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Name: Mary-Lou Wiseblatt Website: n/a Referred by: From a Friend From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Time: 1998-10-18 23:26:06 Comments: A beautiful tribute page for a beautiful person. He is in my thoughts and prayers. I hope those monsters who did this to him are brought swiftly to justice. My deepest condolences to Mathew's family. |
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Name: Bonnie Website: Oklady43's Palace Referred by: From a Friend From: Oklahoma Time: 1998-10-18 23:15:20 Comments: I am outraged over the senseless murder of Matt. I am ashamed to even think that the young people responsible for his brutal death are considered a part of humanity. For in my opinion they aren't human. My question to all of them is this: Who the hell appointed them GOD to sit in judgement of someone like Matt? They took the life of an innocent person out of their hate and ignorance, therefore, they should lose their life as well. Matt and all his friends and family are in my prayers. God Bless you all. Bon |
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Name: Shirley Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: midwet-IN. Time: 1998-10-18 22:54:22 Comments: A beautiful tribute such a sad and tragic thing.God help his parents! |
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Name: Daryl Website: No Homepage Referred by: From a Friend From: Denver, CO Time: 1998-10-18 22:14:40 Comments: Michael, though we never met, I know that you are wonderful young man. Your story has touched my soul, and I will always love you and your memory. I believe that, in some way, you know how you have united the community, both gay and straight, and that you, God and all the Saints see what is happening and say, "It is good." You have fought a good, you have finished the course, you have kept the faith Love from your brother in Christ and in the Community. Daryl |
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Name: Ann Website: Ann'sPlace Referred by: From a Friend From: Louisiana Time: 1998-10-18 21:41:29 Comments: God loves all the children of the World....God Bless you! |
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Name: James Hill Website: Referred by: AngelFire From: Buffalo, New York Time: 1998-10-18 21:10:20 Comments: First my condolences to the loved ones of Matthew, may God watch over and be with you in the days to come. This is a gross injustice that has been done. Should we, as gay people, be treated as second class citizens? I speak only for myself, not all gay men and women, when I say that I too have an American Dream. A dream of someday finding the person with whom I choose to share my life and forming a union recognized by the government to whom I have pledged allegiance, been a loyal citizen and a taxpayer. A dream of someday applying to adopt a child and my sexuality not being an automatic reason for denial.A dream in which all people in this great land of ours are not judged by the color of their skin, their house of worship or lack there of, or the sex of their life partner. Some may say that this will never happen, but this is my dream and I do believe. Someday. Somehow.I hope that those of you close to Matthew will keep both his dreams and his memory alive. Without dreams and memories what are we?James H. Hill |
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Name: T Ann Bowlen Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Fort Worth, TX Time: 1998-10-18 21:04:19 Comments: My friend sent me your page. It was a moving and beautiful tribute. I do my best to help stamp out the ignorance and predjudice that festers in our world. Bringing Mathew's life to the web may help. |
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Name: Matthew S Mintzer Website: Referred by: AOL From: Reading,PA Time: 1998-10-18 20:48:46 Comments: I am so very sorry!- Your light will always shine. My heart goes out to his family and friends. Matthew Mintzer |
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Name: Yevette Website: My Special Place Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Louisiana Time: 1998-10-18 20:37:36 Comments: My heart, thoughts and prayers are with Matthew and his family...I have lit a candle in honor of Matthew on my Support/Causes page...and have sent this site to all my online friends...God Bless! |
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Name: Marsha Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: New Port Richey Florida Time: 1998-10-18 20:29:55 Comments: A POEM FOR YOUMy brother was gay we have lost him now.So to you my friends my head i bow.My brother had AIDS and passed away.It hurts so much like it was today.My heart goes out to all of you.I know that it is a terrible thing.My love for you makes my broken heart sing.Just remember how it used to be.But now their spirits are flying free.No pain or sadness in heaven above.All they get is God's perfect LOVE.i love you ....feels like you are family....my heart sings ...... Marsha |
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Name: MATTHIAS Website: Referred by: AOL From: Reading,PA Time: 1998-10-18 20:27:34 Comments: In memory of Matthew Shepard,-you are safe now, but you should not have had to be taken away from us or from your life -to make you that way,- I am so very sorry!- Your light will always shine. My heart goes out to his family and friends. I just lost a very special member of my family, and to have a friend or family member or anyone taken away from their life and our lives is horrible, but it should never happen like this! Hate crimes should not happen, there is no reason for it. We can not control other people and the way they think or the way they judge us.-- I fear the world we live in! We need peace in this world. What is it going to take? We need to stand up for what we believe in so Matthew's soul can rest in peace, and so that we can prevent this from happening to anyone else! MATTHIAS--- MATTHIASXX@AOL.COM |
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Name: Shirley Ann Jones Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Texas Time: 1998-10-18 19:20:39 Comments: we are so sorry that this behavior still exist, this is why so many of us have had to stay closeted..I pray ( and we are in a Gay Church) these hate crimes will stop in our life time. |
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Name: Beck Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Ontario Canada Time: 1998-10-18 19:14:40 Comments: My thoughts are with you |
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Name: Billy Website: none Referred by: From a Friend From: New Orleans, LA Time: 1998-10-18 18:51:00 Comments: My heart goes out to Matthew and his family. Stop the hate. |
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Name: Kierill Pope Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Manila, Philippines Time: 1998-10-18 18:35:57 Comments: My heart bleeds for you Matthew.... |
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Name: Greg Website: Greg's Place Live! Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Texas Time: 1998-10-18 18:38:17 Comments: My heart sincerely goes out to Matthew's family and friends. This tragedy is truly a nightmare. A Plea: It is natural when a tragedy such as this occurs to feel sympathy. I wish that everyone who is genuinely moved by this will do "something". Get involved. Sign petitions, send letters to congress, anything! Let them know that The Hate Crime Prevention Act affects everyone, not just gays and lesbians. Act now before you, or anyone else gets hurt. Silence = Death. |
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Name: Beverly M Cash Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Melbourne,Florida Time: 1998-10-18 18:34:30 Comments: Matthew, seemed by what I have read to be a wonderful person I lost a four year old child many years ago, I was told by a great person, That he is now in Gods graces,and you have an angel befor the thron of god. He can live like he wants to,never to be tourmented again Matthew will be in our prays for a long tim. Not only will the law do what they have to but his killers will live with this until they die by human hands. As your beloved son did. But they haveto face our father in heaven. You have given the untiment gift |
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Name: Bill Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: New Jersey Time: 1998-10-18 18:03:49 Comments: Matthew will always be remembered from the friends he had and the new ones he has now. Most people don't understand the gay lifestyle so they try to change it or get rid of the people. If one truely knew a gay person then one would understand that most live life to the fullest, so why isn't everyone else doing the same thing. Living Life to the Fullest and Just be Happy with yourself and everyone else. That is the way Matthew would probably wanted it. Matthew we will try to continue the spirit you had. Even though I didn't know you I will always remember you. |
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Name: Lou Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: UK Time: 1998-10-18 17:49:56 Comments: I was saddened, sickened, angered by this act of senseless violence, why oh why do people grow up thinking it is ok to commit such atrocities ?? Any religion that lends its name to bigotry and hatred is no religion, merely a refuge for the lowest of the low. It's time to stop the intolerance !!! For the sake of every soul on this planet, think before you turn a blind eye to intolerance, anywhere... My deepest and heartfelt sympathies are with the parents and family of Matthew. |
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Name: Alonna Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Fl Time: 1998-10-18 16:29:56 Comments: Dear Matt and Family, It is ashame to see how much hate we have in this world. Though it is hard to imagine the horrible pain that you have endored, we all must try to be hatred free because otherwise we would be consumed with hatred living in this world, and be no better then those inhuman persons that comitted this horrific act. However I think they need to be in the prison "hole" for life, with no chance of ever seeing the beauty of the great outdoors again. I hope they never have any joyful privileges again in their entire life...unfortunately none of this will probably happen as our judicial system sometimes works against us,so all I can say is I'm sending hugs,love, and heart felt sympathy to you all, and my prayers are with Matthew. God Bless you all. Sincerely, Alonna |
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Name: Jay Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: buffalo,n.y. Time: 1998-10-18 16:19:18 Comments: My heart goes out to matthews friends and family.Ipray that someday the whole world will live in peace and realize we are all humans and deserve the right to life. |
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Name: Peter Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Denmark Time: 1998-10-18 16:03:52 Comments: Dearest Matt and his family!!! What I have heard and read is truly a tragedy. Hatred is the Devils power. I talked with a friend og mine bout if the murders deserve deathpenalty, but the answer must be "NO" Cause if so THEN it would go against everything Matthew stands for..HUMANITY!!!!!. Let's watch the criminal suffer for life..thats a far more worster punishment than death. My thoughts are with u. |
