To gain real respect from others, there's need to be equipped with: 1.vast knowledge and experoences 2.mature personality 3.communicational skills 4.empathy "You WILL STOP... interrupting me. You asked me a question; NOW...give me time to answer." "You CAN NOT change a mind that's closed like a steel trap. It's a waste of time." :I am what you think I am" priest on Sunday sermon, decades ago. Never forgot that! "every human is destined to make at least someone else miserable in his lifetime!" ;) "As compared to what?" "At what price?" "What hard evidence do you have?" "Your enemies are your teachers" "I've never met an intelligent person who wasn't troubled." Jordan Peterson "It is hard to imagine a more stupid or more dangerous way of making decisions than by putting those decisions in the hands of people who pay no price for being wrong." Thomas Sowell "No society ever thrived because it had a large and growing class of parasites living off those who produce." Thomas Sowell "What poisons you turns into a tonic!" "Because I knew you, I have been changed for good." "No one is hated more than he who speaks the truth" ~Plato "To find out who rules over you simply find out who you cannot criticize" -Kevin Alfred Strom "When you tear out a man's tongue, you are not proving him a liar, you're only telling the world that you fear what he might say" - Tyrion Lannister "Our history and our passion go hand in hand." "I don't trade self-respect for belonging" "Not all scars show. Not all wounds heal." "Bad company corrupts good morals" "All models are wrong, but some are useful." George Box, 1974 "What you think of me is none of my business" "If I'm committed to something, I'm in for the long haul" Dan Proft "If you fail to plan …you plan to fail. The only free cheese is in a mousetrap." "I've failed many times. That's why I succeeded!" Michael Jordan "If you dwell on failures you are magnifying them." -KJV Bible, via Deb Stelter "Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting some battle in their life." "The highest form of charity is to tell someone the truth/" St. Thomas Aquinas “The most effective way to destroy people is to deny and obliterate their own understanding of their history.” ― George Orwell "Fear is the number 1 obstacle to success!" -Kelly Orchard "Father time is undefeated!" "The less you care about other people's opinions, the more you save money." "don't become what you hate!" "Do not be your own opposition" "My detractors and enemies have done more to make me a better person!" -Joe Dallas What's done in the dark will come to light Failure is one step closer to success. It's okay if a person learns from errors and does something else! Seek out criticism. Have a good outcome. Have drive. A lot of people confuse education and intelligence. "best to be alone than be surrounded by people who drain your energy." "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care that you entertain no notions unsuitable to virtue and reasonable nature." - Marcus Aurelius "Not taking any risk is a risk in and of itself" "Got plenty Book sense but no Common Sense." Daughter spent 4 years in college to learn how to speak French. She now works at an Ice Cream shop. If you hang around 9 broke people, you might be the 10th! Anna's free advice: 1. Stay regulated, be yourself, and tell the truth. 2. Don't try to win them over. 3. Stay neutral (poliet, brief, and emotionally detached) 4. Pause, and then speak. 5. Don't try to change their mind. 6. Redirect your focus with people who care. Worth: 1. I stopped letting others dictate how I should feel about myself 2. I read all books from Mindbloomery and learned how to value myself first. That changed everything 3. Small steps towards asserting boundaries made me feel more in control of my life 4. Personal growth is the best way to attract the right people into your life Types of behaviour you should never tolerate: 1. Abuse 2. Dishonest 3. Manipulation 4. Bullying 5. Loud angry SMART MONEY BRO: Never buy...waste of money 1. Designer clothes, name brands 2. Overpriced or unnecessary tech 3. Credit card Interest (it compounds!) 