For the moment, my views on the opposite sex have changed. I always wanted to date women that I was attracted to more mentally than physically. It came from that fact that I never got along very well with any of the good looking girls in my school. Now I understand why. Most of them think that their butts are gold. They will continue to think this when their husband still lives with his parents and he is working the same job as the one he had during high school. I don't want a golden butt like all of my classmates. But does that mean I must settle for a girl that I do not find attractive. I certainly hope not. I want a girl that is better looking than all of the other girls around her. I want her to be funny but not silly. I want her to have a great body (great meaning in good shape, nothing overtly small or large) and a beautiful face. I want her to be completely comfortable around me. She must not be a complainer or a whiner. Most of all, she must love me for exactly what I am. Is all of this possible? I certainly hope so since I won't settle for anything less. Will I achieve it? I am guessing that it is so. Those who demand excellence will most often get it.