WHAT DO YOU WANT?!

WHAT GUY DO YOU WANT?

When I was a young woman, all I wanted was a guy with big muscles. So I dated a muscular guy. He was as strong as Terminator, but he beat up any other guy who would stare at me. I was afraid he would hit me too. So I dumped him when he was in jail.  

So I decided to date a romantic guy. He was so sweet: he sent me flowers every Fri. to my office just to ask me out; one time he packed himself into a box as my birthday gift... But he was also romantic to other girls... until I found out in a florist that he ordered 5 dozens roses each Fri... It was too late... he already dumped me.  

So I decided to date a stable guy. He was a "good" man. He had a PhD from MIT, and he was a Christian. But all he talked with me was M/M/1 Queuing theory. I had to dump him because when one day I said I was going to Banana Republic, he said "you don't need to go to Manhattan to buy bananas.  

There's a Korean grocery store across the street." So I decided to date an interesting guy. He was so funny. He was like "George" in TV Stein field. He made me laugh all time. But later, I couldn't laugh any more. He didn't have a job, nor did he plan to find one.  All he did was playing Mahjong and 80 Feng. I dumped him.

WHAT GIRL DO YOU WANT?  

When I was in Jr. high, all I wanted was a girl with big boobs.  In high school, I dated a girl with big boobs, but there was no passion. So I decided I needed a passionate girl.  

In college, I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency, she cried all the time. So I decided I needed a girl with some stability.  

I found a very stable girl, but she was so boring, she never got excited about anything.  

So I decided I needed a girl with some excitement. I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She was directionless.  

So I decided to find a girl with some ambition. After college, I found an ambitious girl and married her. She was so ambitious; she divorced me and took everything I owned.  

SO WHAT DO YOU WANT?  

At many times, people just go after what they want their ideal partner to be. And they neglect what that person has. Chasing after what u want is never ending and may not come to a good end.  

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