4. Unused subscriptions 5. Lottery tickets 6. Food delivery 7. Trendy exercise equipment 8. Expensive courses or training 9. Brand new car ------------------------------- Don’t Waste Your Life:Smart Money Bro 1. Don't be impatient 2. Don't chase material goods 3. Low-paying skills = low-paying wages 4. Don't live a risk-fearing life 5. Think critically and come up with solutions - don't let others tell you what to think; produce 6. Be financially disciplined; don't spend all your money 7. Not being consistent 8. Break free of negative environments; don't surround yourself with enablers and those with victim mentalities When you overcome the insults of people, it's water off the duck's back -Joe Dallas "My wounds could tell a story...." "Dumb people don't know they're dumb!" "Have the courage to be disliked." ~Bruce Lee “You have enemies?? GOOD. That means you stood for something sometime in your life!” —Winston Churchill. "So, someone despises me. I shall let it be their problem" -- Epictetus. "The one who strives to be liked by all; will in time be respected by none" -- Confucius. "Oh, you say you don't like me. That's fine, it's not compulsory " -- Lord Laxton. "It is hard to imagine a more stupid or more dangerous way of making decisions than by putting those decisions in the hands of people who pay no price for being wrong". ~ Thomas Sowell "Most of the evil in this world is done by people with good intentions"- T.S.Eliot "You're stupid. You're proud of it, and that's what makes you stupid!" Lisa Rieger Success! People like winners, hate losers! When they say 'misinformation must be banned', they really mean, 'open discussion must be banned' "Slander is to keep you from reaching higher/your goals." "Love is not love until it's tested." "Your enemies are your teachers." Bible "A man's luck always runs out....sometimes" the Texan "the science of the obvious!" -old 1970's slogan "Mess with the Bull... You'll get the Horns!" "People don't do better, as they don't know better. They don't know what you know." "Father Time is undefeated." "The eyes are the window to the soul." “Show me a hero and I'll show you a bum.” ― Gregory "Pappy" Boyington "Until you can make something simple, don't think about it." "No man ever became great or good, except through many mistakes." "Surround yourself with good people and let them do their jobs." -Chris Kegel "The enemy is apathy" "Fences make good neighbors." -Robert Frost "No amount of evidence will ever persuade an idiot." - Mark Twain "This young man should be a professor, his ability to talk for such a long time and say absolutely nothing of substance is impressive." “I’m upset that you argue effectively” "Every time you say one thing, there's an infinite number of other things that you're NOT saying, and I don't think that that's fair!" "Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil" -Isaiah 5:20 "I pivoted away not because I didn't want to talk about it, but because it made me uncomfortable..." "I Googled it and Google gave me the most reasonable response" -huh? "To be persuasive we must be believable; to be believable we must be credible; credible we must be truthful." - - Edward R. Murrow I didn't believe in divorce, until I got married! “I don’t think you can feel the blues until you been through some hard times.” Muddy Waters If you're not growing, you're dying. “Abuse of words has been the great instrument of sophistry and chicanery, of party, faction, and division of society.”– John Adams, letter to J. H. Tiffany, Mar. 31, 1819. "Elected politicians have become the traitors of of the very system they were supposed to serve and protect." "Hi - how are you? When are you leaving?" "Never argue with stupid people, as they will drag you down to their level" "Life is hard. God is good." "I'm going to lie, and talk to stupid people." "The most intelligent people, together with the most cowardly, know how to shut up." "A man's guilt is his own burden" "I don't meet many honest, good people. I respect them when I do." - No Name on the Bullet (1959, Audie Murphy) "The high road is worth the climb." "Chose common sense over nonsense!" "The stronger the message, the stronger the enemies!" "Uneasy the head that wears the crown." "Rest on occasion. The eagle soars. Not always flapping his wings." “Nothing is over until we decide it is.” "Do you want Wisdom. Ask God." "You mess with a bull, you get the horns!" "Burnout leads eventually to success." "Learn from life. Reject, ignore the idiots." "what is your question" "there's just one more thing." Columbo "If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything." "Contempt and hatred is not good." -Jordan Peterson Trust is earned, not given. "Self awareness is a heck of a thing." How did I get to this point? "How do I measure my Life?" Resistance to tyrants is obedience to God "If you want a friend, get a dog" - Harry Truman "A tiger is no match for 1000 wolves" "My offer to you is nothing." -Michael Corleone "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions" "He who pays the piper calls the tune." "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." Edmund Burke "We keep raising the prices on our vehicles, but no one is buying. I can't figure it out." "People will