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Kool Mama Kat - This Kat is on a Hot Tin Roof!
Saturday, 12 June 2004
Is there anybody out there???
Mood:  chillin'
Now Playing: The Strokes


Happy Weekend to all!

I'm taking mine for what it is. You know that song "Why can't we be fiends" that's my motto this week. I have had the worse luck in the friend department since living in Florida. I don't know if it's just part of growing up or I'm just terribly naive. I really can't answer this question and I don't know if anyone else can. One of the only 2 people that comment on my blog is gone...the other is a cat..but a way cool cat at that!

A dear friend of mine is not who she used to be. I don't know what has become of our friendship but it hurts my heart terribly. Our boys have grown up together since they were in utero...now I don't know who she is. She was once someone I looked up to and know she just breaks my heart..

In my experince making friends since high school everyone has a motive...they don't want to offer genuine freindship. If I have nothing to offer other that just being a friend then whats the point. I don't understand this kind of thinking or motivation. I may not be as exciting as the next gal but I am a damn good person with an honest heart. I will NOT wrong you.

As for men- let's just say if I was not married I would be soooo alone! I don't trust any man as far as I can throw him- except my husband of course...Men disgust men..some are so heartless and ruthless that they're a disgrace to the human race...Agenda anyone?????

If ever I am a naive person then it has to be when carrying on a conversation with another man....Just when I believe his not picturing me with my clothes off he goes and messes it all up!

I will officially dress like a nun and make no eye contact with another man as long as I live! AARRGGG!!!

My kids are God sent..really...I see God's beauty and unconditional love in them....I might not say that 6 yrs. from now when my daughter is learning to drive and dating but I can savour this moment for a little while longer...My little cherubs for sure!!

I know there is a bigger purpose for me somewhere out there..I've just yet to see it for what it really is...Is it to continue being around dysfunctional people and take what I can learn from there messed up situations...I don't know...but it is starting to wear on me...I don't want to be the company that I keep.


Scribbled by Kool Mama Kat at 8:09 PM EDT
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Sunday, 13 June 2004 - 7:57 AM EDT

Name: Muddy
Home Page: http://bloggingcat.com

I am sorry for the difficult times you are having. If you need a great purpose, I can tell you that it is for humans to serve cats. There is no greater calling for a human than to be a cat's slave. I have a couple of slaves myself and they seem fairly happy, but the mother says she got several gray hairs when her daughter learned how to drive, then her main purpose was to get through it alive. {{}} Take Care, Muddy

Monday, 14 June 2004 - 9:43 AM EDT

Name: BratCat

Friends and friendships are complicated. I wish you all the luck in the world exploring and experiencing new, hopefully honest and sincere people out there!
(I might take up blogging again soon, I'll keep you posted.)

Tuesday, 15 June 2004 - 12:02 PM EDT

Name: Me

I miss you BratCat!! Hope your doing well!

Tuesday, 15 June 2004 - 11:14 PM EDT

Name: Tris

Angel,
I have to agree with you that many people out there are selfish and have other agendas or alternate reasons for being one's friend, yet, this shouldn't discourage you. After all, this is a give-and-take world! In my eyes, the best definition of a friend is one who (without knowing) can say the right words at the right time. I personally have many friends, although I consider them more acquaintances, because they aren't genuine. I think it is very rare to find more than one or two true friends outside your kin. As for your friend who you have lost,people change over time. THis is a difficult fact to accept, especially if you cherished his/her friendship. But, sadly enough, change is inevitable. You can try to mend the ties and/or keep in touch, but remember that no matter how much one has changed, a true friend is always there [for you].
As for men..... I think all I had to say about them, I put in my sex blog a few months ago. Remember, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. I trust very few men who I know or don't know for that matter. Take it with a grain of salt. You can't change the world. Just be happy that you are apart of it. You have a beautiful family! This and a *few* good friends is all you need to have a successful life. Money doesn't hurt, but it can't buy you happiness.
Just keep the faith and offer your heart, because friendships are the greatest loves.......
P.S. Ajah, I will always be your true friend!
Love you,
Tre-ton

Wednesday, 16 June 2004 - 11:26 AM EDT

Name: Me

I love you Tristan!! I think God has put a group of Angels in my life to watch over me and you are in that group!

Wednesday, 16 June 2004 - 11:52 AM EDT

Name: BratCat

Well, that's just a kool kat spiffy blog design! love it - makes me wanna start up again...

Take care of yourself!

B.C.

Wednesday, 16 June 2004 - 11:58 AM EDT

Name: Me

Well thank ya B.C. hope to see you bloggin soon!!!!

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