My last two days were spent making a fast trip to Wabash, Indiana, to see my best friend from seminary who is experiencing escalating health difficulties. Clark was a teenager when he developed diabetes, and the last decade or so has brought increasing ravages from the disease.
He has endured amputations, eye surgeries, congestive heart failure, strokes, heart attacks, arterial blockages and more. A recent series of hospitalizations got me thinking it was time for a visit. So, I went.
Wabash is where I spent a couple of years in student ministry while I was a student at Christian Theological Seminary in Indianapolis. It was kind of strange to visit the town again after all these years. I stopped by the church and was greeted warmly by the current pastor, Cecil Cook. Also, I spoke on the telephone with another person who was a church member and friend, who now is a licensed lay minister.
Clark's oldest son, Brad, is his primary caregiver, and does a great job of looking after him.
There was not, of course, anything I could do to help Clark, or to make his condition improve, but just being together, even for a brief time, was beneficial to both of us, I think. We talked about his health, we shared memories, we laughed, we discussed the church, and even spent some time on Star Trek (Clark and Brad are big-time experts!). I got to see first-hand what I had been hearing about and wondering about for quite some time.
There are certain people who come along in life with whom you somehow form special connections. Often it occurs at pivotal moments in your life, and the friendships often go on, even when your paths diverge and changes take you away from one another.
Special friendships are even more appreciated when there are reminders of the fleeting nature of life.
