dressed in the traditional attire of Amritdhari Gursikhs, i.e. full cholla (full length dress), pyjama like leggings, and a dastaar. The Giani was under the impression that light complexioned westerners did not understand Punjabi and so he could speak as he pleased. He made more comments against the ladies wearing dastaars.

Bhai Jagdish Singh, originally from India, is married to a white American Singhni. Her name is Jagjeet Kaur. Jagdish Singh has taught her Punjabi and she has learned kirtan very well. She takes part during Akhand Paaths and sings Kirtan with utmost devotion. She was sitting in this particular sangat and was pained when she heard the Giani Ji’s comments. After the Diwan (kirtan/katha) programme, she went to see the Giani Ji and asked him in Panjabi, “Giani Ji, can you please tell me, what is most precious to Guru Gobind Singh Ji?” The Giani was suprised to discover that this white lady knew Panjabi. He replied, “ Guru Gobind Singh loves the Reht of a Sikh the most.” Jagjeet Kaur then asked, “Could you tell me, which is the Rehat that Guru Ji loves the most?” Giani Ji answered, “The one that you are keeping. That is the one Guru Gobind Singh Ji loves the most.” Jagjeet Kaur pressed her point saying, “Then why did you doubt your Guru and speak against the keski? Would you rather please people than make our Guru happy?” Giani Ji replied remorsefully, “Please forgive me. I was mistaken.” Then added sincerely, “From now onwards I shall preach the complete Reht Maryada of Guru Gobind Singh Ji.”

I was told by a French born young lady, Bibi Jagjeet Kaur, who keeps full Sikh identity, that in this Age of Darkness, KalYug, the perfect Guru is Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, and she has total belief in the Guru. If someone prays in total faith then certainly the Guru listens. The Guru knows what is in every mind. She said, “I was involved in a road accident and my car hit another car. When the accident occurred, many were prepared to give evidence against me. I was very worried. I was afraid of the other party’s witnesses that I would lose the case. When the date for the hearing came, I prayed to Satguru that You know everything, I do not know whose fault it is. I have no witness, please save the honour of truth. I did Ardaas (standing prayer) took a Hukamnama (random reading of a hymn from Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji for guidance). When I appeared before the judge, no witness for the other party showed up. I won the case.”

(Extracts taken from Bhai Rama Singh Ji’s book, ‘The Search for the True Guru’)

* Bibi Jageet Kaur Khalsa is a French-Canadian lady who has recently been initiated into Sikhi.


THE TRANSFORMATION

By Jagjeet Kaur Khalsa

O Sweet Lord! I wander in confusion; Where is the path, where is the beacon? I grope in the dark, am weary and disillusioned; The chains of sin enslave me. I’m cold and lonely Lord! Show me the way. Your Beloved Five have I sought and they tell me; “The Light is within you.” I believe and behold! ... The door is unlocked! I knock and it glides open, I patiently kindle Your Light and it shows the way. Not looking back, I gaze straight ahead. And lo! The path is clear before me. O Sweet Lord! The path is clear kindly receive me. A pang of fear grasps my heart, I call on you, Guru Gobind Singh; You infuse me with courage; My fears and doubts dissipate. They speak of beauty, truth, duty, spirituality, Rebirth, renewal and the love of you Lord. As they speak, a flash of your light brightens my life. A load Is lifted off my shoulders, My heart rejoices: “I’ve found the Truth.” My thirst is quenched, my search is ended. O Satguru! I embrace your lotus-feet at least. I sing your Holy Naam as I take the Khande-Ki-Pahul. Your nectar Name makes me whole. The Light in me is focused to its Source. By the whisper of your Name, The sleeping crysalis is transformed into a carefree butterfly. O Waheguru! I am Your lowly servant; Nothing is mine, all is Yours; Your name do I take with every breath, I revel in Your wonderful garden; O Righteous Master! I am Yours forever; To do with as You wish; An instrument through which to work Your Will. O Generous Master! Your Name each moment do I recite; My cares flee like darkness before the dawn; In the flame of Your Name do the dreaded five* melt like butter. O Waheguru! The seed of the Khalsa grows in the soil of faith; Watered with Amrit, warmed by the love of Naam; Its roots take strong hold Its graceful stalks stand tall above the rest; Its fragrant blooms are profuse, The harvest promises to be abundant. If the seed can be assured healthy growth. O Satguru! I am a sacrifice Unto the Lovers of Your Name; The martyrs, the seekers of Truth, The upholders of Righteousness; The magnanimous souls, the innocent children The compassionate servants of humanity; The Pure ... the Satsangat ... The Khalsa!

“Truth is higher than everything, But higher still is Truthful living.”

* Five thieves: Arrogance, Anger, Lust, Greed and Attachment

Why Women Cry
From Bhai Dya Singh (Australia)

"Why are you crying?" a young naujwan asked his mom. "Because I'm a woman" she told him. "I don't understand," he said. His mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will".......... Later the little boy asked his daddy,

"Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?" "All women cry for no reason" was all his dad could say........

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to WAHEGURU JI; when He got on the phone, the man asked "O WAHEGURU JI, why do women cry so easily?"

WAHEGURU said....... "When I made women she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort....

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children......

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone gives up and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining......

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt them very badly....... This same sensitivity helps her make a child's boo-boo feel better and shares in their teenagers anxieties and fears.......

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

I also gave her a tear to shed, It's hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed. It's not her weakness, it is her strength.... It's a tear for mankind........."

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows and the beauty of a woman, with passing years, only grows!

Womanhood is the strength of the Panth. She bears our future generations. She nurtures them because she spends more time with the young. She can help Sikhi to flourish or she can bring about its demise. Sikhi is the future for mankind and 'she' is its most important tool for the future. Guru Nanak said so over 500 years ago. Let us now practice giving women their rightful place in Sikhi.

POWER TO SIKH WOMANHOOD IN THE NEW MILLENNIUM!



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