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Name: Dennis M King Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: new jersey Time: 1998-10-18 15:53:29 Comments: i truley beleave that this people will pay when they are convicted of this crime , when they are in jail im sure they will be somebody little boy toy , and i hope they gang bang them one right after another. |
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Name: Shannon Hofer Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Missouri Time: 1998-10-18 15:26:41 Comments: great page...I hope people will read and feel. |
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Name: Raúl Paada Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: argentina Time: 1998-10-18 14:42:10 Comments: Mis condolencias a la familia de Matt.Y me unoa a todos aquellos que despreciamos todo tipo de discriminacion! |
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Name: Roger W. Rice Website: Referred by: NewsGroups From: Phoenix, AZ Time: 1998-10-18 14:39:22 Comments: My thoughts and prayers are with Matthew and his family. |
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Name: Shaun M. Flanagan Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Caldwell, New Jersey Time: 1998-10-18 14:33:33 Comments: I am so sorry about Matthew. This is such a horrible and unbeliveable how someone could do this to another humanbeing. I am 19 years old. And I am gay, and everyday that I go out to a gay event, or even out I fear gay bashing. But now I more scared then ever. This is unreal, The people who.. Not people, monsters, completely. The monsters who did this should get the death penalty. My prayers go out to you. I am so sorry. |
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Name: Denis B. Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Canada Time: 1998-10-18 14:29:46 Comments: I am sorry to hear about your loss. What gives a person the right take the life of another. I hope that they won't get away with this and that they'll get what they deserve,i'm sure matthew is happy in heaven . |
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Name: Jerry Pagliari Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: New York City Time: 1998-10-18 14:26:01 Comments: My deepest sympathy to Matthew's family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you. |
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Name: Dennis Website: Referred by: NewsGroups From: Seattle, WA Time: 1998-10-18 13:38:30 Comments: My heartfelt condolences to Matthews family. It is tragic that something like this has to happen to awaken the world to the fact that something needs to be done, NOW, to stop these senseless, barbarian hate crimes. I join the many with a prayer in memory of Matthew. |
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Name: Emily Ott Website: Referred by: Net Search From: Fort Collins Co. Time: 1998-10-18 12:48:06 Comments: I this a sad day for all, He didn't have to die like that. If you knew him he was the sweet guy you had ever meet. My friend Andrew said " Another has fallen, Now we have to get stronger" I like you site if Matt was still here he would have love it. |
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Name: Christal Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: California Time: 1998-10-18 12:28:42 Comments: The tragedy of Matthew is made all the more real when you have friends and relatives who are gay. Losing any of them in such a horrifying way would be unimaginable. As a mom w/3 kids, I cannot even begin to imagine having one of them murdered because of the way they love another person. Jesus is crying because we as humans have not learned the one lesson that he felt was the most important - tolerance. Jesus died because of intolerance, isn't it sad that humanity has obviously not learned from that. |
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Name: Karen Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Cooper City, FL Time: 1998-10-18 11:41:38 Comments: To the family and friends of Matthew: No words can ever express the sympathy that is extended to you. No thoughts can ever ease the pain you feel at such a loss. No actions can speak loud enough to make any of this less senseless. However, words MUST be spoken. Thoughts WILL gather. And action WILL be taken. All to let you know that we will keep Matthew in our hearts and memories forever. |
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Name: Glenn Priest Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Atlanta, Georgia Time: 1998-10-18 11:34:38 Comments: Matt, You will always be in my heart |
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Name: Ric Basen Website: Teddy Bear Ric's Cave Referred by: AngelFire From: Tampa, Florida Time: 1998-10-18 11:26:14 Comments: Found your site thru ICQ message.... I am joining the millions of people who are outraged by this sensless crime and the lack of concern by the so called "religious right". We all need to e-mail, call and write our legislators until the Hate Crimes bill is passed! |
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Name: Joey Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Fairfax, Virginia USA Time: 1998-10-18 11:09:44 Comments: My deepest condolences to Matt's family and friends. Such cruel and savage acts acts againt people and humanity will not be tollerated!!! I do beleave Justice will be served! |
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Name: Steve Gable Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Grand Rapids, MI Time: 1998-10-18 10:50:01 Comments: Let me add my voice and thoughts to those expressing their grief and hope that out of this tragedy justice WILL prevail and the world WILL see peace when we all speak out for each others and ourselves. I won't stay silent any longer. |
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Name: Michi Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: New York City Time: 1998-10-18 10:38:50 Comments: Fantastic tribute to a terrible tradegy. What else can one say. |
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Name: Kaz Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Denver Co Time: 1998-10-18 10:03:48 Comments: From such a dreadful tradegy, l hope theres a seed that is planted in us all to be better to our fellow people. l would prefer as many, that these sensless cruel acts never happened.l am profoundly saddened that another beatuful soul has departed us all to soon. Your memory will live on Mathew!with love |
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Name: Brian Website: Referred by: NewsGroups From: Toronto, Ontario Time: 1998-10-18 09:56:55 Comments: I've just finished reading the memorial to a sweet dear young man who died too soon. Like a lot of the guests that've signed, my condolences and hopes to Matthew's family and friends that justice will be served. Stay strong. |
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Name: Louis Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Spring,Tx Time: 1998-10-18 09:19:44 Comments: I especially am proud that you gave faces to the guilty parties in the Mathew Shepherd murder..Thank you. Lou |
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Name: Hans-Jürgen Lohmann Website: Jürgens Homepage Referred by: From a Friend From: Germany, Cologne Time: 1998-10-18 09:15:29 Comments: To the parents and all friends from Matthew: I feel helpless wrath. But nevertheless I think, we have to look forward and to be active for freedom, solidarity and tolerance all over the world. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Hans-Jürgen |
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Name: Tim Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Eureka, CA Time: 1998-10-18 09:11:30 Comments: A sensless tragedy... |
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Name: David Williams Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Manchester, United Kingdom Time: 1998-10-18 09:04:41 Comments: Words can't express the grief and sympathy the whole myself and the world share at this loss. |
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Name: Karen Burke Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Prince Edward Island, Canada Time: 1998-10-18 07:31:58 Comments: I just wanted to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son. It really hurts to know people are still judging other people for the way they live.... Thinking or you in my prayers.... Karen |
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Name: Larenzo Talley Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Birmingham,Alabama Time: 1998-10-18 04:54:45 Comments: In Loving Memory Larenzo Talley from Birmingham,Alabama I am so sorry for your son mathew shepard, at least we know that, he is with the lord at this time, and we know that the people that did this to him, is going to have to suffer more than him atjudgement day of the lord, Because the lord only accepts people , that are worth accepted and at this time the two guys don't deserve the lord they deserve the devil burn in eternity , for the pain they have caused you the family and friends that are like me, that are against hate people. (WESTBORO) the so call peacher deserves to suffer along with the two guys/girls that were involve in the crime of Mathew Shepard. |
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Name: Ian White Website: Ian's Webpage Referred by: From a Friend From: Australia Time: 1998-10-18 04:38:18 Comments: Yes its me again. I would just like to say, my occupation is webdesigner, and I would like to do some work on this page FREE OF CHARGE, so email me if you are interested. But sorry to any of you other peoples, I can't do everyone a free page, but if you are interested I charge a low price. |
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Name: André Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: NRW, Germany Time: 1998-10-18 04:33:52 Comments: Hi there. I just wanted to show my deepest compliments about that page and I hope that the trial comes to a good end. Though a conviction will not bring back Matthew, it will show that you can't bruise up homosexuals and expect to get through with it without punishment. |
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Name: Toni Parkins Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: California Time: 1998-10-18 00:11:44 Comments: Mathews death is an American tragedy....senseless, sad, so sad! My heart goes out to all his family and friends. My heart also goes out to the families of the kids that killed Mathew.......where they aware of their childrens predjudice? did they instil that predjudice into their children? How very sad.I say live and let live. |
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Name: Carolyn Brooks Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Gadsden Alabama Time: 1998-10-17 23:18:31 Comments: All our lives have been touched by this tragedy. We will all remember one brave sole even tho we never new him. And will pray to god that his punishers get their just rewards. |
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Name: Michael J. Eisele Website: Referred by: AngelFire From: Palmdale, California Time: 1998-10-17 21:31:31 Comments: My heart goes out to Matt and his family -- I have never been totally closeted -- but I feel ashamed not to be proud of who I am -- I will try and follow Matt's example -- maybe in numbers we can prevent another loss. |
