8/08/02 I have to face it. It was a one-night stand. People who sleep with you, and have your phone number, and know where you work, and know where you live, they get in touch with you if they want to. So far it's been - let's see - 11 days, and no word. Two stops in at work, but always on my day off. Hm. I dunno. I just don't get a bad feeling. The good one is fading, but I don't get a bad one. Well, at least I'm not upset. Maybe I'm old enough to know that it just isn't worth bugging over. And, I would do it again. heehee!
On the Moon
You hold me close and kiss me;
your skin is shaded, and warm.
It ripples under my lips, and soothes
my aching teeth.
It softens my resolve.
Your voice pushes clouds sweetly
around and around my head,
bubbles flow from your mouth;
you are celestial.
Cool breezes pass between.
I fold my wings, and hit the ground shuddering,
wobbly and dull-
my bones are shaken;
the world changes.
9:27:22PM
8/07/02 There's a one-man show playing in England right now, called Talking Cock. This is the second time I've heard about it (once in the paper, this time on metafilter,) so I went to the website. I'm linking you to the poems section which I found mostly hilarious - but there was one really sad & serious one on pg. 4. Check it out!
Also. for those who enjoy this stuff:
mostbeautifulman.com.
11:11:47PM
8/06/02 I'm watching a show about twin girls conjoined at the head. The mom was in labor for 8 - count'em - 8 days! Now they're going to try to separate them.
I have to open up at work tomorrow morning, so I'm going to bed early. Had a nice lazy day. Did nothing! Johnny and I went to lunch (which I shouldn't have spent money on,) then we laid around talking about our plans for the great castles we will build when we get rich. He wants me to live with him and his wife! Gotta love them when they're little. You're still the center of the universe. He's gonna be 9 in October, then he'll start pulling away, slow but sure. But that's the way it's gotta be.
Love him.
Tried to replace my HBO with the E channel, so I could watch the Anna Nicole Smith show. But we don't get E here in bumfuck. I hear it was disturbing. Go to asmallvictory and read her real-life ANS story. Funny, pathetic and too weird. I actually knew a girl who behaved like that - my ex-husband's first wife. I know it's entirely possible. Weird.
Now the babies are separated, but having complications. They're gonna continue the story later. And now for the news.
Oh yeah, my poison ivy's gone, and Johnny's is fading. Yay!
10:50:27PM
8/05/02 I - need - human - contact. Help me. email, call. I am so friggin' bored. How come the only person that calls me is my ex-husband? I try, I really do. Where is everybody? AAAAAHHHHH!!!
My bumper sticker reads:
Kinky.
Take the quiz.
he will be back. he will be back. he will be back.
Ah, cool - Snatch is playing on HBO. I've got a thing for Guy Ritchie - he's cute. And quick, if this movie's any indication. *smile*
10:39:58PM
8/04/02 To my dearest and best friend, the alcoholic beverage:
I just wanted to thank you. You have been helping me out for a long time. You make me brave when I am terrified. You make me happy when I am sad. You make me outgoing when I am shy. You make me forget my pain. So what if it's only temporary? At least you work. Ever since I discovered you, that day underneath Kim Scott's deck when we were twelve, I have had to have you. I gulp you down as often as possible, and you always have an effect.
You made me feel better when nobody listened or seemed to care. When I dreamed about the creepy guy, I could get up and sneak downstairs and know that you were there, stacked up in cases behind Dad's chair. As Mom and Dad slowly grew apart, you and I got closer and closer. We watched together as
they fell victim to their own addictions. We saw my brother get picked on and beat up day after day until he quit school, but it was OK, because, my friend, I had you. When that senior said I messed around with him, and everybody called me a slut- that was when I learned to drink you during the daytime. When Johnny broke up with me, you were there, unflinching, until the pain was gone. When I tried to go out and socialize with other humans, you were always there to hold my hand.
As the years went by, you stayed with me. When I had the abortion- remember that? When TJ went to live with his Dad- I swear I don't know how I could've got through it without you. All the times we had to go to court - I always rushed to you as soon as it was over. All my husband's screaming accusations were easier to take, because I knew that you were waiting for me when it was all over. Then, when my marriage fell to pieces, of course you were there. When Dad died, yep - it was you. You get me to sleep when I can't stop my mind from thinking. When I want to have sex and I can't keep that creepy guy's fingers out of my head - you get me over the hump (HA! that was great!)