pay more to be entertained than educated'-Johnny Carson "Don't step on anybody on the way up. They'' trip you on the way down for sure." -Ron Ugly Thompson "The World's a bad place, but I don't wanna die" Reflections of My Life, Marmalade "Hire clowns and you get a circus." "If you ever saw how a hot dog was made, you'd never eat another one." "The blessing of getting old is you just truly don"t care." "People hate the truth. But here it is." "A sign of success is having haters." "Chronic complainers will always complain no matter what." "I just assume everyone doesn’t like me so I’m pleasantly surprised when they actually do." "Funny thing about getting older, eyesight may weaken but we can see right through people." "It doesn't matter if someone doesn't like you. People don't need a good reason to dislike you. It is usually a problem within themselves." "What you do is what you believe." -Sen John Kennedy "The way someone treats you says more about them than it does about you." "It's easier to blame other people than to take accountability." "Some people will like you no matter what you do and some people will Never like you no matter what you do" "You don't tell God how to plan." "Gave you something you did not deserve, earn." "You count the votes again and again and again until they come out right." Johnny Rocco, in "Key Largo.” "Where is your faith?" "Here I am: No family, no husband, no kids, no money." -Dawn Wells. Very sad. "There is a time and a place for everything." "Even a blind mouse gets the cheese occasionally!" "You cannot reason with people who hate the very fact that you exist." "No wisdom, no discression." "the emperor has no clothes!!!" "Don't render evil for evil" 1 Peter 3:9 "Every dog has their day." "I don't buy the premise of your question." "I want to think about me the way God think about me." "Solitude is my sanctuary." "Therapy, hopefully, is a write off." "I prefer peace. But if trouble must come, let it come in my time, so that my children can live in peace." ~Thomas Paine "I'm criticized always. I could care less." "I've been hated my whole life." Jose .... -old co-worker. "I am what you think I am. You think I'm “Retirement is a time of harvesting rather than acquisition.” "I get paid a lot of money to know nothing and do nothing but sit, travel around and spew nonsense." "It didn't have to be this way." "It's something to pass the time." “If you buy the premise, you buy the bit.” -Johnny Carson "People are sheep, they need to be told what to do!" --sad way of thinking. “The saddest part of betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies.” "Bring something good to the table, or go sit at another table." "It's a massive wakeup call when you realize your "friends" aren't happy for you in your best moments and aren't there during your darkest moments." "Everything is crap! why pay more for crap???" "Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28 “Tyranny of the minority” "I don't always drink beer, but when I do, I prefer to be by myself." -George Thorogood "Alone with a cigar, and a beer. Living the dream." "I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired." "the dumber I get, the richer I get!" "I've been in therapy for 10+ years." "Intelligence has limitations but stupidity has no boundaries." "The math doesn't math" "Facts don't care about your feelings." "Stupid is as stupid does" "Tell the truth, magic happens!!!" "Searching for corruption in Chicago is like looking for a needle in a needle stack." "I only serve to make our experience worse” "Don't buy the problem! Don't buy the product." “It is always easier to rally people around a problem, than to rally them around a solution.” “It’s easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled.”— Mark Twain "First we overlook evil. Then we permit evil. Then we legalize evil. Then we promote evil. Then we celebrate evil then we persecute those who call it evil." Fr. Dwight Longenecker “In the Last Days, Good will be called Evil and Evil will be called Good.” "Be quiet. Be still. Listen." -LaConia Williams "You're sitting for an hour. That's downtime. Make use of your time. Let's eat!" -Willie Grays “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” "This is what happens when a country loses its adults." "The future is a gigantic quagmire of things that do not work" "I feel lonelier in a room full of people than i do being by myself." "You never get a second chance, to make a first impression". "accuse others of what you're doing " "How should I live my life to make you happy?" old boss of mine. "I'm in good shape. I can take more." “Most people in this room don’t know what they are talking about” "I guess you couldn't help the hundreds of parishes that closed the last few years with Renew My Church." "Instead of selling Churches why not sell this house to pay for what the community didn’t do" "Don't underestimate a large group of stupid people" “Show me a man that gets rich by being a politician, and I'll show you a crook.”