A Guide for First Time Real Life Meetings ...

Let us first explain the difference between real life and online.

You are now moving from fantasy into fact.

You are "Crossing the bridge" ... and quite possibly finding that you may never wish to return to the "vanilla" side.

All that you have talked about, and possibly enacted or scened online, now becomes reality.

Remember, online you can just click off and walk away if things are not as you desire. Real life is not that easy...

We hope that this site will assist guide and protect you, should you decide to take this first momentous step.

You will be losing your virginity again ... be aware of how special and precious this gift is ! And this applies equally to the Dom/mes and subs !!

Your first meeting is very important. You should by now have developed complete Trust in your chosen partner by online conversations, personal phone calls, emails, exchange of photographs and recommendations from those online who know the intended parties.

You should have discussed your likes/dislikes, your limitations and your safeword and safe sign.

... AN IMPORTANT NOTICE ...

We cannot stress highly enough that your personal heath and well being are paramount ... if you have any doubts whatsoever, restrict your activities or, better still, DO NOT UNDERTAKE ANY ACTIVITY WHICH PUTS YOUR HEALTH AT RISK !!

Do not be afraid to insist on the use of protective aids, such as condoms etc. If your proposed partner objects to your request to use such items ... DO NOT ENTER INTO A PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT WITH THEM !!

With this in mind you should have negotiated and fully discussed your Consensual Ownership Contract.

Having taken all these precautions you move to the first meeting.

You are now trusting your intended partner, literally, with your life !!

Please refer to our Do's and Don'ts for Real Life Meetings for a few simple rules which will help you both have a truly magical and wonderful first meeting ...