Reflections

After a while
you learn the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul.

And you learn
that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't mean security,

And you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises,

And you begin to accept
your defeats with your head up
and your eyes open,
with the grace of an adult,
not the grief of a child,

And you learn to build
all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground
is too uncertain for plans.

After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much.

So plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul,
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.

And you learn
that you really can endure...
That you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.

credit to: Veronica A. Shoffstall & Barbara Cowdy

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