just a little misplaced
Mood:  not sure
i am truly disappointed. i grew up around kind, courteous men who were respectful to women and i just assumed all men was that way. ha. whatever happend to chivarly? the code of chivarly is pretty much based on courtesy, honesty, and self respect. i guess in our era of equality among the sexes and stong feminist influences, men no longer feels the need honor this role. and why should they? women have lowered our standards as a whole by accepting this and allowing themselves to settle.
roles of the sexes have changed slightly since the times of the 19th century. women back then were passive and was expected to be a wife, mother, and home maker. men were the bread winners and women were to be seen not heard. even in the 19th century, women were unhappy because even back then they were unappreciated for thier efforts. the only difference today is now women have a voice. a voice i believe that is not used to potential. today women are still expecting to play this role that has been the norm for centuries. and just to add more to their plate todays society make it difficult to live on a single income. dual incomes are required just for survival--this means women have to work outside the home and still perform duties at home. wtf? i dont understand how we do it. i personally have a hard time trying to balance home, work, and family. yes, i feel underappreciated and hostile towards the situation when i feel i am being assumed "lazy" because i honestly did not have time to wash the fucking dishes in the sink!
i would not have a problem most of the time if i felt appreciated for being a woman. i have old school beliefs that each woman and man have certain roles that are important to the sucess of the relationship. i believe chivarly is not dead --- maybe just a little misplaced.
every girl and women are princesses and should be treated as such. despite of the era we live in, honest, gentlemenly gestures are always welcome. a door being held, being wined and dined in dating, or occassional flowers or surprises to break the monotany relationships tend to in to. i believe a man should alway hold his lady dear and questions "what did i do to deserve such a wonderful woman?" i'll tell you what he did? he respects, cherishes, and loves his woman. he proves that chivarly is just not a figment of our imaginations. with this being said---it would be an honor to cook him dinner.
when mutual respect is present in the relationship, then i would have no problem playing the stereotypical woman role. i would prepare meals with love and darn socks with care without being bitter and resentful.
i just get so disgusted when i see women out there working thier ass off, taking care of the kids, and going home to a man who has done nothing but sit on his ass all day cause hes too depressed to find a job. she is setting a very bad example to our younger generation that this behavior is ok. because of this, chivarly has died down little by little by the fault of thier "role models". great example your setting retard!
its really sad that i actually get a little excited when a man holds a door for me.

where have all the cowboys gone? and why are some women such dumb bitches?