― Harry Truman "If you owe the bank $100 that's your problem. If you owe the bank $100 million, that's the bank's problem." J. Paul Getty "The police are not here to create disorder, they're here to preserve disorder." -Richard J. Daley "and He will guide your paths." -Bible "What we have here is a failure to communicate" "But I got all of my retainer checks returned from his law firm because he turned up missing, and that was 12 years ago and nobody's seen him since. They think he's dead." "It's a dirty game; you gotta be careful who you screw with" "Evil is really the absence of good." “I wanted to be fat like Lizzo” “The short memories of the American voters is what keeps politicians in office.” - Will Rogers "A please and a thank you can take you pretty far in life." “ I would rather have questions I cannot answer than answers I cannot question” "You need more education - or some at the very least." “You won’t believe what is coming down the line” "Government is not interested in service, but domination & control." -Russell Brand/ "state & corporate world in unison." “Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.”—Mark Twain “The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubt, while the stupid people are full of confidence.”—Charles Bukowski “Silence is the best response to a fool.” “Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I’m not sure about the universe.”—Albert Einstein “My people skills are just fine. It’s my tolerance to idiots that needs work.” "A nation can survive its fools, and even the ambitious. But it cannot survive treason from within." Cicero "Do not blame Caesar, blame the people of Rome who have so enthusiastically acclaimed and adored him and rejoiced in their loss of freedom and danced in his path and gave him triumphal processions." Marcus Tullius Cicero 40 B C "Any man can make mistakes, but only an idiot persists in his error." Marcus Tullius Cicero "The budget should be balanced, the treasury refilled, public debt reduced, the arrogance of officialdom tempered and controlled, and the assistance to foreign lands curtailed, lest Rome become bankrupt." Marcus Tullius Cicero "We learn nothing from history except that we learn nothing from history." Marcus Tullius Cicero "Silence is one of the great arts of conversation." Marcus Tullius Cicero "I came, I saw, I conquered." -Julius Caesar "The greatest enemy will hide in the last place you would ever look." -Julius Caesar "Experience is the teacher of all things."-Julius Caesar "The die has been cast." Julius Caesar “Life is tough, but it is tougher when you’re stupid.” "You're stupid! You're proud of that, and that's what makes you stupid!" "You're an idiot! You're proud of that, and that's what makes you an idiot!" "I'm not like anyone. I'm me." -Elizabeth Taylor "When exposing a crime is treated as committing a crime, you are being ruled by criminals." ~ Edward Snowden “No man is more hated than he who speaks the truth.”~Plato "It takes a certain kind of heartlessness to continuously dig into an open wound." "I love walking alone. It is therapy. One needs to be alone, to recharge one's batteries." Grace Kelly "Absorb knowledge." "May the Holy Spirit [continue to] enlighten you," "cultural reset" “Beware of the Military Industrial-Congressional Complex”-President Dwight D. Eisenhower “Old men make war, young men fight and die.”-Winston Churchill "the killing of members of a country's civilian population as a result of its government's policy, including by direct action, indifference, and neglect." Collins Dictionary. "You got money for war, can't even feed your poor"~Tupac "The devil cannot stand to be mocked" C.S.Lewis "A rising tide lifts everybody's boat." "Last year was last year." "Bitterness will destroy you." "Say nothing and remain a coward." "Victimhood. Ignore your success. Be a victim." "Cutting negative people from my life does not mean I hate them, it simply means I respect me." Marilyn Monroe "The sky is not the limit. Your mind is." - Marilyn Monroe "Never regret anything because at one time it was exactly what you wanted." - Marilyn Monroe "Don't let your fear of failing triumph over the joy of participating." - Marilyn Monroe "Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right." -Marilyn Monroe "A friend tells you what you want to hear;a best friend tells you the truth." -Marilyn