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MARK
Genealogy
A
strange thing happened while I was preparing a surprise party for my parents
Golden Wedding
Anniversary, on 25 March, 2000. I had the folks looking through old
photographs one day, about three weeks
before the event, and one picture in particular caught my eye, whereby I
wondered who the older lady was in the photograph. However, when asking
Mam, she thought I meant the young girl, [who I presumed was her], and answered
it was "Hazel", [The older lady in fact turned out to be a very young
looking Mary, Mam's Aunt]. Although both Mam and Dad claim I was told
as a youngster - I have no recollection of learning, until that point in time,
that I had any half-aunties!
It transpired that the young girl turned out to be Mam's half-sister [one of
two], Hazel, and Doreen was the other. I asked Mam if she would like me to
find them, but alas all Mam
knew was that her father had moved to Littlemore, a suburb of Oxford about 1931.
When her Aunt Mary had passed away in the late 60's, she lost all knowledge
about her father and two half-sisters. I didn't manage to locate
either of them in time for their 50th Anniversary, but vowed to find them by the
end of the year, on the night!
On
a visit to Cardiff in early May, 2000, [Now there's another tale], my quest
picked up speed when I managed to locate both their marriages on the General
Register Index, which cross-referenced and gave me their husband's names.
Doreen and her husband I could not locate in the Oxford area, but Hazel had
married a Chap listed as Peter GS 'Surname'
[To protect the living!], and I knew she had been born in Oxfordshire. So
I looked for a Peter 'Such'n'such' in the trusty BT directory, and found them
almost straight away! I say almost straight away, as I rang
them every
day, at differing times for four days, and got a little worried that anything
may have happened, divorce, death, etc … then on the fifth day I got an answer
- they had been away on holiday, and it was Mam's half-sister! It
was very strange ... a whole new world opened up, ... but isn't life too
short?! Their father had died in 1975, and had taken the 'secret' to his
grave, as had his wife.
They
met up in July for the first time in about 60 years … and got on like there
had never been that length of time between! Then in September Doreen and
John came over from Canada,
[where they
have lived for over 30 years], and visited the
Northeast for a few days. It's been an honour to reunite them, and
lovely to see them all together getting on like a house on fire! We've
been down to visit Hazel & Peter a couple of times and meet their two
daughters, Linda & Dena, and their children.
The
MARK saga doesn't stop there ... I continued to research the name, sending away
for my Mam's fathers and grandfathers birth certificates, etc, and found out
things my Mam didn't even know about her family!
By
chance one night whilst browsing a bulletin board, I came across two other
interested parties in the surname. I sent them both a brief email,
explaining who I had traced back to ...
"27/10/2000
Hi,
I
have just re-visited the genuki pages, and noticed that you were seeking
information regarding "Mark's" in Durham. Initially, I
understood mine were from Northumberland, but that was only from 1898,
previously they all came from the Wolsingham/Greatham/Darlington/Stockton
areas or similar. My grandfather was Edward MARK, b 17.3.1902, his
father was Edward MARK, b23.8.1862, his father was Charles MARK of Angate St,
Wolsingham [when registering Ed. Snr's birth], and his wife was Ann MARK,
formerly BRYCE of the same address. They [Charles & Ann] both seem
to have disappeared by the 1881 census, so I have hit a bit of a cold trail at
the moment.
I
understand that Edward Snr had about 10 brothers and 1 sister, but I can't
tally this with the information I have at the moment, the only thing for sure
was that one of his brothers was called TOM, and one brother became a poet in
Australia.
If
this seems familiar at all, please contact me ...
Thanks
in anticipation
Fee"
Within
ten hours I had a reply from a 'John MARK' in New South Wales, Australia,
Annie. Within a further two days, a further Cousin contacted John, from
Middlesbrough, England, with another wealth of information regarding the
family! That's wor Mick!
John
and I have been in [almost] daily contact since, working on the ever growing
family tree, both being keen at this genealogy lark, and John is visiting for a
few
weeks at the end of March 2001 to research and visit back to his roots! We
are planning a visit just as soon as is feasible!
The
internet has allowed us to web-cam, ICQ and chat in real time not just together,
but with various other members of the family both here in UK and over in Australia. We have exchanged all sorts of valuable information in
building up the MARK family tree, it is amazing what a 'little' research can
do!
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