Love
Well a relationship is what you make it. But most couples that marry early ultimately divorce around early to mid forties to early 50's. That's the time when people feel there lives have whipped by and there's so much they have experienced and their lives become mundane so they look for exciting possibilities in another person whom can create excitement for them A good relationship has got to be one of the most difficult things to understand not just with another sex than your own but with parents, friends siblings etc.

I love what I did. Everything in my life I don't regret. I don't regret a single thing. I'm happy because I'm so lucky in all event he bad and horrible stuff. I learned a lot from those

Characteristics
Honesty is very important. The glue to the picture I always pray to be happy because once you have that everything else falls into place. I am the same as before but much more mature, and I grew so much quicker because of all of my social exposure and my having to be so independent. I never had manager you know, I had to do everything myself, down to bookkeeping house cleaning working. It wasn't till later I was successful that I got a house cleaner

I believe in fate to a degree then of course you steer. You can be given a car but how you drive it will determine where you will go with it.

Intelligence no, but you have to be willing to learn. You have to absorb like a sponge, but some people just drip. I don't mind arrogant people so much because arrogance sometimes comes from the family. I don't mind arrogance if they deserve it but of course some non deserving arrogance is kind of irritating but I despise stupidity the most. There are some stupid people in this world that are plain stupid but are very nice. Those I love. The ones I'm talking about are the ones that are intelligent in general but they are so full.  Some people have the capacity to learn and are very intelligent but this is the arrogance I don't like. Some people can learn but don't because they don't think they should take orders or they think they are right or whatever now that is the stupidity I don't like, not the natural ones

Life
My expectations are high. Aren't yours. My expectations are as high to myself as it is to anyone else. I am as hard on myself. But that is how I succeed. You cannot succeed and be successful without high expectations. That is what adults today do not teach the children. That is why so many youngsters are so lazy

If you don't have high expectations and you only want to be a restaurant waiter and you think well that's fine I'll just be a waiter I will be happy. That is fine if you are happy. If you lie to yourself and tell yourself you are happy with that and you don't shoot for higher expectations then you will always be a waiter and maybe you will or will not be happy, BUT if you want to go higher then say you want to be manager or owner of the restaurant then don't your goals have to be higher, don't you think you will have to work your butt off to own it? You can't just own it by giving the same amount of effort as you would being a waiter

Well, if your happy with it then that's fine. Happiness is ultimately the best thing, but only if your happy. I respect that, but then I will not respect it if one day I hear you wish you could do this and do that, but be sitting on your butt wishing it and not doing something about it.

I put a lot of pressure on myself, but that is where I get my adrenaline and if anyone works for me they have to be prepared. I would have to have someone work for me that wants the same thing. Then we would get along. It will be the same when you find a husband. Ultimately it will be better if you found one that likes also to do what you like. If you find an opposite then it may be hard to get along. same thing in business. I need to find someone who suits my needs. That's all= 

I like that kind of personality and it is suited to me. I like it when people are straight and quick witted and intelligent in their thoughts. Not just in my field in any field. Workaholics are almost always successful, unless they are workaholics with bad judgment. It is ultimately worth it. The rewards you reap are self satisfaction el biggo!

All my very successful friends whom have secretaries are all women whom I can also learn from. I have seen so many great secretaries and I even had 2 already but they both had husbands and couldn't work the hours and I keep in contact with them even now. I used to have one that was so brilliant she would finish all the tasks I give her in 1 hour or so. She is now in marketing earning tons of money. Because she was too good to be a secretary. So  don't think that there are not intelligent people in this world. all my friends of my age or older are much brighter than me and work much harder than me even. I am no comparison to them but I wish I was so I strive to better myself even now. If you cannot be what others are you should not think that they are not out there. Just you don't want to be. Like I said I respect your opinion so I would hope you would respect mine too. I do not say everyone has same expectation as you right ?

My guideline is to chose people that have the same thought wave as me that's all. Anyone can be my friend and anyone can be yours too. I work very hard and that is what I preach to people but please don't follow me if that's not what you want. It is only my advice. it is your freedom to follow or not, but you cannot put down what I feel or feel it is not right. You can disagree no problem.

Lam is not the same as me with everything in life, but he has high goals in general. I have high goals with every little detail, but he is in general. If they are going to supermarket and back and it makes them happy then so be it, but if they are not happy it would be wise for them to try a little harder. They should try going to the bank too ...then next town, next city and pretty soon they'll be really going places.

You CAN be great if you want, just depends on IF YOU WANT.