Monroe "I live to succeed, not to please anyone." "With friends like you, who needs enemas?" "If you avoid pain, you avoid success!" "You won't suffer the inconvenience of pain, to win." "at the finish line, there's no one to meet you." "they want the blessings of those who sacrificed, and add nothing to it." "I don't have to judge you. You proved yourself." "Think it, but don't say it!" "I'm not drinkin' anymore...but I'm not drinkin' any less!" "I could have died drinking, now I'm killing myself." "It's a tough ol' life up here on the wagon." "I Realize You Can't Fix Stupid" "The road t Hell is paved with good intentions." "Keep moving. Everything else is practice for the grave, and you'll never hear your critics." ""Now this is not the end. It is not even the beginning of the end. But it is, perhaps, the end of the beginning." -Winston Churchill “Whoever would overthrow the liberty of a nation must begin by subduing the freeness of speech.” —Benjamin Franklin "The level of absurdity and stupidity throughout every level of government is astounding." "If everyone is thinking alike, Then somebody isn't thinking." -- General George S. Patton "Tearing out a man's tongue (or otherwise preventing him from speaking) you are not proving him a liar, you're only telling the world that you fear what he might say." Martin "Look around, you are living in the last days of the Roman empire". "Science paints beautiful shades of gray, and people turn it into black and white."- J. Phillipe Rushton “The elites want to keep the good stuff for themselves” "Big Old Heavy Duty Rear end." "There is no substitute for hard work"-Thomas Edison "He who is without sin, caste the first stone" "Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor." "The truth will always be unpopular." "The truthful will always be persecuted." DOGS 1. Know Your Dog’s Healthy Weight 2. Keep Your Dog Active 3. Know the Difference Between Begging and Hunger 4. Limit Treats and Table Scraps 5. Measure and Monitor 6. Customize Your Dog’s Diet 7. Don’t Go Cold Turkey 8. Stick With It CLEANING 1. Declutter 2. Clean as you go 3. Rely on smaller furniture pieces with ample storage space 4. Clean five minutes a day Never disclose: 1. financial information- income and net worth. 2. social security # 3. disclose home address 4. email addresses 5. mobile number unless you initiate transaction 6. political views 7. answers to security questions 6 BIG Purchases Retirees (Almost) Always Regret! 1. Expensive car 2. Bigger home 3. Lavish vacations 4. Expensive gifts 5. Regular cash gifts to family 6. Vacation home 9:05 Retirees Spend 80% of Their Income in These 5 Areas 1. 6% Entertainment 2. 12% Food (Use a list, You throw out > 1/3 of the food you buy; buy less, go more frequently; buy the store brand) 3. 13% Healthcare (Advantage, generic drugs, inpatient/outpatient costs) 4. 14% Transportation ( Car payment, insurance, fuel, use Gas Buddy) 5. 36% Housing (Mortgage, maintenance, utilities, insurance, location, 55+, HOA, taxes, 10 CHEAP Purchases That Make Retirement SO Much Better Never Lose Your Keys, Wallet or Purse Again! - Super Cheap/Tiny Bluetooth Tracker Sleep Like a Teenager Again! - Physical Alarm Clock The Best Way to Read - eInk Reader Never Worry About Issues With Your Car - AAA Club Membership Enjoy Our Great County, For Free! - America the Beautiful Lifetime Pass Ask Her Anything and She Will Respond - Smart Voice Assistant Never Touch Your Lightswitch Again When Nature Calls in the Middle of the Night - Vansky Automated Bedlight Travel Like a Pro and ENJOY The Airport Experience - TSA Precheck Get the Best Discounts Available - AARP Membership Book That Might Save Your Life - How to Stop Worrying and Start LivingSeven Signs of Animosity 1. Passive Aggressive Behavior, Subtle Mockery, Gossip, Complaints behind your Back, Rumors, Character Assassination 2. They have a lack of interest in you 3. They invite everyone else, except you, you are excluded, ignore your contributions 4. Constant Criticism, finding fault 5. Negative Body Language, turn away from you, rolled eyes, 6. Unnecessary or Unwarranted Competition 7. Undermine you at every turn
10 REALLY FUN Retirement "Side Hustles" 1)Canasta Coach 2) Personal Shopper 3) Golf Pro 4)Live-in Pet Sitter 5)Tutor 6)Museum Docent (tour guide) 7) Floral Designer 8) Niche Real Estate Agent 9) Travel Agent 10) EBay/Amazon Reseller (resale arbitrage) 11) Paid Tax Preparer Jan 15- Apr 15 To LOSE WEIGHT Cottage cheese Ham Turkey Chicken filets Apple juice Cranberry Mixed fruit Bananas Mango Lee Iacocca's "Nine C's of Leadership" Character, Communication, Competence, Curiosity, Creativity, Courage, Conviction, Charisma, Common sense!
