Black Cow Press is happy to announce that John Ashcroft, attorney general of these United States, will be writing a semi-regular column answering our readers' questions about sexuality and intimacy in the
troubled post-9/11 world. John provides answers for those looking to reconcile earthly desires with
spiritual convictions. Mail your questions to: bigjohn@blackcowpress
Let's begin with a prayer as we do each morning at the
Justice Department: "Dear Lord in Highest Reaches
of Heaven, please grant me the strength to follow my
good heart and to give righteous and true answers to
the unredeemed perverts and sodomites who will
undoubtedly be reading my column and asking for
advice. Help me to share wisdom with them and make
straight their crooked ways. Amen."
Well, I'm happy to be on board. This isn't the sort of publication I usually contribute to, but it's my duty to spread the word to the unconverted. We are each of us Americans, after all, united by a global war against Evil. And God is behind America right now,
taking pleasure in us. He loves us and wants us to win
our war. But we can't just blindly count on His
loyalty. We must remain attractive to Him, and that
means we must be a moral nation-especially in our sexual lives. God is a sucker for morality.
It is also important to remember that God has
impressive powers of surveillance: He can track your
Internet usage, listen to your phone-sex calls, and
eavesdrop on your most intimate whispered
conversations. So don’t think you can slip one by God
- his Monitoring Equipment never sleeps. (How
beautiful is that? Brings tears to my eyes...)
With this in mind, and since we don’t have
any mail yet, for my first column I've prepared a short
primer covering some of the most common moral
questions that Americans face in their intimate lives.
Is oral sex morally acceptable?
The mouth is the orifice I sing through with my
barbershop quartet - me, Trent Lott, Larry Craig, and
old "Benedict" Jeffords, making pretty sounds,
harmonizing in our version of "The Eagle Soars."
This is the sort of thing the mouth should be used for.
God approves of this. He is skeptical of some other
uses though, including a certain activity that is
popular among liberal perverts and homosexuals: oral
sex.
So should oral-genital contact be left only to
those with a future in Hell? My first instinct would be to say yes. But a friend of mine, a reverend from
Kentucky, has made a somewhat persuasive
counterargument to me, that oral sex performed by a
woman on a man is worthy in the Lord's sight. My
friend’s logic goes like this: God designed women to
be listeners and followers, and men to be speakers and
leaders. Nonetheless, He made everyone's mouth the
same size. Thus it follows that since the mouths are
the same size, but women have less to say, and
consume less food in general than do men, that God
must have had alternate means in Mind for how a
woman ought to keep her mouth busy. Personally, I
think this matter is a valid one for debate, but I haven't
yet made up my mind on it. I do request a "BJ" (as
those filthy liberals call them) from time to time on
experimental grounds, but I am always on the lookout
for a sign from God saying either, "Remove from her mouth thy penis, for this act angers Me!" or "Happily
resides thy penis in her mouth, and this is satisfactory in My sight!" No word yet.
My editor suggests I also need to address the
question of a man performing oral sex on a woman. I
find this too humorous for words. Big John giving a
tongue-swabbing to Mrs. A? Not in this lifetime!! My
old friend Eazy-E, a big time and loyal donor to the
GOP, said it well: "I might be a woman beater but I'm
not a pussy eater." Now, before you start sending me
hate mail, let me say I don't condone beating
women-but that sort of language is just part of E-Z's
cultural heritage, his self-expression. (By the way, this offers yet another example of how wrong those people are who say I'm not "sensitive to
diversity"!)
Is anal sex morally acceptable?
As a moral matter, there is no question that the anus is Satan's territory. Strictly off-limits.
Touching it for any reason that is not medical or hygienic is equivalent to a stinky handshake
with the Prince of Darkness himself. Case closed!
What are the moral limitations of vaginal sex?
Nookie in the missionary position is the straight stuff - as God intended. Mrs. A and I partake of
this activity at least twice a week.
But from a moral perspective, it's not as commodious as it seems at first glance. You can't just go
around copulating all the time, even within the sacrament of marriage, thinking that God is just
giving you a big "thumb's up" from Heaven the whole time. God's no weak-kneed liberal. He
wants there to be some productive value in our pleasure.
Now this is tricky stuff, and I'm sure as heck no Catholic, but the Romans did get it right on one
point: God only smiles on the conjugal act if it is done for purposes of procreation and not just
pointless pleasure. Now the difference between me and the Romans is that I'm not afraid to
rubber up - but the key to rubbering in a moral way is that you have to keep up appearances with
God. Therefore, when you, as a man, feel that you are near to climax and ejaculation, you must
immediately pray to God, and propose to Him that if He wishes your lady to bear fruit that He
immediately break the condom. See how that works? You don't have to risk knocking her up each
time you screw, but you're still giving God the respect of using sex for procreation.
Is interracial sex morally acceptable?
This is a toughie. I've spent many hours wondering whether God wants us to stay like-with-like.
Among my more traditionally-minded friends (some call them "segregationists," but I think that
word is kind of out of fashion) feelings run high on this matter. When I'm hanging out with them
and we get going on this subject I usually just clink glasses and say, "Cheers!" But in my heart I
question: if God didn't want me to mate with the darker ladies, why did He make them so darn
appealing? Is it just simple temptation, to be avoided like the apple? I'm not so sure. If I were a
single guy, my rule of thumb would be: if she's a Christian, go ahead and stick her! (Within the
sacrament of marriage, of course!! ).
What is foreplay?
You don't need to be some New Age hippy freak to be sensitive to your lady's needs. I'll admit
that in my youth I was hasty to get to the act and ruffled a few tailfeathers in the process. Live
and learn. As a mature sexual hombre I now understand that a lady needs to "warm up" before
you start poking her. Here's my favorite technique: when I suddenly find myself in the
mood-say, after eating a ham sandwich, which curiously has always had an aphrodisiac effect
on me... -I fetch my lady's tube of water-based lubricant from her bedside table. I seek her out
and tap her lightly on the shoulder, handing her the tube. In the language of our loving
relationship, that means: "You've got 15 minutes, and then you'd better be ready for action,
because John-o's foot will be on the gas, not the brakes!!" I set my stop watch on countdown
mode, take a little walk around the back yard, checking on the tomato plants and the shrubbery. I
turn my mind to procreation and feel my ardor growing. When that alarm goes off you'd better
believe I'm running not walking to find my lady and start some conjugal bonding. Yee-haw!!
Editor's Note: Mr. Ashcroft was assisted by intern,
Jerome Rodriguez in the writing of this column.
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