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Name: Tim Huntsman Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Orlando, FL Time: 1998-10-17 20:39:28 Comments: This has saddened me deeply. That such a young and beautiful person would be sacraficed on the alter of hate and intolerance. The world is a lonlier place without him. |
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Name: Adam Granakos Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Clermont , Florida Time: 1998-10-17 20:32:34 Comments: You were the Butterfly , in a world of Wasps. May you be safe with Angels .......always.. |
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Name: Gary Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Asheville, NC Time: 1998-10-17 20:18:46 Comments: When will this kind of thing stop? Let those guys suffer the same torture. |
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Name: Bernardo A. Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Ecuador Time: 1998-10-17 19:49:18 Comments: This is the first time I've ever signed a guestbook, but I really think I understand what Mathew lived. It's tought being gay, specially in Latin America, but even worst is the thought that for being what you are you have more chances to be stroke by violence than the rest of the people in the world. |
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Name: Jennifer Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: New Mexico Time: 1998-10-17 19:24:41 Comments: This is a very nice web page in honor of Matt, too bad he had to die to recieve this. What those monsters did is unforgivable and they should die the same way Matt did. Only a few people know I am bisexual and I have been very lucky, my friends fully support me. I hope I never have to go thru what other people go thru. It's sad that people cannot accept a person for who he/she is. I wish every gay/lesbian/bisexual the best and we need to stick together and fight for our rights! God bless you! |
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Name: Dee Website: Referred by: AOL From: California Time: 1998-10-17 19:17:59 Comments: This is a wonderful tribute. This site should make all people aware of what life is about. I thank you for sharing this with all. This kind of stuff must stop. We are all American's, and we all have the same rights. I cannot even imagine what is in the mind of the kids that did this to Matthew. I am very thankful that they were caught and hopefully will have a very long time to think about what they did. I know that God is forgiving, but sometimes I feel there are just things that are unforgivable! |
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Name: Robert Stanley Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Eureka Calif. Time: 1998-10-17 19:16:55 Comments: What words are there to write? What emotions are there to feel. What love is left? An angel has been taken away from us, but looks on from above. |
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Name: Sara Borgeson Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: CA Time: 1998-10-17 19:06:02 Comments: As a person in the theatre, I know all too well about this struggle. Keep Fighting! |
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Name: Roger Winans Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Key West FL Time: 1998-10-17 18:47:47 Comments: I'm so very sorry about this , that I don't know what to say may the prayers comfort you in your time of sadnes. |
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Name: Eric Roose Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Holland Time: 1998-10-17 18:33:34 Comments: All the comments I could give are already given! I have only tears. I see Matt´s picture in my mind so many times and I sincerely hope that the people who loved him, his parents, relatives, family and friends will find the courage and the strength to feel love and happines when they think of him, and that they will not have their lives destructed even more by filling up with hate against the people who did this. They will get what they deserve, either way! Eventhough I was not brought up with a religion, I know how to pray, and that is what I will do. |
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Name: michel lebrun Website: ParisFrill Referred by: NewsGroups From: sherbrooke, quebec Time: 1998-10-17 18:02:44 Comments: laurent and me would like to send our condoleance to is family and friends around the world. I had a friend who got beat up like matthew and they stole is money and smash is face, and had to put a pin in his jaws because he was badly beaten. Here in sherbrooke last year, 3 men who brutaly beaten up a young girl and was found dead in a a field not far from my place, she was just walking home that night and they could not get what they wanted, so they killed her. I found that 2 or 3 guys beating up one person, to be lazy cowards. I guess revenge is not the answer. But a figure that GOD will take care of them. I send good thoughts to Matthew and his family and friends. michel lebrun and laurent clouston |
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Name: lynn gaiter Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: marina,california Time: 1998-10-17 17:56:48 Comments: I am a straight 32 year old woman, but one of my dearest friends in the world is a gay male and when something like this happens i fear that he may fall victim to something like this. My prayers go out to the family and friends of matthew. Justice will prevail. we must stop this violence this country is starting to go backwards to the day when something like this was the norm. |
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Name: Nathan Nix Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Carbondale, IL (SIU-C) Time: 1998-10-17 17:07:20 Comments: My sincerest condolences to anyone that knew this very special individual. Hopefully something good may come of this tragic event. Insane actions often result in severe consequences and I pray this will help open the world's eyes to hate crimes and the people that do them. |
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Name: Pierre Guichard Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: London UK Time: 1998-10-17 16:15:10 Comments: READ |
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Name: Dottie Website: Referred by: NewsGroups From: Pennsylvania Time: 1998-10-17 15:49:58 Comments: My deepest sympathy goes out to Mathews family and friends. This tragic story made front page in Pennsylvania,and I hope the two who have been charged,will be delt with in a manner equal to Mathew's. My prayers are with the family members. |
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Name: Judy Head Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: redfield arkansas Time: 1998-10-17 15:42:23 Comments: my heart goes out to the sheppards prosecute those crimanals to the fullest extent of the law. |
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Name: Joy Website: Moon Bebe's Home Page Referred by: From a Friend From: Hawaii Time: 1998-10-17 14:58:47 Comments: My heart goes out to Matt's family. What tragedy! May god bless you all! |
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Name: Ms. Elliott Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Tampa, Florida Time: 1998-10-17 14:55:08 Comments: I teach high school in Florida at a school for the Severely Emotionally Disturbed. In my first period English class, the students have been wanting to read and follow the articles regarding Matthew (over reading from their books). In my last period class we had just finished a unit on gang violence about 2 weeks ago and started a unit on peer pressure. The kids want to talk more about hate crimes and issues related to that so I am developing a unit over the weekend so I can work it into my lesson. I think children should learn about tolerance before they enter the school system. I also know that not everyone should be a parent, yet they still bring children into the world all the same. |
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Name: Ralph Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Ohio Time: 1998-10-17 14:42:55 Comments: May God comfort and protect Matt's family and friends during this troubled time in thier life's . Hopefully this needless death will wake up our govenment and cause them to inflict punishment strong enough that NEVER again will one fool ever even think of doing something like this .God help us all if they don't . |
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Name: Michael Botnick Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Vancouver, Canada Time: 1998-10-17 14:38:53 Comments: As a gay educator and community activist, deeply committed in both my work and my life to making this world a safer place for young people of all races, sexual natures, and abilities. I cannot understand how parents and communities can not only condone. but actively support hate crimes of any nature. Matthew, while the loss of your life is tragic and senseless, I believe that everything happens for a reason. In this case, the media attention surrounding your savage death, and the coverage to come of the trials of the cowards who perpetrated this atrocity will make a difference. Perhaps many people will see themselves for what they are -- bigotted, small-minded bullies who repulse the rest of the civilized world. If, in this tragedy, a lasting lesson ls learned, then Matthew, you will have given earned both a place in history, and your wings. May peace and love come to all who mourn your passing. May God bless you and keep you. May he make his light to shine upon you, and give you peace. |
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Name: Carole V. Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Midland, Michigan Time: 1998-10-17 14:21:38 Comments: Jean How visited my garage sale yesterday and gave me this URL to visit. I am saddened by Matthew's death and am appalled that man can be so evil to man. Thank you. |
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Name: Remi & James Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: San Diego, California Time: 1998-10-17 14:09:17 Comments: We in San diego and the rest of the world have felt the pain and suffering for far to long. Matthew has paid the dear price of the ignorance and hate of another and it's time we scream out in anger and get measures passed to protect such a hateful crime that affects the whole world. Although many of us never knew Matthew personally we all knew him in our hearts and feel the pain that his family is going through at this time. We need to pull together and put an end to this horror. |
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Name: Judy Website: Wildheart's Homepage Referred by: From a Friend From: California Time: 1998-10-17 14:04:17 Comments: I was deeply touched by the memorial you placed. I wish this life didn't have to be taken away, but I hope his death was not in vain. With any hope, Matthew's death could be the wake-up call to Congress to pass the Hate Crime Prevention Act. |
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Name: Maralyn Website: yankeey's Fanasty World Referred by: From a Friend From: norht Carolina Time: 1998-10-17 13:56:31 Comments: I want to send my deepest heart felt sorrows to Mathew's family and his friends. may his memory live in our hearts forever.The good Lord will have the final judgement on the ones that did this ungodly crime. 