https://www.healthline.com/health/toxic-friendships#moving-forward Toxic Friendships: Put you down Gossip Apologize without sincerity Make you feel nervous Leave you unsettled Compare you to other people Put themselves front and center — alwaysTry to change you How toxic friendships affect you: You feel lonely and isolated Your stress increases You don’t feel supported Your self-confidence and self-esteem take a hit You often feel off-balance Your other relationships suffer So, now what? It’s OK to want to offer a second chance… Take space for yourself Set boundaries Practice ahead of time Be direct Think carefully before getting back in touch Open up to others Take care of yourself Shopping for a car, gym membership, or toaster, here are eight tips for dealing with aggressive salespeople: 1. DISTINGUISH BETWEEN ASSERTIVE AND AGGRESSIVE. There can be a fine line between being assertive and aggressive, and it's up to you to distinguish between a salesperson who’s annoyingly overeager and one who will say anything to make a sale. If you’re waffling on whether to make a purchase, an assertive salesperson may provide more information or respectfully ask you what he can do to help you make your decision. 2. BE MINDFUL OF YOUR EMOTIONS. Good salespeople are skilled at reading customers’ emotions and examining their body language to determine if they’re going to buy an item. But aggressive salespeople can use this skill to manipulate customers into buying something they don’t really want.3. PRESENT A UNITED FRONT. 4. DON’T FALL FOR ARTIFICIAL DEADLINES. 5. REGISTER YOUR PHONE NUMBERS ON THE DO NOT CALL REGISTRY. 6. BE MINDFUL OF COMMISSIONS. 7. DON’T BE AFRAID TO REPEAT YOURSELF. Pushy salespeople know that their persistence can wear you down and break your resolve. If you don’t want to buy something or need more time to think, be firm—and use unequivocal terms like "I don't" or "I won't" rather than "I can't." 8. HAVE COMPASSION https://www.facebook.com/groups/1679392842370848/posts/3488005898176191/ good radio page https://www.archmil.org/offices/ordained-lay-ecclesial/Priest-Death-Notice.htm https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N6hG6k8--Os&t=10s">WRIT AM Milwaukee April 5, 1967 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-cbpo7_viE">1977 WMUS 107-1090 M U S The Music Station https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XMOhWOygtIQ">December 1989WKPK WKHQ https://www.mixcloud.com/rob-frankel/chum-1969-02-13-jackson-armstrong/ Big Jack, CHUM 1969 https://soundcloud.com/jean-luc-614519260/khj-931-los-angeles-charlie-tuna-january-14th-1972-pt-1?si=50532b966c5042a2bdc96105eed46d23&utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing Charlie Tuna Jan 1972 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cn47KXxPUjo"> 107 MUS as https://soundcloud.com/bobjlv/kfif-tucson-01-01-1967?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing"> 1550 KFIF Tuscon AZ 1 1 67 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-XkCYsQnQk">1340/WRIT Robert W. Marshall - Milwaukee, WI (1969) 1290 WMIL too! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFy81Tj8daA">ANOTHER MONTAGE JUST FOR YOU! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9uWYYALBQhM">WATERTOWN-BROOKINGS-MITCHELL-ABERDEEN’S TOP OF THE HOUR RADIO IDS! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pJeZLtyMcdc">BATON ROUGE-NATCHITOCHES’S TOP OF THE HOUR RADIO IDS! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpIDIOvcUvU">BUSES OF LAS VEGAS NV doing the best! What else is there? Doing what worked 20 years ago means you are stagnant. You have to. You must improve! No baloney. No gimmick! es Lee Iacocca's "Nine C's of Leadership" which are qualities a good leader should possess. The nine C's are: character, communication, competence, curiosity, creativity, courage, conviction, charisma, and common sense.
Tiny habits:
1. Manage your time well. Write down what you want to do daily and mark it off when you accomplish it.
2. Do zero-based monthly budget every month.
3. Don't use credit cards.
4. Delay gratification. Save for everything you want. Don't buy anything unless you have the money. Pay cash for your cars.
5. Figure out your net worth at least two times a year. Try to raise your assets and lower your liabilities.
6. Only carry debt on things that are going up in value, like real estate. Don't rent or lease anything, or buy anything with payments.
7. Read. Many books per year.
8. Own rental properties.
9. Run your home like a business. Budget is your monthly income statement (or profit/loss statement). Net worth statement, that as stated in #5 above is done 2X each year, is like a balance sheet as it records assets and liabilities. Goal is to get as much profit as possible. Profit is how much money is left over after all expenses are paid every month. The goal is to have as much profit as possible, just like a business. Make this your 1st and most important business.
10. Contribute to your job's retirement plan and never borrow from it.
11. Keep multiple streams of income. He has income from these sources: jobs, dividends, rental properties, royalty income from books he has written, profit income from a business.
12. Automate investments into your job's retirement plan.
13. Keep cash on hand for emergencies.
14. Tithe to your church. Give to and help people as much as you possible. This keeps you grateful and humble and keeps your focus on giving back instead of taking. You'll find that the more you give, the more you'll get back.
