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The Word: March 30, 2002

 

single awareness day
10 things to do on V-day


It's one of those days that many love to hate. And why shouldn't they? It reminds us that people who don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend are alone. What's this day, you ask? It's Valentine's Day.

I've dreaded this day for as long as I can remember. I've never really had anyone special to share this day with, and for a day to rub it in my face that I don't have a girl friend just makes me feel all lonely inside. Why create a day to show someone that you truly love them when you should show them your love everyday? Singling out a day for love only creates loneliness for some who are not as fortunate to have found that special someone yet. And I, for one, feel that way.

So what can a lonely individual do on a day for couples? A lot actually. You can get a group of people who share the same feeling you have and do something that's "not Valentine's Day" related. Treat it like any other day, and try to avoid spots that have the "couple" vibe to avoid the hurt. Watch a comedy in the movie theaters and avoid love, sappy movies. Rent one and make it a Blockbuster night if necessary.

Make a fashion statement! Don't wear red or pink! Wear something like blue, green, black, etc. Wearing red or pink will just show others you're into the spirit of Valentine's Day, and they might even ask you where your Valentine is. And what will you tell them?

tim chavez But as for me, I'm not the one to avoid it. I like to take risks and exercise my heart with pain and suffering. Crazy, huh? So what will I do on Valentine's Day? I'll tell you what. After I get out of class, I'm marching myself towards the theater and watch "A Walk To Remember" for the second time, in hopes to find someone there who's alone, too. Maybe share this lonely day with me, eh? If that works out, I'll take her to the beach and have "a [long] walk to remember".

Hey, a guy can dream!


Tim Chavez
Jacksonville, Florida
What's a single to do on a day for couples?

10. Get a group of people who share the same feeling you have. Gather 'round the sofa and rent a comedy film.

9. Avoid sappy movies.

8. Avoid spots that have the "couple vibe" in them.

7. Make a fashion statement! Don't wear red or pink! Wear black instead.

6. Sleep in so you miss most of the day.

5. Indulge in ice cream, chocolate, pizza, or anything you like to eat, and relish that you don't have to share anything with anyone.

4. Buy yourself a new jacket. You gotz the money now, right?

3. Grab all your friends, fill up the tank, and drive. When sunrise comes, turn back.

2. Find someone, dangit! Write that frickin email already!

1. March yourself to the movies and watch "A Walk to Remember" for the 1,000th time. Find someone who's alone. Ask him or her, "Would you like to take a [long] walk to remember with me on the beach?"

 


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