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Name: Mary Gengler Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Oshkosh, Wisconsin Time: 1998-10-17 13:56:05 Comments: My heart goes out to Mathew's parents. I have a gay son (who sent me to this site via e-mail) who lives in San Francisco. He also has AIDS and my worst fear is that he would die before myself and my husband. I am praying for the killers and all who can hate people that much. They must have such miserable lives. My son too is wonderful, gentle and kind and I thank God every day that I and my family have him to love. |
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Name: Finn Xavier Larsen Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Denmark, Scandinavia Time: 1998-10-17 13:24:49 Comments: To the Shepard Family; My heart goes out for all of you - I don't have words for what has happen to Matthew and you but allow me to say this; ''to see the stars clearly it has to be very dark'' With respect Finn |
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Name: Lorraine Website: Lorraine's Homepage Referred by: From a Friend From: Conneticut Time: 1998-10-17 12:48:58 Comments: My heart goes out to all of Matt's Family. Lets hope the people responsible, get what they deserve. You have my Deepest Sympathy. |
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Name: Mary Ann Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Los Angeles,Ca. Time: 1998-10-17 12:33:29 Comments: This is the saddest, and most brutal thing to happen to a human being,we are all shamed by it.... |
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Name: fabian Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: argentina Time: 1998-10-17 12:29:38 Comments: I am very emmbrace about the violence against matt. I hope that Matt got the justice than a Jury can give to him . And this became in another step against the intolerance and against the discrimination. I allways will rememeber him and I hope that everybody do the same. I will allways keep his name in my heart . |
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Name: mark hayes Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: dallas,tex./jacksonville,nc Time: 1998-10-17 12:28:29 Comments: as I wake on this cool, dreary october morning, this frwd. in my mail was one of the first things that I saw today. I wanted to know more about Matt yet with so much happening in the world today, every time I saw a snip on the news it was over in a flash. I have to beleive that TRULY our world is not the hateful dungeon that seems to be springing up all around us; the moat gets deeper; the walls get higher.yet I have got to keep in my mind that our world is only misguided, and that everyone is somewhat good in their hearts. I MUST BELEIVE THIS FOR MY OWN SANITYI am a gay man living in Dallas and I have been very lucky not to have have such harsh and final NEGATIVITY lashed upon me in my experiences. I have been able to overcome any obstacles that were thrown at me to this point and now I have one more person to think about when the next one comes my way...good luck and my hope to you Matt, wherever you are |
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Name: Diane Website: Diane's Pages Referred by: From a Friend From: Schenectady,N.Y. Time: 1998-10-17 11:50:23 Comments: I am so very sorry about what happened to Matthew. God willing--the killers will get what they deserve. You are all in my prayers. :):):) |
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Name: Lynn Meyer Website: Ard-na-sidhe Referred by: From a Friend From: Burke, VA Time: 1998-10-17 11:48:26 Comments: My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Matt's family and friends. He was obviously a wonderful person and I pray that his death was not in vain. I hope everyone who reads about this senseless death will do whatever they can to support the anti-hate legislation which many states are trying to pass... and will look inward and purge any remnants of prejudice that are hanging around. We are all worthy! Matt, we'll miss you! love and light, Lynn |
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Name: Phoenix Nimitz Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: La Grange,Tx Time: 1998-10-17 11:10:28 Comments: Being from a very small Texas town in SounthCenteral Texas, it's damn tough in being gay, with very little friends to support you, and very little if any gay or lesiban people to support you in any any. And I would like to say, that I 100% support of what you are doing to preserve the Memory of Matt Sheppard! And may his memeory live on forever!! I prey to the good Lord above that I would never end up like Matt! |
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Name: Jim L Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Los Angeles, Ca. Time: 1998-10-17 10:45:51 Comments: Thank you for creating this beautiful memorial page for Matt Shepard, it is so sad that we have so many ignorant and violent people still around in this world.His murder has put such a terrible pain in my heart, I feel like I have lost a son. My heart goes out to his family and his close friends.I have to believe that Matt is with God in heaven.. Jim L |
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Name: Tammie Website: Unicornz Mansion Referred by: From a Friend From: Georgia Time: 1998-10-17 10:40:36 Comments: I am so sorry for the lose of such a wonderful person, although I never knew Matt I feel that he has made a big impact on my life. I hope that something good comes out of this horrible act of violence. |
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Name: Jay Boda Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Tampa, Florida Time: 1998-10-17 09:52:58 Comments: In life you touched many, Matt. In death you touched millions. I didn't know you but I wish I had. I pray that you continue to do great things and keep those of us left behind safe from harm's way. You're an angel now, you earned your wings. |
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Name: carol Website: bears home page Referred by: From a Friend From: NJ, USA Time: 1998-10-17 09:18:48 Comments: this tradgey will not be swept under the rug. he was truly a role model and will not be forgotten easily. i think that your page is wonderful. |
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Name: dawn g Website: sammy1 Referred by: From a Friend From: OH Time: 1998-10-17 07:14:23 Comments: God bless Matthew and his family and close friends. I have emailed the president along with many others on behalf of Matthew and all of us who can at any time be the victim of a hate crime. The memorial page was done beautifully. We will continue to fight for our safety and our rights. |
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Name: Katrina M. Grillo Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Indiana Time: 1998-10-17 07:13:37 Comments: It saddens me so, with all the hatred and evil of all mankind. I am only on this Earth for one lifetime and I choose to live and love to the fullest. |
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Name: John Gallagher Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Christchurch NZ Time: 1998-10-17 05:18:57 Comments: A very kind thought for you to put the information and poem for Mathew - a very sad story which was headline news here in New Zealand. |
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Name: Fred Smith Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Germany Time: 1998-10-17 05:01:11 Comments: My prayers go out to Matthew and his family. Not even the death of my own father has impacted me the way the way this has. I find myself filled with such pain and anger that I am overwhelmed. The idea that someone can be tortured and murdered for just being what he is, is not acceptable to me. What disburbs me the most is that I have let these people, the animals that did this and idiots like the Phelps gang, cause me to feel such rage that I would lower myself to their levels in wanting to see them, themselves face the same fate. I know there is a better way but right now I am to angry see it. Maybe Matt's death will teach us all a lesson. |
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Name: Nicholas Turner Website: Referred by: Yahoo! From: Mobile, Alabama Time: 1998-10-17 02:46:04 Comments: This is a cruel world we live in.I hope that some people now realize that no matter who or what you are no one should have the right to infringe on anothers happiness, freedom, or way of life. People need to realize that we're all in this together and that people are different, and that is what makes us human beings. |
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Name: Rosemarie (Harding) Lentz Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Indiana Time: 1998-10-17 02:02:00 Comments: I have this very fear in my family. My brother is gay and I love him more than anything in this world and I told him when he exposed his sexuality I was very afraid someone might try to hurt or worse yet kill him because of it. I feel for you and your family. I never want to know exactly how it feels to loose someone you love in the way you lost your precious Matthew. Please try to be strong, from what you wrote about Matthew he would want you to be strong and not bitter as hard as that may be. Once again, I am sorry for you and you have my support. You go get them Mom. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Gods speed. |
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Name: MaryLee McCallister Website: do not have one Referred by: AOL From: Cincinnat, OH Time: 1998-10-17 01:28:55 Comments: This is a wake-up call for all of us - straight,gay,lesbian,transgendered,bisexual,black,white,Hispanic, etc.etc. Let us make sure Matthew did not die in vain! Get out there on the firing line and stand up for what is right - equal rights/protection for everyone! |
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Name: B.K. Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: San Diego, CA Time: 1998-10-17 00:27:36 Comments: Thanks for having this tribute to Matthew Shepard. |
