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Sometimes you feel as though you've got this imaginary connection between yourself and another person, and it feels so amazing, something you've never felt before. Maybe it will stay for a while, it will linger and you will feel a purpose to stay alive and fend for yourself and your lover in this world filled with nothing more but betrayal, lies, rumors, and cheating. During this time of love, you feel a sense of security.. as if nothing could ever hurt you, especially not your lover. Then one day, you wake up and realize you do not live in a dream world. There will be times for fighting, growing apart, getting older; but only the true lovers will be in it.. together. In this day and age, so many people use to word love without truly knowing what it means. They may think they know what it means, but they don't check with their lover on their definition as well. That usually ends in hatred, anger, broken hearts, and so forth. Then what else is there too do? Blame it on your lover, of course. It makes me sick too see children as young as ten use the word "love." They were just in love with Alice in Wonderland last week. True, there are different definitions on the word "love," but everyone only knows it as one: physical love. To have a healthy, strong, respectable relationship, you've both got to be on the same wave link; Emotional, Mental, Physical. The three components to the word "love." There are millions of ways to show your love too someone, whether that be by saying it too them face too face, writing it down, saying it over the phone, saying it over the computer, using self mutilation, using lyrics from various bands, and so on and so forth. But what does that all mean, unless it's proven? People can say anything, they can say "I love you," just as easily as they can say, "I hate you get the fuck out of my life." The thing is, people do not understand why people that use to "love them" change so frequently. Have you ever stopped and thought to yourself, "Why does he/she love me? What is so special about me that he/she loves about me?" So many people get so caught up in their fantasy worlds, they have no time for reality.. the real reason too be in love, the real reason too tell someone you love them. "I love you" are the three most powerful words known to (wo)man. They're so powerful because at the same time you feel ecstasy, you feel remorse. How can the greatest feeling in the world, have the same effect as being the worst feeling in the world? Easy.. miscommunication. Miscommunication is so simple in these fascists ways of love. Really take the time too think things over before you get yourself into something you're obviously not ready for. Your mind may think you're ready for it, but you're not listening too your heart. People grow up so early now-a-days, they've got no time too be a kid, because they're so worried and wrapped up in their boy/girlfriend's life. There becomes no such thing as true happiness, and friendship when a young person gets caught up in a game of lust.
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