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COURTESAN ALLIANCE AMAZON 2015 first novella by SWEET WINE!

 

 

 Gurl Get Yours! Free read on sex, passion,and facts by Sweet Wine!

 

Summer 2014

 

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Revitalize Sensual Play

By Sheryl Collins

No one can ignore the benefits of water. It have the ability to heal and nourish the human body. It is one of the most natural play that can be experience sexually with a partner.  We are naturally naked and relax with our partners. This helps to set the mood for a time of pleasure. As a soap and candle crafter many things can contribute to water sex. It does not matter if you are in a bath tub or a  Jacuzzi sex can be  enjoy. Some of things you would like to consider is the aroma, decorative bath, and the massages that can be given during this intimate moment.
 
Aromatherapy do not just help heal our emotions but help us heighten them as well. If you are looking for oils that have wonderful sensual qualities you might include ingredients  like cederwood, cinnamon, cloves, jasmine, neroli, patchouli, rose, sandalwood, and ylang ylang. These oils is known for its aphrodisiac effects. So while browsing though the soaps for a two people bath, it would be in your favor to look for arousing aroma tempers. Many brand soaps provide those soaps at a reasonable cost. Bath and Body aromatherapy Sensual blends jasmine. If you are not in two big chain name brands than try Caress Scarlet Blossom that has patchouli oil or Endless Kiss  that is blended with sandalwood. Bath salts can be just excellent to have and is one of the most easy form of soap that can be made.  Most salts use for baths are sea salt, Epson, and Himalayan pink salt. Many of these salts help to provide relieve to sore muscles. It is also a way to sneak a little aromatherapy into your bath for two. These can be bought by many sea salt produces. One I like is http://robersonseasaltsforbaths.angelfire.com/
 
Soap dye is optional. Once you start to blend your own recipe for sexual moment, you will be able to add more oils and scent together that work best for you and your lover.
 
Rose petals is not just romantic on the bed but also in water. Passing by a local plant nursery can help create that romantic scene. Roses petals make baths beautiful, sweet, and appealing. Roses is known to have therapeutic  benefits which includes being a antibacterial, antidepressant, and calms the nervous tension. If you are not into plants, you can always order online to places like fiftyflowers.com to Amazon.com. Here is steps to making a rose bath:
 
1. Fill the tub with hot warm water.
2. Gently spread the petals throughout the tub. Allow the scent and roses to soften the water.
3. Wait until the water is warm and comfortable. It is time to relax with your partner in this romantic environment.
 
Do not forget the candles. One thing that bring out a night of water, wine, and soap is candles. You never want to be in your romantic spot without the lights dim or by candle light. Candle making is not as hard as it seen. There is many retailers who make life simple for us. Many of those retailers sell candles. You can find them in any store ranging as cheap as a dollar. Many women today have a local candle maker they buy from. So you would want to put in your order for scents like roses, jasmine, and sandalwood. Your bath is complete and set.
 
Soaking together in a bath tub can be a delightful intimacy playtime. Soaping your partner with the right aroma soap while including a sensual massage can lead to a positive sex mood. Things like grabbing his chest or caressing his penis while he reward you tender touches to you breast is great foreplay. Shampooing each other hair can transform into sex while sitting on him running your fingers though his hair. Bathing can be a time to massage tired and tense muscles.  It is also a good place for the revitalize sensual play.

 

 

 

 

Spring  2014

 

 

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                                                                                Married Diva

                                                                                by Sheryl Collins

 

Role playing in sex can be rewarding. Many women play as nurses, teachers, maids or even law enforcers. It gives us the feel of child play when we were younger. The one thing I loved the most doing is being a bedroom diva. This should be done on a very special occasion. It might be your lover’s birthday, an anniversary or maybe Christmas or Valentine Day. There is a little work to it because you are not just a stripper with a wig and a song on the radio lip-synching. Let’s face it your man would love to see all your goodies bare naked but strip clubs offer the same. Most of all every females have an inner playgirl. So it is normal to hear your lover call you cupcake, honey and baby in public by strangers. This is where you want to build from. A bedroom diva bring out your creativity. I know it is hard to believe but a female pastor one said what you got to get him you have to continue to do keep him. It does not matter how lady like you are you can achieve the bedroom diva.

 

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One of the first thing you would have to do is start writing. Lyric writing is a craft and not just some raw talent. That is right. Let your love pour on the page. Maybe your man nickname is boss, a Mr. Big, or stallion. You want all those heated emotions put into words. I recommend using the basic rhyming scheme. Remember this is between you and your lover. It is the thought and work put into it and not if you master the skill of lyric writing. The basic scheme starts with a simple format. I call it the A,B and C. Here is an example of A,B and C scheme.

