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***People who have good relationship are more likely to work on their conflicts in more healthy ways. Relationshop just happen, but more often, they need to be initiated and then nurtured. Commit yourself to working constantly on the total relationship not just the conflict.***
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*It is a mystery how it happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why some loves grow and it is a mystery why some loves fail.
You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do any more than take the life out of the experiences. Jus as life itself is something more than the sum of the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body, love is more than the sum of interest and attractions and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift and comes and goes in its own time, so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways.*
~Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life the gift of love will come to you in full flower, and you will take hold of it and celebrate it in all its inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.~
*When it happnes to young people they too often try to graps the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a gift freely given and a gift that just as freely moves away. When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try to desperately to reclain the love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.*
~They want answers where there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong with them that makes the other person no longer love them, or they try to get their lover change, thinking that if some small thing were different love would bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if they go far away and start a new life together their love will grow.~
* They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they accept its own mysterious ways they live in a sea of misery.*
~ You need to know this about love, and to accept it. You need to treat what it brin to you with kindness. If you find yourself in love with someone who does not you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.~
*If you find someone else in love with you and you don't lover her/him, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how love will deal with you, and all out hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lves and ways are very different.*
~If you fall in love with another, and she/he fall in love with you, and then love choose to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. Let it go!!! There is a reason and there is a meaning. You know it in time, but time itself will choose the moment.~
* REMEBER THAT YOU DON'T CHOOSE LOVE!!! LOVE CHOOSES YOU:)*
~ All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Fell the way if tills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who seems poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.~
*This is where many lovers go wrong. having been so long without love, they understand love only as need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather that from them.*
~In the first blush of new love they are filled to overflowing, but as their love cools they rever to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that can be made to grow only by giving it away.~
~Remember this, and keep in in your heart. Love has its own time, its own season, and its own reasons for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it whenit arrives and give it away when it come to you. But if it chooses to leave, from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live a moment in your life. If you keep your hear open, it will come again.*
A Romantic Poem
by Joseph Cruise
It's you I love
I will forever
You may change
But I will never
Time may come
When we must part
But time will never change my heart
I do believe that God above
Created you for me to love
And picked you out from all the rest
Because he knows I love you best
~* fall in love*~
Did you ever love someone,
but knew they didn't care?
Did you ever feel like crying,
But knew you'd get nowhere?
Did you ever close your eyes,
And say a little prayer?
Did you ever look into their heart,
And wish that you were there?
Did you ever watch them walk away,
Not wanting them to go?
And whispered, 'God I love you...'
But never let them know?
You cry all night in misery,
And almost go insane.
There's nothing in this whole wide world,
That causes so much pain.
If I could choose between love and death,
I think I'd rather die,
Love is fun, but it hurts too much,
The price you pay is high.
And so, I say, don't fall in love,
You get hurt before it's through.
You see my friend, I ought to know,
Because I fell in love with you.
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