Sometimes people have questioned my involvement in marital arts. After all, I’m a minister (whatever that’s supposed to mean – whenever someone prefaces his or her comments to me with, “You’re a minister…” I take a deep breath), and when I earned my black belt I was working with the peace-loving Quakers. People also say, upon learning of my background and rank, “Well, we know not to mess with you.” Hardy – har – har.
What they don’t know is what martial arts are about. A good martial artist will never fight. He or she even will run to avoid fighting. When we teach techniques in a martial arts school, we make it clear that people are not to use the techniques anywhere else. Our Grand Master reiterated this point during the ceremony at which I received my black belt. It was part of our “10 Commandments of Tae Kwon Do,” which were recited at every class by students of all belt levels. Only if your life is threatened, or the life of another person is threatened are you justified in using the techniques. And then, you’re supposed to alert the other person of your black belt status -- just in case they want to change their mind about fighting.
At our school, we relentlessly reminded everyone of the three main benefits of martial arts training: To develop a strong mind; to develop a strong body; and to develop self-defense. Students were required to verbalize these in order to pass tests to the next belt rank. Notice that the development of a strong mind is the highest priority.
If someone comes to martial arts training with a poor attitude, they are not going to advance. They soon will wash out of the system, because there is no room for them. A proper approach does not allow for being disrespectful of anyone or for trying to injure another person. The techniques require concentration, effort, discipline, patience, and much practice. Gaining control of one’s body comes as a result of a strong mind and proper attitude. Mental and physical fitness are derived from regular practice. One class per week doesn’t get it done. Three classes is about right. And it takes years of training to be a good martial artist, because no matter how much you think you know, there is always more to learn, more to perfect. My knowledge of Tae Kwon Do expanded greatly after I earned my black belt.
Part of that has to do with the reality that black belts become teachers and role models. Like it or not, other students look up to you as a black belt, and everything you say or do is filtered through that lens. I can think of only one black belt I knew, about whose attitude I had any questions. In our system, a person simply didn’t get to that rank with a poor attitude.
The development of a strong mind, a strong body, self-control, discipline, patience, respect for all others, effort, dedication, and a proper attitude are beneficial to every aspect of life.
Personally, I don’t see any of that as conflicting with my faith commitments or vocation.
Updated: Wednesday, 22 August 2007 1:39 PM EDT
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