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Hello and welcome to the wondrous ramblings of Blue Angel's Wyzdm (pronounced Wisdom *S*). When I first started these pages, I had thought to keep all of my wyzdm confined to a single page. But as I was trying to objectively view my site the other day, I realized that these golden nuggets have dispersed themselves across the entire site. Kind of like dandelions, I suppose. So in another attempt to bring order to chaos, I have gathered some of the more inspiring ones together here. I hope you enjoy them.

Blue Bar

Comes The Dawn

After awhile you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning,
And company doesn't mean security,
And you learn that kisses aren't contracts
And presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes open
with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,
And you learn to build all of your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
And future's have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After awhile you learn that even sunshine
burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate
your own soul, instead of waiting
for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you can endure...
that you really are strong...
and you really do have worth.
And you learn and learn
with every good-bye you learn.

~Anonymous~


Blue Bar
Friends

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes with them, you know that every moment you spend with them will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you that at the time may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved,straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and down falls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to. Don't be careless with others' hearts and don't stand for anyone being careless with yours.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.

Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen to what they say.

Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you.

Create your own life and then go out and live it. Love and laugh often. Feel free to dream. Smile more. Dare to do something new. And believe that you are becoming the best that you can be.

Blue Bar
I've Learned

I've learned-
that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned-
that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

I've learned-
that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned-
that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned-
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned-
that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

I've learned-
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned-
that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned-
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned-
that you can keep going long after you can't.

I've learned-
that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned-
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned-
that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned-
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned-
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned-
that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned-
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned-
that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned-
that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned-
that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned-
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I've learned-
that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I've learned-
that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.

I've learned-
that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned-
that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned-
that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned-
that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned-
that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned-
that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned-
that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned-
that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned-
that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned-
that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned-
that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned-
that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned-
that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned-
that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

Blue Bar
I've learned... Adult Version***PG

I've learned - that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in.

I've learned - that no matter how much I care, some people are just assholes.

I've learned - that it takes years to build up trust, and only suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.

I've learned - that it's not what you have in your life but how much you have in your bank accounts.

I've learned - that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better have a big dick or a lot of money.

I've learned - that you shouldn't compare yourself to others - they are more fucked up than you think.

I've learned - you should always leave loved ones with loving words. You may need to borrow money.

I've learned - that you can keep puking long after you think you're finished.

I've learned - that we are responsible for what we do, unless we are celebrities.

I've learned - that either you control your attitude or you will be offered medication.

I've learned - that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades, and there had better be a lot of money to take its place.

I've learned - that heroes are the people who do whoever has to be done when they need to be done, regardless of the morning after.

I've learned - that money is a great substitute for character.

I've learned - that my best friend and I can do anything except see "Everest" at the museum of science.

I've learned - that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones who do.

I've learned - that sometimes when I'm angry and I have PMS, God helps all in my vicinity.

I've learned - that true friendship continues to grow, until you get your stuff back in the mail with no note.

I've learned - that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean you can't take advantage of them when they're passed out and naked in your bed.

I've learned - that maturity is a magazine for old people.

I've learned - that your family won't always be there for you. Unless you win the lottery.

I've learned - that no matter how good a chick is, she'll only contribute to your alcoholism.

I've learned - that no matter how badly your heart is broken therapy is still expensive.

I've learned - that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for all lost or stolen articles while on the premises.

I've learned - that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't have secret plans to move out.

I've learned - that we don't have to ditch bad friends because their dysfunction makes us feel better about ourselves.

I've learned - that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could be Victoria's.

I've learned - that two people can screw the exact same person and compare notes.

I've learned - that overzealous customs agents can change your life in a matter of hours.

I've learned - that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the door.

I've learned - that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. And all the less important ones just never go away.

I've learned - To say "Fuck them if they can't take a joke" in 6 languages.

Blue Bar

There's always a lot to be thankful for if you take time to look for it. For example,

I am sitting here thinking how nice it is that wrinkles don't hurt.

If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.

A penny saved is a government oversight.

The older you get, the tougher it is to lose weight, because by then your body and your fat are really good friends.

The easiest way to find something lost around the house is to buy a replacement.

He who hesitates is probably right.

If you can smile when things go wrong, you have someone in mind to blame.

The sole purpose of a child's middle name is so he can tell when he's really in trouble.

Living on earth is expensive, but it does include a free trip around the sun.

Birthdays are good for you; the more you have, the longer you live.

If ignorance is bliss, why aren't more people happy?

Most of us go to our grave with our music still inside of us.

You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.

Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.

Don't cry because it's over: smile because it happened.

We could learn a lot from crayons: some are sharp, some are pretty, some are dull, some have weird names, and all are different colors.......but they all have to learn to live in the same box.

A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.

Happiness comes through doors you didn't even know you left open.

Once over the hill, you pick up speed.

Dogs have owners. Cats have staff.

We cannot change the direction of the wind... but we can adjust our sails.

If the shoe fits......buy it in every color.

Have an awesome day...


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