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Happy Ling..(^0^)
Monday, 5 January 2004
Decision Makin..
The story given below is quite interesting and really gives us an insight into DECISION MAKING. Which one will you choose?

A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused. Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track. The train came, and you were just beside the track interchange. You could make the train change its course to the disused track and saved most of the kids. However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way? Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make.



>> YOU HAVE TO MAKE A DECISION BEFORE YOU PROCEED! THE TRAIN WON'T STOP TO WAIT FOR YOU!



Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child. You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally. But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place? Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was.

This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him. The friend who forwarded me the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens. If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track!

Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids. While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

"Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular isn't always right."

Everybody makes mistakes; that's why they put erasers on pencils. :)

Posted by blog/bearyling at 2:43 AM WST
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Saturday, 3 January 2004
first attempt at bloggin..=p
my first post! hee..dunno can succeed or not..juz try..=p

today i realise that it's a nice feeling to know that love is somethin that grows if u've really found the one meant for u..n this is the main reason y i'm startin my own blog too..to write down my feelings so that i can remember wat happens in my life..be it good or bad moments..dear, juz wanna tell u that my love for u increases everyday n i really luv u alot..n i can feel that our relationship is gettin better as days go by..thanks for being part of my life..a big part too..:)

in the past i used it as a 'tool'/excuse for not givin up a relationship, even though i was sad almost every other day, cos my ex-bf was like a bird, fightin for freedom while being tied by mi..at that time, i juz felt that the love between us (mayb not luv, juz a bond that exists becos we were together for more den 5 yrs) can overcome everythin..so i held on..he suffered, n i suffered too..y was i so stupid? y didn't i let go? now that i tink back, i supposed it was becos i dun dare to let go..he was basically a good person (let's call him ahBear from now onwards..juz in case u misunderstood dear, 'bearyling' used to be my icq nick..my current site's name has nothin to do wif him hor..hee..alot of names hav been taken up, bobian..=p)..oh, where was i?..oh..ahbear was a good guy, but not a terrific bf..his life includes lots of stuff..soccer, studies, eca, friends, meetings etc etc..of cos, i dun object to one havin his own private life but somehow everythin turned sour for the both of us..dunno y..mayb when he got busy, i become insecure, den he became more n more busy, n was sick of the way i was complainin abt him neglectin mi, we drifted apart n i become more insecure..here goes the vicious cycle..

enuff said abt ahbear..today i felt somethin wonderful..not really the first time since i got attached wif my bf (today is our 6th month anniversary! hmm..i shall call him cpt tiger k! he knows y..=p) but i felt it veri strongly today..not tryin to be mushy here but while watchin tv tonite, i suddenly realise i can differentiate between my past n current relationship quite clearly..n i realise i love cpt tiger alot..not puppy love or kiddish love..but real love..i dunno how to describe it but i suppose one can really feel it when the moment comes by..nice feelin..:)

i've made a 'cowboy buckle'(inspiration from 'fear factor' we watched last nite..a cowboy wif supertight jeans was wearin a belt wif a super big buckle..haha..real ugly) for him usin aluminium foil today..haha..at first he looked quite turned off..i was quite sad actually..but later on he sort of got used to it n start to fiddle wif it..n wore it when he was chattin on the phone..really cute when he tried to look proud in that fake-co buckle..haha..when i get my first digi-cam den mayb i can take pics n post it on this site..hee..see how first..

really late now..got to zzz cos cpt tiger always tell mi not to zzz late..i still hav alot of things to write..dunno will continue this blog not but the only audience i really wan to hav is cpt tiger himself..mayb will tell him abt this site tomolo. :)

Posted by blog/bearyling at 3:04 PM WST
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