"I was scared that I’d lose you again."
"Scared or worried?"
"Scared."
"Just like you were scared to ask me to marry you? Afraid I’d say no. There’s no passion behind what you are saying to me, which is why you are worried, not scared. Stop thinking of me as a task. I don’t need to be taken care of or carried out. It’s commitment you’re scared of, not how well you please me.
"I’m scared."
"I know you are. Came back when you find out why."