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Name: Gary Shannon Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Dallas. Texas Time: 1998-10-17 00:05:07 Comments: I am deeply saddened and outraged at this unspeakable crime. My thoughts and prayers go out to all who knew Matthew, the world is less one obviously caring individual who did not deserve to be beaten and left to die. My only hope is that through this horrible tragidy people will pull their heads out of their asses and realize that hate crimes should not and will not be tolerated. Its just really sad that it took this kind of situation to bring people to their feet and start vocalizing their anger for legislature. May God keep Matthew by his side and watch over all who knew him. And Damn those sick inhuman bastards who commited this horrible act, for they will be judged and punishment will be just. Gary |
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Name: David Jendre Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Youngsown, OH Time: 1998-10-16 23:48:34 Comments: This Is tragic moment in American History... Sad to say, in more ways than just one... |
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Name: Scott David Szurek Website: Referred by: Yahoo! From: Kalamazoo, Michigan Time: 1998-10-16 23:22:30 Comments: Hi, My nams is Scott and I'am 18 years old and Gay. I feel for you and his family. He seemed like a great guy to know and to be friends with. I do beleave deep down in my heart that the two guys do and will Die for this. even thought it is not enough!!! I feel for you. I will hold Matt in my heart. God bless Scott |
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Name: Robert Gaddis Website: swish's Home Page Referred by: From a Friend From: Fort Worth, Texas Time: 1998-10-16 23:21:50 Comments: I am very sad that people now a days have to do something like this. This shows that WE (everyone) have a long way to go to get rid of hatred in this country. When anyone dies of a hate crime or has gotten killed we all die a little at a time. So, come on maybe WE Gays and Lesbians can TEACH this country about tolerance for others NO MATTER WHO THEY ARE. I also fee like that we as gays and lesbians are a group that is an easy target. WE ARE NOT!!!! |
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Name: Kurt Tallardy, Jr Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: NY Time: 1998-10-16 22:58:32 Comments: Good job: nice page. A lot of thought and effort went into it, and you did Mat's memory justice. |
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Name: Steve G. Website: Referred by: Geocities From: Washington, DC Time: 1998-10-16 22:20:44 Comments: Let's hope and pray that Matt's death brings us closer together to mobilize against the senseless violence and hatred that is everpresent in this country (and around the world). When will we give peace a chance? |
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Name: Fr. Dennis Brickle Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Macon, GA Time: 1998-10-16 22:11:02 Comments: Your memorial is a beautiful and moving celebration of a beautiful and vibrant young life brought to a sudden and tragic end because of ignorance and self-righteous hatred. We have all come to know a very special young man recently. May he now be our special friend and advocate in Heaven. Matt, please pray for us. |
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Name: sandy Website: sandsu's page Referred by: From a Friend From: just north of Lancaster, Pa., usa Time: 1998-10-16 22:09:27 Comments: You have my sympathy!! Losing a child is a terrible loss to bear!!! More so , perhaps, in such a violent manner.....my heart goes out to you. He is now at HOME with our Father, at peace, whole and well. You will see him again....May God grant you peace and cover you with His Mercy !! |
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Name: Henry Clingaman Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Tacoma, WA Time: 1998-10-16 21:51:18 Comments: As tears run down, its painful to see someone's life snatched so early(or any time) over someone's hate or fear. It's time we start to get along, and love each other as members of the human family. |
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Name: SONNY Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: NORTHERN VIRGINIA Time: 1998-10-16 20:56:52 Comments: THANK YOU FOR YOUR TRIBUTE TO MATT. I DID NOT KNOW HIM BUT HE WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY PRAYERS. I WILL NEVER LET A DAY GO BY WITHOUT REMEMBERING HIM.HE IS ONE OF OUR FALLEN BROTHERS.... LET US ALL ATTEMPT TO MAKE THE WORLD BETTER FOR ALL. MAKE MATT SHEPARD A NAME NEVER, EVER, TO BE FORGOTTEN!ASK ALL OF YOUR RELATIVES, FRIENDS, AND ANYONE ELSE TO SPEAK OUT AGAINST HATE. ASK THEM TO PLEASE MAKE THEIR VIEWS KNOWN WHEN THEY VOTE.MATT SHEPARD'S DEATH IS ONE TOO MANY. PRAY FOR HIM, HIS FAMILY AND HIS FRIENDS. LET US ALL TRY TO MAKE THIS A SYMBOL SO THAT THINGS WILL CHANGE. |
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Name: Anthony Nguyen Website: Referred by: AOL From: Lexington, ky Time: 1998-10-16 20:50:03 Comments: From all of my family and friend we deepest sympathies to the family and friend of Matthew Sheppard. May God make us strong and help us overcome such hate. |
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Name: Teresa Vasquez Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: San Francisco, Ca Time: 1998-10-16 20:31:06 Comments: I am truly sorry for the loss of Mathew. I never knew him, but I know he will be missed. I cherish the day when parents, friends, and family stop teaching the hate that the kids today are using as their way of life. "when there is only one race, and thats mankind, we shall be free" I long for that day to come. |
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Name: Max Rasberry Website: Referred by: AOL From: Milwaukee wi, Now in Pasadena CA Time: 1998-10-16 20:28:57 Comments: My deepest sympathies go out to the family of Matthew Shepard. This is a senseless and hate filled crime. What touches me the most about this is the fact that when I moved to California back in August 18, 1998, I drove through Laramie Wyoming with my pride sticker on the back of my 88 Honda Accord Hatchback with Wisconsin plates. I thought it was a beautiful little town and thought very homophobic.........I am so sad to say that this is correct...and that this tragedy happened in the year of 1998, where diversity is supposed to be welcome....... |
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Name: Chas K Website: Referred by: Net Search From: Rochester NY Time: 1998-10-16 19:48:47 Comments: Matt is now resting peacefully, not feeling the pain inflicted by the hatred of those who cannot understand that not everyone is like them. His life will have a greater meaning if somehow this senseless tragedy will awaken many of us to the injustice that is still prevalent in our society. |
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Name: Marty Herring Website: Referred by: AOL From: Tuscaloosa Alabama Time: 1998-10-16 19:29:17 Comments: This is a very sad day for all americans,I hope and pray that the people that did this will be punished . This is cold blooded murder wheither it is a hate crime or not. |
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Name: Bruce O'Malley Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Time: 1998-10-16 19:02:20 Comments: This is a very sad story. Poor Matthew Shephard, a young life so wrongfully snuffed out like a candle... It pains me to see that this country, the so-called "most powerful nation in the world" has citizens that would resort to horrible acts of violence, such as this one. It is not only a sad day for america, but for the world.... |
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Name: Joel Lyness Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Madison WI Time: 1998-10-16 18:58:08 Comments: We all hope that the Federal Hate Crime laws go through. Maybe people would be informed that this kind of hate will not be tolerated. Our sympathies and our prayers will be with your family and other families alike. |
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Name: Kristin Fisher Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Streetsboro, Ohio Time: 1998-10-16 18:42:27 Comments: I truly think that this act of hate must stop. Whether it be against homosexuals, blacks, asians, indians or whatnot. They are all people too, just like us. their only crime is that they are different. But they are only different in such ways that may be bad to others. they are human and it is wrong to do such things to other humans. all i have to say to people who hate these "different" people, i that somewhere there are a group of people who think they are wrong in their beliefs and ways of life, what if someboy came along and did such horrible things to you? This whole thing sickens me immensely and i can only pray that these hate crimes will stop and people will stop and realize that we are all put on this earth in God's image. |
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Name: christie irick Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Tenn Time: 1998-10-16 18:07:33 Comments: They need to burn in hell for what they did!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Name: mike grieves Website: Referred by: AngelFire From: madison,wis. Time: 1998-10-16 18:05:38 Comments: it is with deep sorrow to the family and friends of mattew that i write to you. As a gay male i have always feared for my safety in a society that would not accept me. this fear goes back many years. i knew then that i was a good person but for one thing I was taught i was an evil and sinful person. these are hard and unnecessary feelings to carry. Please accept my condolences for your lose. Mathew's picture speaks volumes of his kindness. Let's us all hope and work for a society that will no longer tolerate these cruelties. Everyone needs to live with dignity and self-worth. Mike |
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Name: Cathie Sheridan Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Austin, Texas Time: 1998-10-16 18:08:13 Comments: I was shocked when I first heard this story on 20/20. I sat in complete disbelief, numb by what my ears were hearing and what my eyes were seeing. It just couldn't be real. This did not happen...people don't think like this anymore. We have come so far over the years only to be reminded that we haven't come far enough. |
