Best explained as
"the air in which one carries oneself", a sissy's deportment
describes the way in which she interacts with the physical world
about her. No one likes to see a sissy all dressed up in her
pansified glory clomping around in heels like an elephant and
carrying her figure around like a sack of old potatoes!
As a sissy, if
you practice your feminine poise at all times it will become
second nature. Consider your demeanor when you are sitting,
standing, kneeling, walking, or talking. Always ask yourself; “Am
I presenting myself in an appropriately dainty way?”
Put on your
finest sissy attire and stand in front of a full length mirror.
And consider the following:
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Is your back
straight?
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Is your chest
placed slightly forward of your hips?
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Are you keeping
your spine erect, your pelvis loose so it can sway every so
smoothly from side to side, drawing subtle attention to your panty
covered bottom?
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Are your legs
close together at the ankles and knees when stood? Modesty is a
function of both deportment and disposition.
Take a few steps
towards the mirror. Are you taking small, mincing steps? Try to
think of yourself gliding on air as you walk.
Much of good deportment comes from keeping your knees together.
When walking, it is much more feminine to take two small steps
rather than one big one.
keeping your
knees together is also important while sitting down and getting up
from a chair. Try to be graceful and slow - a lady never rushes.
Sitting is a posture that can
be practiced throughout the day whether in sissy attire or in a
stuffy office environment. When sitting never sit
with your legs apart, or with one ankle resting on the knee of the
opposing leg.
To sit properly,
gently and gracefully set your bottom onto the edge of your chair
(a sissy never lounges at the back of a seat). Keep your ankles
and knees tightly together, tuck your feet slightly under, keep
your back straight, head slightly bowed, eyes lowered, hands
folded in your lap. Of course a sissy should always make sure she
has smoothed her skirt before settling down.
Your deportment
as a sissy should be slower, more considered and much more
deliberate than as a man. Consider how you hold you hands as you
walk; one at your waist to help accentuate your hips as they
sashay to and fro; and one out to the side, palm down and fingers
slightly spread to show off your manicure.
In Japan, the
onnagata [female impersonators] of the kabuki theatre as
experts in deportment. (Nakamura Ganjiro III still plays
18-year-old women at the age of 65). The onnagata technique
focuses on making smaller movements with the feet and
pulling the arms in to make them seem shorter and more
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Concentrate on
every aspect of your movement - even when performing the simple
act of walking down the street, consider your movement as if you
are in a dance or play. Remember what you are; Sissy's don't
stride, they swish.
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