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My name is Victoria. There is healing for those that come from sexual abuse and domestic violence. I know this because I made it through the pain.Let me tell you a little about myself. My grandfather sexually abused me at age 5. My own father age 6. My father was a very violent man. I often saw my dad hit my mom. Leaving her with many bruises, loose teeth, black-eyes etc. It was very painful for me to see. He was a rage-alcoholic when he drank. No one diagnosed him as an alcoholic. I feel in my heart he was. My mom was scared to death of him so she could not protect me. I lived through it only to marry a person at 17 to get away from my home life. He never drank. After joining the service and serving in Vietnam. He became a drinker and used drugs. He then started to abuse me. After a 5 year marriage. I got divorced. I am now married to a wonderful man for 27 years. I have a 22-year-old, married daughter. They are my pride and joy. I felt crazy coming from what I came from. Many times I told my husband that I needed to get help and he would say ok. Only I would not go. Then one day he told me try it I would know if it is right! He trusted me to decide? I did not trust myself! That is why I am here to offer you my help to heal. I feel I have a lot to offer because of what I am from. A lot of us can not afford a Social Worker or a Psychologist. So I am like a mid-way point. I can help you to a certain point. Then I would love to see you get further help with someone educated in this area. It took me many years to heal with therapy. I quit my therapy June 17, 1997. Consider me a mentor in this area. I would like to start a service as an on-line mentor. You can reach me though e-mail. It is time for all of us to heal from abuse. I have finally reached my goal of healing. I never thought I would ever make it this far. I am feeling good and life feels positive to me. Thank you for visiting my web page. I wish you all Peace in your soul.
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