15. Self educate when it comes to money or investments, or growing wealth.
16. Take good care of the things you have so you won't have to spend money to replace them. This saves money and helps you to be grateful for all the things you have.
17. Don't worry about the things you can't control, but instead focus your energy on the things you can control. Focus on the money you get and your expenses.
18. Get money out of cash as soon as possible. Flip it into something that goes up in value instead of something that goes down in value. Invest, buy real estate, improve real estate. This money will grow right away. When money moves, it grows.
19. Keep money in its proper perspective. Don't tie your happiness and joy to expensive stuff. You don't always have to have expensive things. Quality things are nice, but you can enjoy inexpensive things. This way money doesn't break you because it didn't make you. Money only has the power that you give to it.
20. Talk other people up and cheer them on.
21. Think long term, instead of short term, with money.
22. Try to stay positive in all situations. Having genuine optimism gives you a competitive advantage.
23. Exercise regularly. What is wealth without good health. Eat healthy. Think about what you eat. He splurges on good nutrition.
25. Don't mix emotions and money. Stay as logical as possible.
1) educate yourself especially by reading 📖 books 📚 on a variety of topics and subjects
2) build up your side hustles from 5pm 🕔 to 9pm 🕘 such as an eBay business
3) invest time for higher paying skills such as social media skills. Be a problem solver.
4) reviewing your personal finances and budget in a spreadsheet.
5) networking strategically with other like minded people.
6) start to learn to grow your investments. Research 🔬 various individual stocks and bonds. Understand the stock market 📈
7) understand the real estate 🏡 game
8) take care of your physical body such as walking 🚶 for 20 minutes.
9) reflect and plan on your financial goals and progress and plan next day tasks.
1. Don't be impatient
2. Don't chase material goods
3. Low-paying skills = low-paying wages
4. Don't live a risk-fearing life
5. Think critically and come up with solutions - don't let others tell you what to think; produce
6. Be financially disciplined; don't spend all your money
7. Not being consistent
8. Break free of negative environments; don't surround yourself with enablers and those with victim mentalities https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=STg-9_dbI7w"> CTA bus action https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VkhyFUxgrxU">10 Things Worth The Money EVEN IF YOU ARE FRUGAL 01:07 The right mattress 02:49 Good shoes ---get New Balance out! Reebok ! 05:06 Healthy food 07:15 Reliable cars 09:57 The right tools 12:21 Self-development 14:10 Safe home 16:13 Insurance 17:56 Preventive maintenance 19:56 Giving “You don’t need to be vindicated" Narcissists will never apologize or admit they made a mistake with any sincerity. Once you set boundaries you see "friends" dropping like flies 1- that’s not going to work with me 2- ok say what you have to say 3- ok I need to take a second 4- Let’s press pause. 5- Ouch! Why: it is driven by a need to process thoughts aloud, which abuse makes difficult NEVER SHARE.... 1. Your private financial details 2. Your childhood trauma 3. Everything you think about them 4. Your private passwords for email, banking, etc. 5. Every mistake you've made (you are not your mistakes) 6. Gossip (other people's secrets) 7. Your big plans until the plans are solid 8. Every detail of your romantic relationship 9. Just to fill silence (silence is uncomfortable when you're disregulated) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1fRy39nyq4">5 Things You MUST Quietly Eliminate From Your Life 1:28 Exaggeration and moral inflation. 4:01 Self pity disguised as moral outrage. 5:22 The compulsion to correct or expose other people. 7:48 The belief your emotions are uncontrollable. 10:31 The belief that society is the cause of all your problems. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ubE1kYkiVg">Cut Toxic People & Friends Out of Your Life | Jordan Peterson Be with like minded people! People who are kind and compassionate. People who brings out the best in you! Positive people!! People of the Light! Narcissists, psychopaths, do not love you. Never will. They 'love bomb' you in the beginning ... They 'use' you! They are jealous of you! They wish you bad luck. They will never change! They have the devil in them! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLH0RbMcHOg">10 Signs of Toxic Friendships 1. Feeling anxious or overwhelmed after spending time with them. 2. They will never apologize. 3. Using guilt to get you to do things. 4. Loss of trust. 5. One-sided relationship. 6. Dreading communication with friend. 7. Making excuses for them or covering for them. 8. They put you down. 9. Talking behind your back or sharing your secrets. 10. They don't respect our boundaries. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtXYUZbDyEg">Psychology of People Who Don’t Watch Football