“Have A Little Faith – You’ll Feel Better” is the name of an online article by a writer from SELF magazine. The article then presents results from a couple of studies that showed there was no discernable benefit from prayer for hospital patients. In fact, in another case, it seemed that patients who knew someone was praying for them actually had more health complications than those for whom there were no known prayers.
As I read the article, I felt the writer’s magazine affiliation was appropriate, because most of what she seemed to be saying about prayer was from a very self-oriented perspective. She labored under the notion that prayer was all about getting personal help or response from God. She is not alone in that assumption.
One positive point she made concerned benefits derived from participation in a faith community. Churchgoers live longer, according to studies she referenced, and experienced fewer instances of some of the common health and relationship difficulties than members of the general population.
Examples were given of ways besides prayer people find stress-relief and a sense of well being: yoga, meditation, Tai Chi, chanting, and others. She was clear in the article that she doesn’t believe in God, and has struggled throughout her life against her lack of a spiritual foundation.
It’s really a loss when prayer essentially is reduced to dictating a “wish-list” to God. That’s really more appropriate for Santa Claus. And it will lead to as many disappointments. For instance, abusing our bodies or minds and then saying to God, “Please make me better,” borders on foolishness and self-delusion.
I would suggest that prayer actually is about a living relationship with a living God. Yes, a person who prays makes his or her needs known to God, and also prays for the health and safety of others. But, that is part of the whole.
Prayer is offering the entire person to God, with a heart and a mind open to God’s influence. It is a way of recognizing God’s presence in life and in life’s complex contexts. It is a discipline of a maturing faith. Prayer’s desire is listening for and embracing the ways that God will lead us, or at least, open before us paths of faithfulness. Despite our more common approach, the focus of prayer is on God.
When we think only of ourselves, we leave little room for or devote scarce attention to the One who is eager and able to richly bless our lives, even in ways beyond our imagining.
Updated: Wednesday, 26 September 2007 3:53 PM EDT
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