Ettiquette Listing

BiSexuals

None yet.

Darker Paths

1. most are probably night-beings. Try to schedule events, meetings and such with this crowd in early evening or nite hours. Most will not be on most friendly and receptive moods when roused early in the day. Some may not like sunlight. 

Furry

none yet.

Goth

None yet.

Hermaphrodite

1. Instead of calling them He/she him/her, rather call them Sie (instead of She/he) and Hir (instead of Him/her). These are gender neutral terms and may make herms as well as neuters and some transexuals feel more at ease then other terms. After all would you like to be called an "it" ? 

Homosexual{Gay and Lesbian}

None yet.

Host/Multiples

1. consider them as individual beings at all times.
2. do not assume cause you know or date one of the body inhabitants you know/date etc. all of the others. Meet each being in the body seperately.
3. do not ask one being to keep others from "having front". It may create internal problems if you do. 
4. Do not ask to have one member of a hosting team keep secrets from the others unless they tell you they can do such. Most cannot or cannot reliably.
5. do not butt into internal conversation or interupt when they are doing something together, unless you know it won't confuse them.
6. do not try to talk to all of the hosted beings at once, that may cause problems and loads of confusion.

Kin

1. Don't call them insane, they have heared it often enough!.
2. If you know something is said to make race X feel bad, do not try testing it on every one of race "X" you meet. You need not play scientist, even if you are curious. Asking may get better results ;P.

Neuter

1. Instead of calling them He/she/him/her/it,call them Sie and Hir, at least until you know their preferance.

Pagan

none yet.

Polyamourous {Poly}

1. its probably not the wisest to ask them to sleep with you. They are not sluts.

Psion {Psi}

1. If energetically inclined Shield. Its the best advice i can give, as some psis can pick up info and headaches otherwise.
2. If a mage, ask before involving Psis in your castings unless they wish to be. some do not like mixing Psi and other energies at the same time. Some will not even use any other energy but Psi energy in their dealings. Again knowing their preferances in this area will help.

TransGendered

1. call them by the gender pronouns as they would like to be refered as or if not sure use gender neutral terms.
2. Treat them like the gender they identyfy themselves as. Give feminine/masculine gifts and activity ideas as wished. (giving flowers to a lady-trans who wishes to be seen as a male may not be the best things, neither is giving mens cologne to a male trans who wishes to be seen as a female. Be appropiate, or if not sure ask).

Vampire {vampyre}

Walk-in

1. Respect both their families, responsibilities and life here as well as that which is elsewhere. Some may accept their mundane family and some may not. Acknoledge the family as they see fit. Be aware that many may have two lives, one here and one elsewhere.
2. Allow them to go according to their culture and custom. Some things they do may seem weired to you, but then again, christmas may be the weirdest thing for them. Let them celebrate their own holidays, follow their own religion and do their own thing.
3. If they have a chance to go home (some will some will not), do not try to force them to stay here. Think about this possibility and what to do with it before it happens, especially if you are close to a walk-in. 

Werewolf {Were}

None yet.

Wiccan

1. if you have one in the family or in your life, let them celebrate their holidays, not yours. Don;t insist they come to church with you for X-mas.
2. if you know they have rituals/holidays ongoing, do not distract/borther them during those days, unless you know it is ok or have been invited. A good way may be to ask if they planned anything already for that day.  

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-This site last updatedDecember, 2001-