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Name: jamie Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Rochester NY Time: 1998-10-16 17:43:21 Comments: Very nice, You guys have my support!!!! |
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Name: Dianne Willbanks Website: Dihard Referred by: From a Friend From: Searcy,Arkansas Time: 1998-10-16 17:33:22 Comments: Very sorry to hear of your loss, the kids that done this cruel act need to be punished. If they get away with it , it will only make matters worse, our thoughts and prayers are with the family! |
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Name: Dianne Willbanks Website: Dihard Referred by: From a Friend From: Searcy,Arkansas Time: 1998-10-16 17:35:47 Comments: Very sorry to hear of your loss, the kids that done this cruel act need to be punished. If they get away with it , it will only make matters worse, our thoughts and prayers are with the family! |
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Name: Brittany Godfrey Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: San Diego, CA Time: 1998-10-16 17:10:48 Comments: My heart goes out to the family and friends of Michael Shepard. Even those of us who never had the pleaseure of meeting Micheal feel such a loss with his death. Tears of sadness well in my eyes when I think of this tragedy. I, too, am a twenty-one year old college student. I have many gay friends and many straight friends. However, I have no friends that cannot tolorate and understand their fellow human beings. People who live with such great hate, especially the kind of hate that turns them into killers, will never know any kind of genuine happiness. For those poeple I can only hold tears of pity, not even those of sympathy. For sympathy would mean understanding. And I don't. I don't understand. God bless Michael's family and give them the straingth they need to endure. Michael may be gone from this world, but he will never be forgotten. The angels must have seen something special in Michael, I think we all can too. |
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Name: linda Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: newhampshire Time: 1998-10-16 16:41:58 Comments: the people that have done this horrible crime are animals.im so sick of people hurting people because they are a litte different who are we to judge other people.my GOD are we not all humun.i grew up in ireland and i have seen people getting beat up just because they are gay.it makes me so mad that in tis day and age that this bullshit is still going on.for anyone that is gay in this world it must be a horrible struggle for them .do they have to live in fear of luntics like these killers.i am not gay but i love everyone the same.i hope matthew is in a much better place now and is at peacegod bless him.god bless his family in this time of need.you know the world can be a horrible place wouldnt it be so much easier if we could all just love each other.you are loved matthew. |
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Name: JIMMY Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: GREENSBORO, N,C, Time: 1998-10-16 16:38:46 Comments: GO IN PEACE |
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Name: chris Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Utah Time: 1998-10-16 16:34:55 Comments: i really feel your pain. Its not right to judge people in anything they do. Please know that you will be in my prayers. love to all |
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Name: Jay Painter Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Washington, DC Time: 1998-10-16 16:24:53 Comments: I am so sorry that this happened to your son. He was a very handsome young man. As a gay man myself, this saddens me to think that we could lose our life just by our sexual preference. I hope you get the justice you deserve and I know Matthew has found peace with the Angels. It should comfort you to know that as Matthew looks down from the Heavens, only now does he realize how many people loved him that he had never met. You all are in my prayers. |
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Name: Mychael O'Brien Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Ohio Time: 1998-10-16 16:13:20 Comments: Bo, Your tribute to Matthew is beautiful and moving. For the first time in my legal career, I wish I were a prosecuting attorney for the State of Wyoming. While this is admittedly an un-Christian sentiment, they should rot in hell! Myke |
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Name: Dustan Shupe Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Lake Alfred, Florida Time: 1998-10-16 15:43:38 Comments: I cry every time I read something new about Matthew. I did not know him but this senseless tragedy and loss breaks my heart. May these monsters come to justice. |
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Name: David Garza Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Dallas,TX Time: 1998-10-16 15:31:18 Comments: This is a wonderful thing to dedicate your time to this man. It saddens me so that I offen find myself getting angry . How could someone be so compassionless,if this not hate I don't know what is my heart goes out to family and his friends.We should not stand for this any longer .Mattew my you rest in peace my brother,we have a long battle ahead of us.LOVE EACH OTHER!!!!!! |
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Name: leigh Maddox Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: connecticut Time: 1998-10-16 15:21:56 Comments: MY PRAYER ARE WITH YOU. PLEASE STAY STRONG. THIS HAS REALY TOUCHED MY HEART. AND LET US ALL REMEMBER THAT LIFE IS A GIFT FROM GOD, AND NOONE HAS THE RIGHT TO TAKE THAT AWAY FROM ANYONE. |
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Name: Rob Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Seattle Time: 1998-10-16 15:17:24 Comments: What can you say? I have tears in my eyes as I read the wonderful messages here. Matt, I know that you were a wonderful person. I was shocked by this most senseless act - as was my family.I pray for your soul's repose and will remember you in my prayers daily. May God take care of you. |
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Name: andrea27 Website: Finally Referred by: From a Friend From: massachusetts Time: 1998-10-16 15:13:01 Comments: As an american, I too am disgusted at the horrors we inflict on ourselves as a society!! It is a shame that a murder has to be committed before the legislature in all states pass Hate crime laws. I am thankful enough to live in a state that already has it on the books!!! |
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Name: Dan P. McIntire Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Kansas City, Missouri Time: 1998-10-16 15:06:13 Comments: My wish is that your reward is that many are touched and saddedned by your early passing. I wish we had known each other. From all that I have read you would of been a great friend to have. I look forward to seeing you one day. Until then...all my best |
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Name: Robyn Morgan Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: SPOKANE, WASH Time: 1998-10-16 14:58:48 Comments: This type of hate needs to be faced head on by our Judicial System |
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Name: Everrett G. Parker Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Baton Rouge, Louisiana Time: 1998-10-16 15:00:49 Comments: Now is the time to break the chains of habits that seek to bind us all. Once in junior high school I received one of those "class punishments" You know, where I am sure I was not guilty but because the class as a whole was I got it too. The penalty was to write this "The Chains of a habit are too weak to be felt until too strong to be broken. I never knew the author, only that it was to be written 700 times. " I am 42 now, have lived, never forgotten that line and have come to realize, more and more, its meaning. There are many who would turn their heads and be silent at this time. That always happens when people don't want to "confront the harsh reality of their inner selves." If these actions are allowed to go without sufficient and just attention the "chains of this habit" will grow stronger and.. who knows perhaps this period of growth would be the one that causes "this habit of ultra hatred to become too strong to be broken." |
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Name: Roger Winchester Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Dubuque, Iowa Time: 1998-10-16 14:59:06 Comments: I am a channel operator on Dalnet, #GayZone, and on behalf of all of the channel Ops, we thank you for this memorial. This is a very difficult time for all the gay community around the world. I think it's about time our government woke up and pulled their head out of their ass and provided better laws and stiffer penalties for hate crimes! Thank you again for the memorial... Roger aka IowaGuy1 on Dalnet. |
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Name: Michael Smith Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Kentucky Time: 1998-10-16 14:48:55 Comments: I would like to extend my prayers to Matt's family and friends. I can't believe in a society as today that people are still ignorance as they are. With Matt's death, i just hope something good comes from this. As bad as a tragedy as this is, I know Matthew is in a better place (Heaven). God bless you Matthew, your family and friends. |
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Name: Mike Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Philadelphia, PA Time: 1998-10-16 14:43:16 Comments: I am saddened and outraged by the death of Matthew Shepard. I lost my best friend 11 years ago due to a hate crime. We must demand that the laws be changed to protect us from hate crimes. We must also stop that lunatic “Rev.” Fred Phelps who along with his sick following, promote hatred towards gay people. We must “ACT UP - FIGHT BACK”. My deepest sympathy to the parents, family and friends of Matthew, my prayers and thoughts are with you. Rest In Peace Matthew. |
