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For over 13 years I was a caring husband, never abusive and one day I came home to an empty house. I was stunned. In the morning my wife kissed me good-bye like any other day, by the time I got home she had taken the dog, cat, the good furniture and more. She left a simple note stating she needed a change and that I'd be hearing from her lawyer. She moved back to her parents and severed contact. I found the bill from the moving company, she had it well planned out. I was left with no options so I filed for divorce.
I have no direct contact with her and almost no communications. I have no interest in what she is doing now or ever talking to her again. I'm not going to talk about her unless you ask. If you ask, I will be totally open with you. There was no yelling or threatening or jealousy. Surprisingly, I wasn't that mad, bitter or despondent. Looking back, I things hadn't been so great for some time. We were living as roommates. There were no kids to bind us, just assets to divide. “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.” - Richard BachMy ex is an only child of old world German parents. Their relationship has always been close. It was a constant wedge between us. I was never as important to her as her parents are. She was never mine, too bad it took me so long to deal with that realization. I’m not looking for someone to dump on or to make my ex jealous. I no longer miss her, I miss my dog, my cat and having someone to care about. I'm ready to move on. |
