Basic serve
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"In denying it
we deny our nature.
In betraying it
we betray no one but ourselves.
The Master will never be happy
until he is a Master.
The slave will never be happy
until she is a slave.
It is what we are."
Page 159 - Explorers of Gor
~Basic serve~
and pointers and tips
first off.....what and why do slaves serve? Well..*smiles* to serve one Master or a Mistress is a slaves opportunity to show what is truly in their heart and soul...their "slave belly" so to speak. In a slave’s serve they are showing devotion to the ko-lar that they wear be it a personal ko-lar or a City/Camp ko-lar. This girl loves to serve...to serve to this one is a honor that is bestowed upon her...to be able to get a Master or Mistress what they require makes this one’s pulse race...her heart to pound in knowing that by doing so she is doing what she can as a mere slave to bestow honor to her Master’s ko-lar... it matters not if a girl serve her Master or another Master or Mistress...just that she serves.
some tips if You are new to the particular place You are serving in .... please take the time to observe a serve or two to see the methods of the slaves that are from that place as many places have different sets of rules or styles that they follow....many places have certain ways of cleaning the vessels...some allow tasting other don’t... some allow a drink to be sweeten from the girls heat...others do not. There are many ways of serving and many styles....it all depends on the City/Camp that You visiting... so please take the time to observe a serve or two...and if You are called upon to serve before that happens...do not be afraid to ask a kajira from there in a PM or if there is a slave coordinator or trainer there...most often they will not mind a PM either.
Another very important thing for a slave is to NEVER touch the rim of the vessel with Your lips....kiss the SIDE of the vessel. Never kiss the rim as it shows a blatant disrespect by placing your lips where a Free person may touch.
and a girl quotes..........
"He extended the goblet to me. Drink, he said, offering me the cup. I looked at the rim of the cup. I shook with terror. A slave girl dares not touch with her lips the rim of that cup which has been touched with the lips of her master, I whispered. Excellent, said Verna." ( Captive of Gor, pg 302 )
okay...one to the basic steps of serving....
Steps of a Basic Serve
I. If one is not already at the Master/Mistress’s feet ask to approach.
II. Approach the Master/Mistress and kneel in nadu if Master...Tower if Mistress **if white...always tower**
III. Ask if You may serve them... "may a girl serve You this night"
IV. repeat the drink or food order...that way if You read it wrong you can be corrected before you bring the wrong thing...and if you don't know what something is...ASK.
V. rise and take three steps back for honor, devotion and respect before turning around and heading for the servery.
VI. pick the appropriate vessel... checking the rim for mars...(on wrists, thighs...collarbone...nipples....anywhere you wish generally.)...clean the rim with a rep.... not your hair...cleaning with your hair is a online mannerism that is not true Gor.
VII. proceed to get the drink or food and prepare it if necessary...remember.....botas are for traveling and should not be used unless under certain circumstances... most are in bottles or pitchers...Ulos are knifes slaves are allowed to use to prepare food...generally chained down...and in the servery for food preparation.
VIII. move back to the Master/Mistress with the drink/food and kneel in nadu.....tower if Mistress or white silk **note** be descriptive...don't just saw kneeling in nadu/tower...remember ....this is your moment in the spotlight.
IX. here gets a bit tricky....some places require testing the drink...others only if asked...and some it is absolutely forbidden... if a drink is to be tested... do not ever touch the rim of the vessel... tip the vessel so a single drop falls on your tongue and taste it...and then hold the vessel to your heart.....waiting at least 3 not more than 5 heart beats.
X. gently caress the SIDE of the vessel...NOT the rim with your lips in a gesture of devotion....and rise your arms high in the air....lower your head to your arms and present the drink by repeating what you brought......ex...."Master/Mistress...this girl has brought You Your paga in hopes that it will quench and satisfy Your thirst this eve...and a girl hopes that her serve was pleasing to You in a small way."
XI. when drink is accepted..... move your arms quickly back to rest palm up if nadu...palms down if tower to your thighs....raising your head high...and lowering your eyes once more to await further needs or to be released.
**special notes**
1. During a server NEVER speak to anyone...do not greet....do not converse with sisters....do not do anything but the serve.
2.. In some homes it is acceptable to ask if the Free wishes anything else for them or if you may return to chores or serving others or to serving furs....but GENERALLY this is considered very disrespectful to ask to be released...you MAY ask to be of further service.
3. white silks...... remember NO HEAT in your serve unless you are serving Your personal owner...
4. and girls.... if you use extreme heat in your serves...do not throw a hissy fit if the Free wishes to use you after...if you use heat...be prepared to follow through.
5. restricted girls..... remember YOUR restrictions placed on you.... just because you are restricted does not give you a free card to use such extreme heat to appear to beg the Free’s sexual attention.
Positions...............Foods...............Drinks
Basic serve ...............RULES...............Dances
Healing...............Animals
Bazi serve
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