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Name: Gene Janowski Website: Foot Buddies Magazine Web Site Referred by: Net Search From: Chicago, Illinois Time: 1998-10-16 14:22:38 Comments: Thank you for this lovely tribute to Matt. Though I have never met him personally I feel the loss as the loss of a brother to this brutal crime. My thoughts go with his family and friends. May Matt's memory live on so we will never again have to experience such tragedy. Gene Janowski |
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Name: SOUPY Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: MANHEIM, PA Time: 1998-10-16 14:05:24 Comments: I AM DEEPLY SADDNED BY THIS EVENT I HAVE JUST READ ON THIS WEB SITE. HOW YOUNG ADULTS CAN BE SO CRUEL TO KILL ANOTHER HUMAN BEING IS JUST BEYOND MY FATHAM OF REALITY. I SEND MY LOVE AND PRAYERS TO THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF MATHEW...AND ONLY HOPE THAT JUSTICE IS SERVED. PLEASE STAY STRONG AS U R THE ONES WHO KEEP HIM ALIVE INTHE HEARTS OF HUMANITY. |
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Name: Marc Koenigs Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Houston, Texas Time: 1998-10-16 13:36:14 Comments: My heart goes out to the family of Matthew, and also to those others who have suffered the same because of their sexuality. No one should have to endure this merely because they love someone who happens to be the same gender. Eventually, this country and the world will come to realize that ALL life is precious and ALL love is as well. |
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Name: Terpsichore aka jj Jackman Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Winston-Salem, NC Time: 1998-10-16 13:18:35 Comments: nice site, sweetheart...may it bring at least a little solace and comfort to those effected by this tragic event. |
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Name: Dan Oliver Website: Referred by: Net Search From: Caribbean Time: 1998-10-16 13:18:01 Comments: 161098/1:30PM. I am here in your memorial WEB. Since monday I share every day with you and your people. I don't know why your death impacted me this way. Tears come down over my face when I am writing this to the guestbook. Maybe I think in my 12 years old child. You move me to accept whatever he likes to be. I am married, one girl in my whole life, yes because I am homosexual. Past experience bind me to accept heterosexuality. In don't know who you are but today listening to he music at your memorial web, I know why I am so sad, so alone: cultural pression, rejection, stigmatization, abuse, murder = Homosexual world? You taught us to fight...you are dead but for ever you are going to be in our minds. To all who may read this sincere and humility words come from my heart, please protect yourself in all the senses. I have HIV(child & wife HIV-) I don't need to explain. May God forgiveme for not having the guts to go agead. I am here waiting the day to share with you there where you are. Matt, family & friends I share what I feel in this sour moment. Matt rest in peace for ever...i see you some day til then, Dan :-x |
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Name: William F Knicely Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Northern Virginia Time: 1998-10-16 13:13:49 Comments: I agree entirely with all said.......I agree something must the done to protect the innocent.. and to punish the guilty.... Many prayers said for Matthew here...... |
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Name: Candy Website: Wolfscape Referred by: From a Friend From: Wisconsin Time: 1998-10-16 13:07:56 Comments: We had an incident similar to this in our schools. Luckily it did not go quite that far. He wasn't beaten, but other horrible and humiliating things were done to him. I myself am not gay. No matter who this crime would have been against it was wrong. It is sad to see that someone was wiped off the face of this earth out of stupidity. I can't believe anyone would do such a horrible thing to anyone because of race, creed, color, religion, or sexual preference. I say to each his own. It scares me to know that people exist in this world that could commit such heineous acts.The sick people who commited this crime should be punished by whatever means the law sees fit. They hadn't better let them go free or give them a slap on the wrist either. I don't want those people loose and running around in anyone's neighborhood, left to commit another such crime.To Matthew's family...my thoughts are with you. |
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Name: allure Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: australia Time: 1998-10-16 13:09:46 Comments: it saddens me to hear this and i know words are cheap..but i will pray for him! |
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Name: amy simmons Website: Referred by: Signing another Guestbook From: Tuscaloosa, Alabama Time: 1998-10-16 12:58:15 Comments: To the family of Mattew.this is a tragdy. i would lik to seen be deepest sorrow and love to u and hope that u make it through to a brighter day in the son of God. As a simple rainbow comes after then mornigh showers yet and the rain flows through the streets and the sun showes us its bright smile. there will always be more rain and another beautiful ranilbow that will shine down on u in a time of need and peace.I hope that one day u can look back and see how ur son and ur words hav affected millions all over the country.Im memory of Matthew.Amy Simmons |
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Name: Diana Colfack Website: Dorothy's Particular Friends Referred by: From a Friend From: I live in Germany Time: 1998-10-16 12:45:53 Comments: My sympathy goes out to Matthews family. May all the world feel sorrow for this great tragedy. |
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Name: Lorenzo F. Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: San Diego Time: 1998-10-16 12:29:32 Comments: It a shame that we are still treated like some kind of "Bad" guys... We are the same no matter how we act and look!!! |
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Name: Lisa Songer Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Vincennes University Time: 1998-10-16 12:22:37 Comments: I think what you have done for Matt is great! I don't know him but it is awful what happened. I think this is a great way to let Matt's memories live on |
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Name: Mark Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Seattle Time: 1998-10-16 12:22:36 Comments: Having "met" Matthew through this dispicable act, I've come to harbor a true feeling that I DO know him and that he and his family have become and are becoming a very important part of who I am. Blessing, Matthew. We ARE learning, my friend. And to Matthew's family, thank you for letting all of us share your grief; take good care of yourselves. |
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Name: Phil Hodgson Website: n/a Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Hull, England Time: 1998-10-16 12:20:23 Comments: God Bless Matthew, by all accounts a man both phisically and spritually beautiful. No one deserves to go like that, and I only hope, that he finds the peace in death that our fellow human beings would not allow him in life. my condolances to his family, but death is not my first choice of his murderers, it's too quick and easy for them, they did not give mathew that luxury. god bless. |
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Name: Chickie Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Time: 1998-10-16 12:03:19 Comments: My heart is aching. Why? Poor blessed one, I can only tolerate this by praying, by believing that his angels took him out, before it got too horrible. If anything good can come from this, maybe it's that now people, who never really considered the hate against gays, or just assumed that everything was ok these days, will really be forced to see how it really is. I think prejudice and hate is allowed to live on because so many people are just indifferent. They don't hate, or they don't love us, but they just figured everythings ok. But it's not. We all have to stand up and fight so that every person has a fair chance in life. A fair chance to live like everyone else. I know God has taken Matthew into his arms and healed his wounds. |
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Name: Gene F. Barfield Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Charlevoix County, Michigan Time: 1998-10-16 11:59:37 Comments: Over one hundred years ago Abraham Lincoln said that those who desire not freedom for others deserve it not for themselves. And in this century, Franklin Delano Roosevelt and Woodrow Wilson, in the course of two great global conflicts, enumerated freedoms they believed to be inalienable to all humankind, including freedom from unreasonable fears. Much work remains to be done, sadly, to realize the sentiments and intents expressed in their noble and inspiring words. There are many heroes and saints among us, and now, sadly, young Matthew joins the hallowed ranks of those who lived in ways that inspire us but who are no longer among us to offer their examples. It remains to those of us who still live in this life to complete the travel toward freedom and dignity for all, that they set us on course toward. A blessing on all who have fallen along the way, and on all who love those no longer among us. And for those of us who remain behind in this world to complete the Great Work of humanity, may we all go from strength to strength. We veterans of military service on freedom's behalf understand and honor the sacrifice of many others, knowing that there are many patriots who serve the cause of freedom, in uniform and out. Their lives and their courage give us strength to go on. We are deeply grateful and dedicated to complete the work ahead, no matter the cost, for the cost of living in fear without freeedom will always be too high to bear in silence. With great love and sadness, Gene F. Barfield, human rights activist and former National President, Gay, Lesbian & Bisexual Veterans of America |
