Having committed to memory just about every episode of Seinfeld, I’m often reminded of something from the show. Hearing about various alternative ways of Christmas gift-giving brings to mind the episode in which Jerry’s best friend, George Costanza, a noted cheapskate who is frustrated by “everything becoming a gift-giving occasion,” tries to pull a fast one on his co-workers. As everyone else is exchanging holiday gifts, George hands out cards saying, “A donation has been made in your name to the Human Fund.” The recipients are caught off-guard by this, but try to pretend they are honored by this “gift.” Of course, there is no Human Fund, and George has honored no one – and has laid out no money.
One of the things we’re doing at our church this year is offering an alternative to buying poinsettias for the sanctuary in honor or memory of a loved one, friend, etc. There is a small Christmas tree in the back of the sanctuary on which we will hang bows for each contribution for a gift fund to be donated to a local elementary school with low-income children. The contributions may be made in honor or memory, as well, like the poinsettias.
Another church where I served had an “Angel Tree” every Christmas. The ornaments on the tree were tags with the names of young people who had a parent in prison and their Christmas requests. I was moved one year by the humility of the request on the tag we drew. It was for a middle school-aged boy who requested a pair of blue jeans and a Monopoly game.
A church in Oklahoma has begun a tradition of holding a “Charitable Market of Blessings.” The church invites charitable organizations to provide booths with information about their work, or perhaps with some items to sell. People can make contributions in honor of others, or buy the items as gifts. One of the organizers, Jeanette Heitfeld, said, “We felt last year those who came could do 100 percent of their shopping right there. They weren’t giving things that family and friends didn’t want. The giver and the recipient and the mission all gained from it — a three-way win-win-win.”
In 2006, the church raised $8,000 for the organizations, despite receiving ten inches of snow the night before the event. They hope to increase that amount substantially this year.
Other churches are establishing similar opportunities for alternative Christmas celebrations and sharing. Websites for organizations such as Global Ministries and Alternatives have information and resources available for those who want to explore these options and possibilities.
