Forty-five or more years ago, according to legend, children’s television icon Soupy Sales encouraged his young viewers to go into their parents’ bedroom, find Daddy’s wallet, or Mommy’s purse, take out the green pieces of paper and mail them to him at the address given. As the story goes, much to Soupy’s astonishment, he received some $40,000 from his devoted followers. He sent the money back, and got thrown off of television for his antics.
Soupy always made me laugh, and I enjoy hearing stories about him such as this one and another which I won’t repeat here.
This all came to mind when I read about a priest in Virginia who is facing 40 years in prison, plus fines, for absconding with hundreds of thousands of dollars from two parishes he “served” for a number of years. It seems they were serving him.
First of all, this Roman Catholic priest was married with children, but he lived 50 miles away from the parishes and managed to keep this reality hidden from the two congregations. Then, he gave them an address to which they were instructed to mail their contributions. The money ended up in his person account. One would think someone in the churches would be a little suspicious, or at least hesitant to comply with these arrangements.
But then, he was the pastor of these churches for only thirteen years!
Whenever I hear about or witness people blindly following a religious leader, even to the point of thoughtlessly complying with questionable practices and expectations, I truly am amazed. The Jim Jones case was an extreme example, when he led his followers into a mass suicide ritual a generation ago. There have been other cases, as well.
But sometimes people project onto their pastors images, hopes, desires, and more. I’m not sure why. Is it so they have someone to look up to? Or is it so they can let themselves off the hook of high expectations and personal standards?
My suggestion is that people in faith communities remember we’re all in this together, and while a pastor may have specialized training, and even a calling, he or she is not superior to others. He or she does not have secret knowledge. He or she is not the object of the church’s focus. He or she does not bear the burden of faithfulness or righteousness for the whole community.
The journey -- and the responsibility -- is for everyone.
Updated: Monday, 29 October 2007 8:12 PM EDT
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