The Basics

 Example: ABCB

         A

Roses are red

          B

Violets are blue

            C

Your sex is so hot

                                B

 

I am going to make your dreams come true

 

There are many online rhyming dictionaries that will help you to match your scheme. There is a free trial try of Master Writers software for poets and songwriting. It can be found at masterwriter.com. It might take a little while to get your words together but here is some steps while your sex diva come alive.

Tips:

 

  1. Save everything and throw nothing away. This is the first thing that writers learn. The reason behind this is because you never know what you can use later when an idea hits.
  2. Analyze other sexual songs you enjoy or that releases your sexual energy. This will help later when you are putting your lyrics to music.
  3. Show it and don’t tell it. If  your vagina throbbing don’t say I am hot. Put some creativity to and say your overheated amazon.
  4. Make yourself write even when you have writer block, if it is bad, or it make no sense at all.

 The bedroom diva has put her emotions on paper. You can actually sing it yourself. 

 

 

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You are ready for step two. That is finding someone to sing it and put some music to your grooving. I thought this step would be the hardest. The truth is there are many companies on the web doing demos for lyric writers. Some ranging lesser than two hundred dollars. Make sure you explain to the company you choose that you are doing this for a special occasion. The reason is that some only choose songs that have possibility of being sold. I am pretty sure if they understand your reasons it can be done.

 There are also local recording studios in most large cities. You might have a problem finding someone to sing it. So take that into consideration. After you have found the right company to make your demo and bring life to your words, you need to figure out will it be one instrument, a band and how many vocals. We all know it will be a female singer but what kind of music? Would you want a ballad or tempo? Should song be sung in country, pop, R&B? This is the few decisions you will make on your order. Here is a belief vocabulary.

One instrument

A piano or guitar played alone.

Band

A group of five instruments to make a unique sound.

 

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While you preparing for your demo arrive you might want to start thinking on an outfit. Who is your inner sex diva? Many places like Fredrick of Hollywood, Victoria Secret  can be found right in your local area. You can also search the web for stores like your nipplecovers.com or stripperboutique.net.  Will you need a wig? Your local hair store have many wigs and costume stores as well. Do you need to lose a few pounds to make her come true? Most of all you want to start buying exercise tapes like Flirty Girls collection or some Carmen Electra Striptease. Let’s face it Zumba is on hold for tonight. You want to work up a sweat in the bed and not the dance floor. Some of us girls who play divas watch music videos on YouTube. It can help give you ideas on your performance while learning a few. If you are close to forty or forty plus and don’t have an idea. Do what I do, talk to the younger generation of girls. I find dance moves from my daughter and nieces. Get the in style. You not too old to twerk. Remember this is a private moment between you and your lover. There is no judges to rate you. So drop it like it’s hot. Make sure you do your check list.

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Check List

1.       Outfit

2.       Makeup by a local department

3.       Cosmetologist or Nail Tech appointment  

4.       Arrangement to be alone

                     Practice schedule when demo arrives.

 

          It is here! The demo of your song has arrived. Your bedroom diva is completed. Now you have to sample all those good moves you learn while exercising to make a licentious diva striptease he will never forget. Show off your G-string tong, lingerie, nipple covers, Marilyn Monroe costume. Enjoy the behind the red curtain tonight while you perform and not being on the red carpet. I bet your lover will think twice of that night when he see another music video. A bedroom diva just for him.

 

 

Winter 2014

Affordable Safe Way for a Girl to Keep

 

Updated on her Sexual Health

 

By Sheryl Collins

 

 

 

This is the new age. Women are responsible for themselves. We are no longer hiding away our sexuality like our fore mothers but we are enjoying sex as much as men.  The Obama Care setting a site to help provide people with insurance, a woman must take care of her sexual health. America has weigh the pros and cons option to making preventive care to all people many women pay over hundred dollars to a gynecologist for a simple STD test. Let’s face it girl if your active you need more than one screening during a routine yearly pap. That includes in our changing love lives which include going back to an old relationship, a new boyfriend, or maybe you took on the risk at your employer party and had a wild night with a coworker. Whatever the reason is for another STD screening, it can be affordable.  I am a retired medical secretary that actually worked at a city local Public Health department in Sexual Transmitting Disease. Many women find reasons to avoid these places. I am here to say girl you can get a STD screening for more than fifty percent less than the price at a gynecologist.

