1:  Put up a Yani's Designs link first somewhere on your site, preferably on your links section or       related section with a description (preferably).
2:  Email me, tell me you wish to exchange links with me and give a description for your site. This description will be entered into our Affiliates section if I add your link.
3:  If I accept your site, you'll receive an email informing you have been added.  If you didn't

receive any email after 1 week,  I haven't get to it yet. At this stage, you can re-apply if you like.
4:  This should only take a couple of days, although it may take up to a week.