When the AfriCam community lost our very dear cammer and friend, Pupiluv (Judy/WI), candles and lights were lit all over the world in a loving tribute to her, and other
expressions of love poured out from all over the globe,
and still
do.
Pippa, the Community Officer of AfriCam, lit a lantern at Gowrie lake for Pupiluv, so she could "find her way to Gowrie," as she told her children.
Mickey, the husband of another one of our dear lost AfriCamming friends, Judy/Va, sent a beautiful "eternal light" to Lloyd, that will burn forever.
Judy will not be forgotten by her many AfriCamming friends, and some of them fondly share their memories of her with us here, for us all to enjoy and treasure forever!
"I
know that "Pupiluv" was always on the Boma and
we talked a lot about animals or fishing every day. We
will never forget Judy because she is still in our
hearts." "My
memories of Judy/WI are related to ecircles/Africam and
the way that I could always count on Pup to post a
picture or two and that she always found the time to say
something nice about everyone else's pictures. She
was always there with a helping hand and a smile to
boot. She is our Guardian Angel now."
^i^ "There
was a pretty intense discussion taking place on the boma
when I decided to make my first appearance. After
stating my opinion, instead of a reply to my point of
view, someone called Pupiluv stopped the discussion to
take the time to welcome me. Then everyone went
back to the topic of the moment. I have no idea
what was so important at the time that I got drawn into
the discussion, but I never forgot how everything came to
a halt just to welcome me. I've been a regular ever
since." "My
first personal contact with Judy was when I wrote a
letter to her telling her how much I enjoyed her spirit
and sense of humor. We didn't write often because
we were both busy, much of that time online on the Boma
and watching the cams. But if I remember right, I think
she was looking for another job, or had gotten a new
job.... gosh, time goes by so quickly it's hard to keep
it all straight sometimes. So the emails dwindled. One
day I sent her a link to a big cybercard site and told
her she shouldn't tell anyone about it because she always
took the time out to find just the right one, from a
place none of us had seen before. This was all in fun and
we felt like we had a secret. "I
use to see Pupiluv on the Boma and we talked
occasionally. I guess the thing I remember most was going
to ecircles and seeing all the WOWs on her pics! LOL She
really loved showing them off in ecircles. I also
remember thinking Judy reminded me of a Hummingbird! LOL
The way she flitted around the boma talking to everyone.
She was a very happy outgoing person who loved the
animals and Africam as much as anyone I have seen." "I
was a newbie in eCircles when I met Pupiluv for the first
time. I couldn't wait to show off my Africam pictures in
this new place. Whenever I went to put a picture in, I
noticed that Pupiluv would many times have already put
that same pic in the album. It soon became a friendly
race! LOL I would fly to eCircles to try to get a picture
in there before she did, and the result was both of us
bombarding the place with picture after picture, and
hardly giving anyone else a chance to put pictures in!
haha After a few weeks of this, the "five pictures
only rule" was unanimously adopted, and I couldn't
help but giggle, wondering if we had something to do with that new rule! LOL We saw one
another there and on the boma many times, and she was
always a sweetheart, and so much fun to talk to. I was
really broken up when our races finally had to end. I
still miss those friendly races, which I usually lost! ;)
She sent me such a kind email when my picture was in the
running for Picture of the Year, telling me she hoped it
would win. I'll never forget that. Although she was
suffering, she was always still thinking of others. It is
my absolute pleasure to help her dear Lloyd create
something in memory of our beautiful and kind friend,
Judy." Iona saved these two postings from the boma and shares them with us: Posted
by Sharon in Ohio on November 26, 2000 at 00:46:43: "What
I remember most about Judy is her enthusiasm and
excitement whenever an animal would appear on the
cams. She would get so excited and post its
whereabouts on the boma if she spotted it first.
