Dancing
With My Daughter
poems of love, wisdom & dreams
Jayne
Jaudon Ferrer
Loyola Press Charming
Read ... Recommended ... 5 stars Illustrating the phases of a
daughter's growth from infancy to adulthood, each stage is presented
by a dance: Waltz, Jitterbug, Tango, Samba, and Freestyle. Waltz
(Infancy): offers Heirloom in which an 'all thumbs' mom laments
that the family sewing talent evident in a handmade dress has
skipped a generation. Passing the Torch is a poignant peek into
a mother's memory of her childhood and wonder at the memories
she may be creating for her own daughter. Jitterbug(Toddler days
and terrible twos): presents a delightful view of the child expectant
parents dream of and the child they hold dear in the heartfelt
Her Father's (and Mother's) Daughter. Mother Magic is sure to
bring a smile to the lips of every mom as they consider their
own little princess awakening, a tad less than queenly, from
her nap. Tango (the teeny bopper years): Budding Beauty, Loaded
Question and Crush explore hopes and dreams and fears and questions
that daughters fear to ask and Mom fears to hear. Am I pretty,
will he like me, oh no, Mom caught me trying on her bra and her
lipstick and …. Samba (the house has a teenager): Mom's
Top Ten Tickets to Trouble … the poet must know my mom and
those rules for living she had in mind. Domesticity Specificity
… the poet must know my child and our divergence over the
little phrase 'clean your room.' Freestyle (that time of mixed
emotion when Mom must let go even though she desperately wants
to do anything but.) Red Riding Hood Revisited presents the hopes
and longing of grandmother, Veiled Retrospective and Mom's advice
for a daughter's 'big day,' Essential Minutiae is a glimpse at
all those important 'little things'.
The flow of writer/poet Ferrer's
writing is delicate and graceful then swinging and twirly, now
foot stomping and then swaying to the beat of the hearts of Mother
and Daughter. The reader follows Mom and child from the moments
of choosing the perfect name to birth through the terrible twos
and on to watching a beautiful butterfly emerge from the little
girl cocoon. Harmony and discord, adoration and frustration each
is realized, accepted and met with intuitive understanding that
without the one the other would not be so sweet.
September Lullaby with its heartfelt
sincerity might be the mantra for every mother trying to help
their own child cope with the uncertainty caused on 9 1 1. Words
spilling from the pages of "Dancing with my Daughter"
are filled with merriment and admonition, rueful awakening and
acceptance. The awe new mother's experience is soon offset with
the antics of a toddler bounding through the house with all the
abandon of a hippo on ice skates. Dainty dresses give way to
styles that cause a mother to cringe before a sophisticated,
stylish young woman appears. The reader considers both her personal
childhood and the bonds she is forging with her own child while
savoring the words Writer/poet Ferrer cleverly presents on the
pages of "Dancing with my Daughter".
Lovely gift book for a new mom,
Your mom, or Grandmother. While I have only sons, I enjoyed the
read, thought of my nieces and am happy to recommend.
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