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Name: Kristi Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Fla Time: 1998-10-16 11:51:16 Comments: Such a tragedy should not happen in our world...I can only pray for the family and may they find peace in knowing Matthew's in a better place....He was a wonderful human being and didn't deserve this...My prayers and love go out to his family...~KC~ |
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Name: Sheryl Pehrson Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Southern Calif Time: 1998-10-16 11:47:39 Comments: As a lesbian myself It often makes me nervous about the homophobia in America today. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time. God Bless you and now may you rest in the peace you deserve. I'll think of you often. Sheryl |
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Name: Forrest Cook Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Charlottesville, VA Time: 1998-10-16 11:27:05 Comments: Thank you for putting this website together. Victims of intolerance and hatred must never be forgotten. Their bright light must continue to shine and pierce the darkness of bigotry, and ignorance.I would also send my condolences to Matthew's family at this time of sadness. Words can hardly explain how I am feeling at this time but I pray that God will comfort you and give you strength. |
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Name: Frank Arellano Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Umatilla, Oregon Time: 1998-10-16 11:18:30 Comments: I think that this site pretty much gets the point across. People that do that sort of thing to other people shouldn't deserve to live. Is it human for someone to kill another of his own kind just because he is different than he is? I don't think that this is fair at all. People should learn to live with people's differences no matter the size or shape of that difference. We are all one people and if we can't learn to get along and make peace in our lives, then what hope is there for us in the future? |
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Name: Kevin Barnard Website: Barnard Graphics Referred by: From a Friend From: California Time: 1998-10-16 10:57:22 Comments: My deepest sympathy goes out to Matt's family and friends. |
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Name: Michael LaBreck Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: East Hartford, CT Time: 1998-10-16 10:34:16 Comments: It has strickened me with such sorrow, and grieve - the loss of such a wonderful, young man....though, I did not know Matthew all that well - I feel as though he was MY brother, and I'm sure that - along with thousands of other gays and lesbians - they feel the same way as I do....I don't know if you are aware of this or not, but the gay and lesbian community of Hartford, Connecticut has held a candlelight vigil in honor of Matthew....REST IN PEACE, MY BROTHER! |
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Name: Shawn T Website: Bluedude from NH Referred by: From a Friend From: New Hampshire Time: 1998-10-16 10:30:40 Comments: Bless you for your efforts. Perhaps if the world had a few more like you and I, there would be fewer of those who would do such a thing to a sweet, gentle person such as Matthew. This whole horrible event has brought home to me just how very far we must yet travel and how very important the struggle is. We must take care to not fall victim to the same blind rage ourselves, as that which claimed those who took Matthew's life. No,...if this battle is EVER to be won, it must be done with vigilance, unity of purpose, and most importantly,...with love. Hate only begets hate. The one shining truth and comfort is that love and the undeniable human spirit WILL overcome this darkness. God speed us to that day on wings of angels. |
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Name: Al Christenson Website: BAK Physical Therapy Referred by: From a Friend From: Redwood City, CA Time: 1998-10-16 10:30:18 Comments: God is with you, as he is with Matt right now. He will judge Matt's killers, and he will be just. He will also be with you to continue your lives and to help the world become less a place of hate and more a place of love and understanding. |
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Name: JON Website: my page Referred by: From a Friend From: Calif Time: 1998-10-16 10:02:48 Comments: i am speachless .,.,.,.,i cant say how i feel .,.,.it`s just not rite |
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Name: Larry Coffey Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Oklahoma City, OK Time: 1998-10-16 09:59:27 Comments: Matthew sounds to have been a great role model for all of us. He may have done more for mankind in his short 21 years than most people do in their natural lifetime. Hopefully he will not have died in vain. For if this leads to the states having stronger hate crime laws, then Matthew will have attained his life goal. That is to have made one persons life better, if this happens, he will have made thousands of peoples lives better. And I suspect that his death has already changed many people for the better. My Prayers and Thoughts are with You and Matthew |
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Name: daniel Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: alabama Time: 1998-10-16 09:50:27 Comments: sorry about your son. My lover as lost is bother and he deals with it everyday and i know its not hard. So please stand strong cause i know it gets better each day as it past. Remember the good memories of him. |
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Name: Joel Website: Referred by: Just Surfed On In From: Boston Time: 1998-10-16 09:44:20 Comments: This was a really thoughtful and wonderful thing for you guys to do. Thank you. He would have been quite pleased with this. |
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Name: james m. taft Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: st. paul min. Time: 1998-10-16 09:33:50 Comments: dear family I talked to my gbl group they send thier love and hopes to you and the people that have been affected with love and hope of a better future jasiahpaul, and gbl support group |
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Name: Kathleen Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Colorado Time: 1998-10-16 08:50:53 Comments: I think that what happened to Matthew is the worst tragedy imaginable. Because he chose to be himself, he died. Those kids that did this have no regards for the precious gift of human life. They may continue to live but they did not give Matthew that choice. Hopefully from this tragedy will come an awareness of the American and international public of the diversity of this planet. How boring would it be if everyone was the same? Let every individual be just that; INDIVIDUAL. Without the unity there will be no more... |
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Name: Bob and Ray Website: Referred by: AngelFire From: NW Ohio Time: 1998-10-16 08:43:57 Comments: We will never forget Matthew. |
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Name: Bob and Ray Website: Referred by: AngelFire From: NW Ohio Time: 1998-10-16 08:40:03 Comments: We will never forget Matthew. |
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Name: Ernie Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: North Carolina Time: 1998-10-16 08:19:00 Comments: My heart is sickened and saddened by this atrocity. Only God knows what He had in mind when He created this misbegotten creature called man. It was His absolute worst creation. For everything man touches, he destroys. He seeks out new things, everyday, to conquer and destroy. Every problem on this planet comes by man's ill-equipped hands, to handle God's incredible creations. And then he laments mankind. How dare he say such. There is nothing kind about him. Everything beautifully different, on the planet will 99.9% of the time be fucked up by man. MAN'S LATEST VICTIM, MATHEW SHEPARD. I AM SO SORRY THIS HAPPENED AND CANNOT CONTAIN MY TEARS AS I CONCLUDE THIS MESSSAGE. I AM PRAYING FOR THIS SICK WORLD. (((LET THE PUNISHMENT FIT THE CRIME))) |
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Name: Elena Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Houston, Texas Time: 1998-10-16 08:10:42 Comments: I'm very very sorry about your loss. Some people just do not know how it affects others or their own lives when they take another. I hope they find it in ther hearts, if they have any to ask for Matthew's parents forgivness, and God's. For He is the one who will mete out their ultimate punishment. I do not believe in capitol punishment because that is just too easy on some people, however, these children do need to be taught some sort of lesson. I hope the judge has the wisdom to give them the punishment they deserve and wish Matthew's family and friends the courage to remember Matthew as he would want to be remembered and go on with thier lives the way he would have wanted. My prayers are with them. Good Luck to you. |
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Name: hildreth overcash Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Time: 1998-10-16 07:54:35 Comments: My feelings of sympathy and outrage are great. I continue to hope for a world of acceptance and strive to help others understand that we are all wonderful people regardless of our differences.Blessings to famiy, friends, and all effected by this this needless act of violence.Hildy |
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Name: Peggy Cannon Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Pennsylvania Time: 1998-10-16 06:58:47 Comments: . |
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Name: Domingo Aponte, Jr. Website: Referred by: From a Friend From: Vineland, New Jesery Time: 1998-10-16 06:55:37 Comments: My hopes and my Prayers are with the Shepard Family. May God grant you the strength and courage through this hard time in your life. I my self am gay and have felt a great lost when I heard this tragic news. My Deepest Sympathy to Family and Friend. God Bless You and Keep You Safe Always. Domingo Aponte, Jr. |