She was like a little child who had seen Santa Claus
for the first time. She was genuine in her love of
animals and people. You would never hear
unkind words from her, oh sure she would get upset at
things and make her feelings knows but she was
fair. I remember how much she used to enjoy posting
and viewing pics in e circles she would always comment on
everyone's pics and then go that extra step and tell
the person who posted something positive in an
email. I can't remember how many e mails she sent
to me saying how much she enjoyed the pic I had posted,
or congratulating me on highlights or POD, or
something. She was a true Africammer in every sense
of the word and a good friend to many. She was
kind to everyone and if anyone needed help and she knew
the answer she was right there. She never
complained even though she was going through hell
especially in the end. She loved life and lived it
to the fullest. She loved her sweetie Lloyd who
stood by her side no matter what, and what a gem he
is. Even in her e mails you could hear the love in
her writings when she talked about him, her family, and
her sweet little dog. Very little was mentioned
about what she was going through she always tried to keep
things upbeat. I don't think any of us can
ever see a fish again and not think of her standing there
holding that big one lol, just another something she
loved so much. She was one very special lady she is
and will always be missed by all." "Remembering
Pupiluv..... Where would I start? She was a precious gift
to people all over the world. She always had the time for
everyone. She was pure beauty clear through. I know she
has passed on but I would have to say if I had to pick
the one thing she did special for me that I miss so much
was when she announced in giant letters that my
ellies were there and she was so excited for me the day I
saw them swim. She said, "Somebody peel Shari off the
ceiling!" Brings a smile to my face through the
tears. I miss her more than words can say. She said
everyone and everything was special in their own way and
that somebody had to love the big grey things. My daughter
Diane got to know and love Judy. They both loved the dogs
& Diane loves the wolves. She
encouraged her to draw animals and take pics and get on
the Boma. A week or so ago there were wild doggies on
Africam. Diane said, "Look there are Judy's
puppies!" She never sees them without remembering how
much Judy loved them and the time some were killed and we
all grieved their loss. We will always miss her and feel
priveledged to be her friends. She is not struggling
anymore to breathe. She has the breaths of an angel like
snowflakes on the newly fallen snow. She flies about on
snow white velvateen wings watching over us all,
especially Lloyd. "Look after Lloyd" she told
many people. Lloyd looks after all of us. He is special.
Sharing Judy's pics and innermost thoughts has to be very
hard. Thank you Lloyd. It means so much to those who love
her as you do. Thanks to Carol for helping him with this
enormous task." "I
discovered Africam in April of '99. Do you remember
the old boma? Of course you do, heeheehee....
Anyway one day I had popped in on Boma, I didn't know
many people at all. At this time I was also a
newbie where computers were concerned. I was
reading along with everyones conversation, and at this
time also we could post our email addy with our
post. I noticed Judy had mentioned something about
fishing to someone. I thought... How Coool is this?
Another fisherwoman! Soooooooo, I decided to be
very nosey, heehee, and I sent an email to her. I
asked about her and of course, fishing. Anyway, she
wrote back , to my amazement! Judy was the most
lovely woman, kind, caring, funny too. She asked
about my family; she thought all of us were
Japanese. LOL !! I suppose that could be an
assumption. Anyway, I wrote back with details;
but, I also stated I was a honky !!!
LOLLOL....... I sent it off, and then I realized... she
doesn't know me at all! What have I done?
What if she finds this offensive? I was so
stressed! It wasn't tooo awfully long; although it
felt like an eternity at the time, she did write
again. Judy didn't say one word about that
particular description of myself......... I was
sooo relieved, I didn't question her on it , and I Never
said it again either! As I learned more
of how to operate this computer, I became daring, and
would search for fish/fishing gifs. I would send
them off to her in mail; and she would give me a pat on
the back. She was so wonderful to me. This is
my memory of Judy; one that will forever stay with
me." "Wow - memories - it has been so long and yet seems
such a short time ago. Judy made herself known
almost as soon as she logged into Africam - never
being shy about learning or asking questions on The
Boma and always ready to help when she could.
Most memorable for me was our late night camming
experiences and posting to share with others as though
they were anticipating our pictures. Poor JudyOH was
tearing out her hair as we filled albums - sometimes
too busy to delete the duplicates even. It was a
terrifically friendly competition - neither of us
caring for more than getting good pictures up for
others to see. There were others posting as well of
course and I'm certain all felt frustrated by
Pupiluv's ability to get there first - but she was
always there - thankfully. How I wish we could do it
one more time...." "Judy and I stayed up most nights, she camming and I either camming or doing
something in our eCircles. Each night she would send me an e-mail telling
me what she had done that day and what she had planned for the next. The
best parts, of course, were the fishing reports. On really good nights,
there would be pictures. That girl could fish! She used to get so tickled
when the big fishermen would gaze on in awe as she reeled in one huge fish
after another.
Judy's e-mails raced at a furious pace, as did her life. She was always
concerned with the needs of others. The fish she and Lloyd could not eat
were prepared and distributed to many others who thoroughly enjoyed them.
I was always amazed at how much living and loving Judy packed into each day
of her life. She would fuss and worry if she felt she wouldn't have time
to do all the things she wanted to do for others every day. I remember how
she worried when she thought she would not have time to finish hand
painting all the Halloween pumpkins she wanted to place in her front yard
to delight the children and her neighbors. She took her duties very
seriously.
Those nightly e-mails were such a joy. The little angel who wrote them now
resides in my heart. I feel her company just as I always did. Judy
entrusted us with her most prized treasure, her dear Lloyd. Now his
e-mails light up our inboxes every night. They are a gift born from the
extraordinary love shared by two very special friends. Thank you, Little
Angel. Your love lives on." |
Do you have a memory of Pupiluv (Judy/WI) you'd like to share with us? Email it to Carol and it will promptly be added.