And remember the good times? Remember our first concert? All the parties? You were there for the first time I made love. And the second, and the third - come to think of it, you've been there for most all of them! All the fun nights spent playing darts - good times. The days at King's Dominion. The days at the beach. The road trips. The weddings- ah, the weddings. And the nights we spend alone - a few slugs and that warm feeling spreads through me and I am not so stupid or lonely anymore.
You are always available. You never say no. You are everywhere. All I have to do is get to the nearest store by 11:00.
I know there is a price to pay for everything, and for our friendship, my liver will suffer. I may already have the beginnings of chirrosis, since I have known you going on 28 years now. But you know what? Given the same circumstances, I would do it over again. You have allowed me to at least experience what a normal life would've been like. If I could've known then what I know now, I probably never would have picked you up. But I want to acknowledge the help you've given me over the years, and say Thank you. You are the best friend I ever had.
1:44:31PM
8/03/02 My stomach is growling. It is growling and I want something to eat. But I will not. I will drink instead. Vodka has only 10 calories per shot, and I mix it with diet coke, which has 0. So my drinking obsession will not affect my body obsession. Yes, it tastes nasty. Small price to pay. And if I'm good, I can drink beer the next time I go out, and still remain 125 lbs. Even that seems big to me. I'm used to being 110. But I'm getting older, it's not as easy as it used to be. I don't stick my finger my throat, which I consider a victory.
I remember one time, I was about 31 or so- my Mom tried to feed me a piece of chicken and I said no, I wasn't hungry and she said "I think that's all you've eaten in the past year, is one piece of chicken."
25 spaces for comments. And 25 spaces with no comments. *sigh* I am a waste of net space.
11:16:59PM
8/02/02 Had the day off today, plus it was payday. Wooooo! I took Johnny down to Fredricksburg where we went to the mall, ate lunch, then walked around buying stuff. I got him a $30 bamboo sword (he is into this stuff - i dunno, it made him happy) which the really cool girl gave me for $28.80. She asked, was I an employee of the mall? Did I get some other discount? and I said no, I'm just a hard-working single Mom, and she said, "well, so was mine, I'll give it to you anyway." What a cool girl.
Then I got my ear pierced. Up in the cartilage, where I had it before. But the last time it got infected, I had to take it out. This time I made sure I got a 14k gold earring. Hope it works.
Then we went to Funland and played The Simpsons video game until my fingers hurt. Damn, Marge can swing that vacuum cleaner!
Forgot to credit the links from two days ago - the only one I can remember is pornolize which I got from mysinglemomlife.
11:16:59PM
8/01/02 What to say, what to say? Nothing happened at work today. I made an ass of myself a couple of times, over stupid things. People just have to accept my absent-mindedness. Lil girl was there today, and said "B" came in on my day off (tuesday) and was telling her I came to his show. She said he was all sweaty. Hmm... sorry I missed that! But hey, it means that he came somewhere where he might've run into me, just two days after (you know.) So maybe he's remembering too. At least he's not avoiding me. That would be fucking tragic.
We still might lose the house. Long story, but I may have to move soon. Gotta go check out some apartments tomorrow. Luckily, my birthday's coming up, so I can beg cash gifts off of everybody and hopefully make a deposit. Crikes!
It's weird, but I don't really mind moving. It's kind of exciting, and you get to rearrange your stuff and decorate a new place. I guess I'm just used to it. We moved, let me think, five times before I hit High School. I like getting around new people and checking them out. You never know. Plus it'll be a relief to get a place i can afford better. I hate juggling all these bills to try and pay this mortgage.
I'm trying to put a good face on it, but I will miss the house terribly. It's been a good house. The kids did the majority of their growing up here. At least I could give them that. But Johnny, little guy, he's still coming along with me. Bouncing and weaving with the tide. That is life, isn't it? At least the way I know it.
I can't imagine having everything be steady and knowing that you're never gonna have to change anything and you can always count on having a sure thing. I envy those people, but it doesn't seem to be the hand I was dealt. And I wouldn't have met some of these great people that I love if I hadn't have gone where I went. So.. optimism. And I am very lucky. Just look at the last few entries.
9:29:27PM