Love Always, Crystal
1. My hands are small; please don't expect perfection whenever I make a bed, draw a picture or throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow down so that I can keep up with you.
2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have; please let me explore safely. Don't restrict me unnecessarily.
3. Housework will always be there. I'm only little for short time; please take time to explain things to me about this wonderful world and do so willingly.
4. My feelings are tender; please be sensitive to my needs. Don't nag me all day long. (You wouldn't want to be nagged for you inquisitiveness.) Treat me as you would like to be treated.
5. I AM A SPECIAL GIFT FROM GOD; please treasure me as God intended you to do, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines to live by and disciplining me in a loving manner.
6. I need your encouragement to grow. Please go easy on the criticism;remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.
7. Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself. Permit me to fail, so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday I"ll be prepared to make the kinds of decisions that life requires of me.
8.Please don't do things over for me. Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts didn't quite measure up to your expectations. I know it's hard, but please don't try to compare me to my brother or sister.
9. Please don't be afraid to leave for a weekend together. Kids need vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations from kids. Besides, it's a great way to show us kids that your marriage is very special.
10.Please take me to Sunday School and church or synagogue regularly, setting a good example for me follow. I enjoy learning more about God.
A Prayer For Cross Dads and Moms
Oh God, I was so cross to the children today!
Forgive me, I was discouraged and tired and I took it out on them.
Forgive my bad temper, my impatience and most of all my yelling
I am so ashamed as I think of it I want to kneel down by each of their beds,
wake them up and ask them to forgive me.
But I can't they wouldn't understand.
I must go on living with the memory ofthis awful day.
Hours later, I can still see the fear in their eyes as they scurried around, trying to appease
me
thinking of my anger and manical raving was their fault.
Oh God,the pathetic helplessness of children.
Their innocence before the awful monster,the enraged adult.
And how forgiving they are, hugging me so fervently at bedtime, kissing me goodnight.
All I can do is straighten their covers, touch a small head burrowed in a pillow
and hope with all my heart that they forgive me.
Lord in failing these little ones whom you have put in my keeping,I am failing you.
Please let your infinite patience and goodness replenish me for tomorrow
Author Unknown
These are my kids. Then and Now. Though not always easy to raise,
I really feel I was blessed to be able to have them in my life.
To Jeff and Crystal, Thank you for being great kids.
This first place was very "Enchanting" with lots of graphics and kids stuff
This place has more things than I could ever imagine for kids, from homepages to
graphics to games and puzzles. It is well worth the time to look through it all.
And now on a more serious note, any one who has children or grandchildren knows
how frightening it is to think that something might happen to that child. That
someone would honestly want to take your child away. It is so scary to not know
where your child is. We can all do something, and it may not seem to be much to us
but could mean a lot to someone else. Check out this site, see if you recognize
any of these children. Help find a missing child.
Two new sites I have found,(or rather found me). The first one has all
different kinds of Disney pictures, from Mickey to Beauty and the Beast.
Also Scooby Do and Flinstones. Check it out, it was fun for me to see my
favorites again, and will be fun for the kids too.
When I was working on this page I found some great sites for kids and wanted to
include them here for anyone who wanted to check them out. In this day and
age kids are using the computers as much as their parents, so it is nice to
know there are places they can go to on the net.
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