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A Group
Named OUTCAST
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You
know she's on the prowl the second she walks in the door.
She's the one with the insatiable need for little red
dresses and reptile pleather pants, the girl who fakes
being drunk before having a beer, that chick who appears
constantly underdressed and clearly on a mission to get
laid. She's the girl I see frequently on weekends and,
for lack of a better term, have unaffectionately dubbed
"Crackwhore." Worse than that, she embodies
the prime reasons women get no respect.
It's
a universal truth that has long been established:A woman
who commands no respect will get none, and men who've
learned through previous experience that they needn't
give respect to women will seek out such easy targets.
Women like Crackwhore are not only easy targets, but they
unfortunately help establish a standard of treatment of
women. They've taught society that women don't need to
valued, but are rather throwaway sexual toys for men.
It's a vicious circle in many respects, but the only way
to stop it is to stop being so stupid. Women like Crackwhore
have a hard time freeing themselves from their own stupidity
because they don't realize that they are being used -
they blindly think that they are using their powerful
feminine wiles to use men. They have this delusion
of freedom, a freedom to get laid by whomever they want
whenever they want, but the truth is that they are willing
participants in the destruction of the strides of feminism.
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The
irony of this is that it is the very feminist progress that
made dressing less conservatively, going out to bars, and
getting smashed
A
woman who commands no respect will get none, and men
who've learned that they needn't give women respect
will seek her out. |
socially acceptable for women that has now turned on us.
It's allowed us a new means of demeaning ourselves and stupid
women like Crackwhore are taking the bait. Instead of being
constrained by societal pressures to be the perfect little
wifey, they've used our freedom to put women in a position
where men once again devalue us. In the end, these women
don't get what they want anyway - they turn themselves into
boy toys, sleeping with anything they see for some sort
of reassurance of their worth, and then wonder why they
can't meet a real man. The unfortunate truth is that women
like Crackwhore make the rest of us look bad. If women have
to wonder why we have fought so hard and gained so little
respect, we must look amongst our ranks. Women like Crackwhore
have unquestionably set women's rights back decades...some
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Maybe
it's not fair to stereotype all women, but everyone else
does, so it's important that the stereotype we create
is a worthwhile one. We can't continue to be thought of
as less intelligent than men, as disposable sexual toys
for men, and mere progenitors of the male kind. But it's
gonna require a lot of work, and a loud wakeup call for
women like Crackwhore. We're gonna have to try harder
to command the respect we deserve, and we have to live
up to it. You can't fight the fight by just going through
the motions, we have to reshape our ideas of freedom and
live in a way that supports those ideals. We also need
to redefine success for women as not how many men she
can stir desire in, but rather but real successes, like
personal and interpersonal achievements. And I'm sorry,
but making a "College-Degree Barbie" simply
isn't enough, we need real role models and real goals.
In
short, woman's biggest enemy is herself. We need to stop
turning out these hopelessly dependent women who mess
things up for the rest of us. And we have to learn to
try band together; one of the biggest things we have to
overcome is the fact that women can be so overtly mean
to each other for no good reason. (I'm guilty of this
too, obviously.) At any rate, we need to learn to stick
up for each other - if we don't, no one else certainly
will.
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