 

The one thing that bother women is privacy.  One thing women care more about than their hair or shoes is their reputation. Our sexual reputation is very important to each woman for many of reasons.  Mostly every city in United States have a city public health department and most of them have a clinic just for sexual transmitted diseases. If you are not comfortable with your surrounding at home than let your fingers do the walking in the yellow pages to the next city over.  I have interviewed clients from neighboring cities to people who drove for two hours or more to keep their sexual behaviors private.  One thing I learn working with men clients that they actual pass up their family doctor. You can find them also signing in as clients for testing. If you have a cheating lover there is a possible chance he might be a walk in to clear it up the issue before you find out. All places that provide medical treatment follows HIPPA laws. HIPPA law protects all patient information whether if it is oral, paper, media, or electronic. No one on the outside knows your results.  Some results like hepatitis or HIV is not giving to even a medical secretary but a professional.

 

The one thing that make a sexual transmitted disease clinic a better choice for a your routine sexual transmitted disease checks is that all the services is surrounded by your sex life and health. I have interview hundredths in my career. I have found each person as an individual. You can confide in secret things that most people will not say. Let’s face it how many of your girlfriends tell you that they practice oral or anal sex as well. Do you have more than one partner? Are you hetro, same or bi sexual? Make sure you have proper treatment which can be over look at a routine STD screening at your gynecologist while sitting among expecting mothers and children. It is true that yeast infections and other disease can live in your mouth or rectum as well than your vagina. Some city clinics provide counselors who talk to you one on one. They help to educate you on sexual diseases. A train professional like a doctor or nurse will do the examine, a prescription will be written out and given to you after the service. If the train clinical staff see fit that you need medicine immediately he or she will provide it to you. In a few weeks your test results are in for those that are send off to the lab. A secretary like myself will talk to you and give you any additional information. Except for results like HIV will the results are giving in private by a professional.

 

Many city public health departments check for the common STD’s. It is important for women to understand symptoms. Here is a list on most common sexual transmitted diseases.

 

Chlamydia

 

There is no symptoms in most women and at least half of men.

 

Those who have symptoms will experience discharge from vagina or penis.

 

A burning during urination that can be painful.

 

Ectopic pregnancy and infertility are serious complications.

 

 

Gonorrhea

 

At least half of women have no symptoms.

 

A discharge from the vagina or the penis.

 

A burning during urination that can be painful.

 

If untreated ectopic pregnancy, pelvic inflammatory disease and infertility and Fitzhugh Curtis syndrome.

 

 

Syphilis

 

This disease starts with a painless ulcer that goes away.

 

Soon a rash, a fever, headache and achy joints are developed.

 

Serious complications is not seen until later stages of the disease if not treated.

 

 

 

Hepatitis

 

There are many forms of hepatitis ranging from A to E. The most common seen sexually is hepatitis B and D.

 

Hepatitis is transmitted though blood. Thirty percent of the cases are transmitted though sexual contact.

 

The initial phase last a few weeks and clear up.

 

Acute infection can cause yellowish skin, fever, achy and flu like symptoms.

 

Hepatitis B can cause acute and chronic form of liver inflammation.

 

Severe complication include cirrhosis and liver cancer.

 

Immunization are available to prevent hepatitis B.

 

 

HIV/AIDS

 

No specific symptoms is confirm with HIV infection.

 

The average time from infection is ten years.

 

Many experience fatigue, night sweats, chills or fever lasting several weeks, headaches and cough may occur.

 

Serious complications include unusual infections or cancers, weight loss, intellectual deterioration and death.

 

No cure and medicine only slow disease progression.

 

 

Genital herpes and Genital warts

 

Testing for genital herpes and genital warts vary among clinics. You should give a call to all clinics to find out if this service is given.

 

Genital herpes is outbreaks of blister like sores on the genitals.

 

It can be given to your baby during time of birth.

 

This disease can be transmitted by partner who has no blisters at the present time.

 

Genital warts

 

This is cause by human papillomavirus

 

Small painless bumps in genital or anal area occur.

 

Vaccines are available against HPV.

 

 

 

If you need more than one sexual transmitted disease checkup than do no neglect yourself. There are many clinics out there for treatment. Do not forget the goodies they have at the counter. There is condoms for everyone. That include for males and female. For our ladies that like peppermint in our mouth, there are oral condoms. That’s all to it. Stop running away from local services that can keep you updated on your sexual health. Any way you can save that extra money from all the screening for STD’s  at your gynecologist. You can hurry down and buy a few toys for tonight or pass by Victoria Secret and grab some new panties. Do get your yearly pap from your gynecologist but go to local city health department for your sexual transmitted screening.