In a Washington Post article about cell phone contracts, and the anger and frustration people feel about them, there is mention of a unique approach to getting out of a contract. Corey Taylor, “irate” over the $175 termination fee, “faked his own death.” He made up a phony death certificate, which he had someone fax to the company, assuming the company would cancel a contract with a dead person.
It didn’t work. "In the end, I forked over the money," Taylor said. "But I bet I sent a definite message about how much people hate being strapped to a cell phone that doesn't work." Don’t be so sure.
People enter into contracts and commitments all the time. There is a service or product they desire, and they are willing to pay for it, and sometimes even to accept terms that put them at a disadvantage or risk. We want whatever it is, so we accept the terms.
Interestingly, there are church folks that become very indignant if they are asked to commit to making a financial contribution to the church. They “don’t want to be tied down” to a specific amount. What if they can’t pay it, they ask? Huh, what then??
By and large churches soften the commitment by calling it an “estimate of giving.” “What might you give this year? We don’t want you to feel pressured to do so, but, if you were to happen to give some money to the church so we can actually pay our bills and plan for ministry in the name of Jesus, roughly speaking, what amount could it potentially be? Not that we’re going to hold you to it, or anything. We really wouldn’t expect you to make a commitment, you know.”
Someone shared a church newsletter containing an article by the pastor who described a situation in which a church not only asked for a financial pledge commitment, but also asked the members to commit to how many Sundays they would attend worship. Imagine that! Asking people actually to take seriously the spiritual discipline of worshiping God! Even when there are so many other things to do on Sunday mornings!
The pastor mentioned a Sunday when there was a heavy snowfall the night before, and his low expectations for worship attendance. An elderly woman slowly and carefully made her way to the church despite the poor conditions. The pastor said, “Good morning, Mrs. XYZ. I didn’t expect to see you here today.” She replied, “It wasn’t easy to get here, but I made a commitment to attend worship. So, here I am, keeping my promise.”
Why is it so difficult to commit to the faithfulness of our time, abilities and wealth in our relationship with God, who blesses us and promises to bless us even more, when we are willing, even eager, to strike deals with people who stack the deck in their own favor and are often reluctant to keep their end of the bargain?
Updated: Wednesday, 29 August 2007 2:23 PM EDT
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