You Decide

These days there's a lot of hassle within people that it's to blame someone else for what happens. But really, think about the situation before you start hating, blaming and bringing people into situations where they don't belong as they  haven't done anything but try to stay away from it.

So many fights/ arguments are started from the past, "I can't believe they are with my ex." "I can't believe they would do that." etc. But look at the facts, if you've been apart from your ex for a year of more, or for 3 months over  then try let it go. If you can get on with other guys in that time frame then how can you be angry? You can't hate someone that you know eg "a friend" for wanting to be with that person. Put it this way, would you hate the person your ex is with if you didn't know them? Or is it just the fact you know them and they are your friend that's getting to you. That's making you despise them?

If you can call someone a friend before they start dating someone then you can call them one while they are dating them, why should it change? Did you break up with them, what was the reason? Did you make a move on them? Or not? It's all involved in asking questions in life. If you don't ask you don't get anywhere, the same theory goes for everything in life. "You don't ask, you don't get answers." It's as simple as that. But honestly, to just turn on a friend, because they fall for someone, then really look at yourself, what kind of person are you really? Everything happens for a reason and remember that. Be a friend and stick by them, be a friend not an enemy.

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