2 months later
In December of 2004 I got a letter from my mother which was none to nice and how much of a screw up I am and this that and the other. 2 weeks later I was at a friends house actually my neighbors. She had someone a friend of her's which was all to blind to her conniving ways ended up calling the cops after I got into an argument with my mothers friend Sue. Cops show up 45 minutes later and I walk out of my neighbors house expecting harressment charges and no supposedly I was trying to kill myself- first it was with a knife then with medicine. They asked me how I knew they were coming and I told them. Well they had to drag me to the hospital for an evaluation blah blah... pretty much to cover there asses. They first found out were the call was made from MY MOTHERS HOUSE then went and checked it out my mom got purgery charges pressed against her by the cops. Ended up wqith a choice at the begginning and ended up having to only pay the hospital bill.....

Ok ur wondering what this has to do with married life right, my poor husband was drug through this whole thing all because my mom didn't like him for being such a supportive and caring guy. So we my husband and I get into our first argument on what to do about this. Thank god he was real sweet and understood to this day for more then this he can not stand my mom...
You know what surprises me after almost 2 years of marriage, arguments over money and a kid we still love each other and still manage to have some form of a life. Even though this couple has turned to three and we really don't have a life we are still getting along over all... Don't ask how for getting married at 19 and all this stuff that's happened to me and we have been through the small stuff still counts.

From My Wedding Day and beyond
Mood:  don't ask
Now Playing: Needles- System of a down
I met my husband after moving back here from Jersey. Long story so we will start from the begining.
I met my husband through my brother in law. Lets say that I used to date him we will use a fake name for my brother in law. How bout John. Ok I dated John for 6 months we broke up because he cheated on me. I moved to back to Jersey and ended up living there for 3 months. Moved back here and in February his brother my husband and I started talking 3 days before Valentines I asked him out for the 3rd time. It started off with let's go boyfriend/girlfriend shopping and ended up in maybe you don't have to go to far. In March on my birthday this is 2004 we started dating by May we were hanging out all the time at my mom's house and I suck at chess so my mom told me that if I won another fake name Kyle had to marry me. So I eventually lost another game. In May 2004 I ended up getting kicked out because I wasn't supposed to be walking to town remember I am 18 yrs old a ward of the state no more don't have to listen to anyone and really p.oed at my mom. She smacked me and we got into a big argument so I decided to go for a really long walk 9 miles of it!! I went to Kyle's house and asked if I could spend the night because I needed to cool off and that was the end of it my mother blew her lid and I was out of the house. 3 days later I lost my job at the Nursing home and a week later I was officially living in my mother to be
home. In October 2004 my husband and I got married. The wedding was planned in 2 weeks and we were living on our own and had decided we wanted to live with each other for the rest of our lives. I was talking to my mother at this point just had a miscarriage a month before and had a very small wedding. My husband's Aunt Uncle and 3 kids went, my mother in law and Sister in law and father in law came and so did but whole trumpets my mother and stepfather. Short quick and to the point kinda wedding. Obviously my mom had to start something and it started with my wedding dress she didn't like it it made me look to fat. Then my husbands mom came in and I called her ma well that made her flip I told her to leave because in technicalities she was more of a mother to me in 6 months then mine had been my entire life!! I ended up punching the wall leaving a dent in it and went inside and cried. A womens worst nightmare. That was the beginning. Then we had our ceremy in front of a bueatiful gazebo outside a lovely restaurant. Later we went to my parents house for cheesecake which I smooshed in my husbands face and her friend Dina came over I was aggravated.

November we had our wedding reception and that was another screwy deal. Everyone we could think of came to that but again my mom got pissed off because my husbands parents were sitting at the head table (also a part of the wedding groomsman and bridesmaid.) And I didn't realize I had to introduce her to people she already knew. Then the big one my aunt was coming and my husband's boss two people she hated and despised because they were better then her and literally were, she left in a jiffy.. Pissed car squealing and rubber burning .....
Later that night we went to my parents in law and had a few drinks went up and slept the night away!!