Running away at 50
Running away at 50
It all began about a year ago when Mary Moody, a highly regarded and watched ABC, TV gardening presenter and personality, launched her book - called 'Running away at 50.
It was well received, mildly controversial, and a great conversation opener at parties.
In it Mary planted the first seeds of an idea that some women suddenly pack up and run away from their marital homes/ and or marriages at the magical age of 50. I think midlife crisis is the most cited reason given for this situation.
Inadvertently, she instantly gave millions of Australian women permission to even entertain such a novelle idea. After writing chapter after chapter validating her excuses on taking up such an adventure in the first place, she left many of us thirsting for more, and she did not disappoint.
Knowing, that we were all 'out there' hanging out for a sequel, she promptly delivered it a few months later, with 'A last tango in Toulouse". It may well have been her last tango. Nothing since.
Her whole adventure had taken place in the most picturesque surroundings in rural France. (where else?) Pages written with delightful descriptions of gardens, antiques, and the odd pang of guilt of how things would pan out for her once her rendevous with freedom had palled. Would her husband and children want her back? Would they have resented the freedom she had taken. Had it been a much needed sabbatical or a straight out abandonment of her responsibilities? She leaves it to the individual reader to form their own opinions on that one.
Many opinions about the book and her experiences have been aired, both on radio TV, and off course by women like me who meet other women in supermarkets, libraries, and other places we go to for a natter, and discussed what we thought of the book over coffee or whilst buying food for dinner at the supermarket.
Opinions were polarised ?it became either the " good on her camp", and the "how selfish must she be" camp.
Personally - I must confess having a dunno moment on this one. Maybe she did the right thing, maybe not. Dunno. At this point in time the undecided are still out on that one.