As a whole we all live in a very social dependant world. Everyday of our very americanized lifes we need to watch our action, watch our steps, because you never know when one offensive slip up that you committ can cause a total stranger to go homicidal.Why is it like this though? Why do we have to live in fear of each other? The social aspect of our lives is infact so complex that it has been classified as a science. That is right, ever heard of social science? These are two words that, in the past, I have had very little interest in. Possibly because I continued to deny that they are at all related. Because as a typical highschool student, I related social with a social life, and since I had already pre-judged scientists as being hypothetical losers, the two words were two direct opposites of each other. As life continues, you do however appear to become smarter. Either because you have been exposed to more situatioins in life, or that the media has transformed your mind set, I am still uncertain about that one. To get back to my point, I had someway or another figured out how social and science can be in the same often abused title. Becasue social is kinda a science experiment. You know what you have and if you mix it all together, you are not certain what you will have made at the end. In other words, you never quite now how the way you treat people will make them feel. For example,you could buy someone a really kick ass present, or at least you think its amazing, like come on who would not want a state of the art first aid kit for a present? Then when you give the very carefully selected present to them you realize that they are a hypo-condreact and you have just sent them into months worth or theropy, because you gave them a bandaid. See that is a science. How will what i do affect the people that i care about. A very smile could make a persons day, but not holding the door open for that same person could send them into tracktoin. All things are relevent though, does the smile out way the not holding the door open, or the not holding the door open out way the smile? Honestly who knows except the person the deeds were done againsnt, and too each different person there will be a different but very similar answer. Its either one or the other, but which one comes first for you? A smile or a door being held open for you? And if the door was not held open for you, but then the person smiled at you.What would you think? They must in a way feel sorry for not holding the door open for me and want to kinda make it up, right? But if they smiled at you then didnt hold the door open for you, then what? How is it diferent. Only the passage of time can tell, and when time has passed and you realize that you can never go back to that very second, like that second just last second ago is gone. And the ten minutes you sepent in the shower this morning, gone, forever. Time slips away and so do the people that we meet, actions that we do , and faults that we keep close to our heart. Really in life all we have to think about is rite now, not that the future isn't important. But we need to think now, how will what i do make a difference, and then realize, that it wont...
Can You Feel It?
More thoughts from an absent mind...
Art takes many forms...
