i was married to a abuse man i stayed with
him for many years i th0ught he was gods gift
he would go out on me then come home and beat
me real bad i still stayed 'UNTIL i walked
in on him and my 4 year old daughter; IT
broke my heart i had to help my baby'i had 4
children all but one was sexualey abused.
Dont think they will tell' we were all very,
very, close 'not one tould.i pressed charges
on him; he went to jail for 6 mounts, my
babies were scared for life. HE got out of
jail and died in a car reck. MY kids still
have night mares,THEY are all growen and have
children of their own,And now grandma trust
no one .no not even their dads, So if they
tell you how much you mean to them and they
will change and you have tried,
PLEASE,PLEASE,FOR GOD;S SAKE GET OUT
BEFORE' something bad happens to you and your
children;
BELIVE me it wont
change'''''i know ''''i've been there''''
MAY GOD KEEP YOU ALL SAFE''!
!''''
I was 21 years old. I met a guy who I thought
was sweet, caring and romantic. I fell in
love with him. I should have realized the
type of person he really was when he pushed
me down the stairs.
I guess i was more in
shock and sisn't realize just how bad it was
going to get. about seven months later I got
pregnant, we were oth happy. Untill he
started going out every night and coming home
the next day. But remeber I was pregnant. I
wanted my child to have a father. The first
time he hit me I wasabout 2 months pregnant,
all because I told hime that I had no moey to
give him and thatI felt he should stay home.
He hit me several times after that, we were
evictd from our apt, and had to move in with
my mother until the last month of my
pregnancy. We found an apartment, he was
still hanging out almost every night. Then
our duaghter was born the hitting stop for
awhle but then it started again. Only because
I would tell him he had to take care of his
responsibilites. The we got evicted from that
apartment too. We moved back to my mother's
but this time she had moved. He was still
hitting me. He said it was because of my
"attitude"
Then I got pregnant again. Had
my 2nd daughter. But of course he still
hit.
All this time he was also cheatig on me. I
remeber one time he hit me with a trophie
across my back. Then He pulled a knife on me
not once but twice. He's chocked me, bit me,
pulled myhair out, bashed my head against the
wall, Towards the end he decided to move
his
girlfriend in. But I finally had enough. i
had to get away.
So I moved out of state
with my 2 children, filed a restraining order
in the state that i live in. I'm currently
staying with my father, but in the 2 moths
that I've been here, I'm working (temp), I
bought a car, and got my drivers license. My
29th B-day is coming up in about 2wks and I'm
going to celebrate
. I have a lot to
celebrate about. My children are doing well.
I also have a male friend who is ther for me
and listens to me and ecourages me, tells me
positive things and tells me that I'm worth
more than life itself, I'm also seeking
counceling on an individule and gruop basis.
So are my children. As for him my mother
pressed charges on him for aggravated
harrasment. He will be sentenced this
week.
And that is my story. I am
a
survivor.
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