The critics usually
like to say that Marilyn Monroe was nothing but a dumb blonde and
a whore. She was also known to have abused drugs, they say.
Marilyn Monroe
Verses Madonna Ciccone
Some (such as
an old magazine from the 1980s I have in my collection called, I believe,
"Memories") go so far as to compare Marilyn Monroe
to pop singer Madonna and then refer to her as a "loser,"
since she was not, supposedly, as "strong," or as wealthy,
a woman as is modern day female entertainers such as Madonna Ciccone.
Never mind that
Marilyn never cared much for material possessions and money: she once
said she didn't care about money, she just 'wanted to be wonderful.'
Monroe's goal
was never to be wealthy, whereas Madonna explicitly sought material
gain (she once wrote to a friend, before she became famous, that she
was going to New York to seek 'fame and fortune').
Never mind that
Monroe lived at a time period when sexism was far more prevelant and
accepted than it is now, so that a woman back in the 1950s could never
hope to achieve as much power and wealth as a man could.
It is all beside
the point, then, to compare Monroe unfavorably to Madonna for things
that Monroe could not be reasonably expected to have achieved, and
for things that were beyond her control.
If one has a problem
with Monroe's alleged 'weakness' and 'ditzy blonde' public persona,
then one actually has a problem with American culture's treatement
and perception of women in the 1950s. Do not blame Monroe; she was
a product of her times.
As an aside, I
do not like Madonna. My dislike of her began after she became more
and more 'slutty,' starting with her 1985 release of the Like a Virgin
music video. Before that, I did not have a big problem with her public
persona.
I also abhor
Madonna for basing her entire career on the modus operandi of ripping
off other celebrities, particularly Marilyn Monroe, but then either
denying it, or else acting angered (as she has done in various interviews)
when people point out how much she copies off Monroe and others.
I am a Marilyn
Monroe fan, but I have never excused or agreed with some of Marilyn's
moral failings, nor will I ever. I do not believe that anyone should
have sex outside of marriage or abuse drugs, as she was known to have
done.
Marilyn's Drug
Addiction
Yes, Monroe did
have her shortcomings, true enough; but she lived and became famous
during an era (the 1950s) when women were limited in their roles and
career choices, and doctors, from what I have read, did not realize
just how harmful and addictive some medications they prescribed could
be.
This brings out
an additional point on Monroe's drug problem: she was not some coke-head
street whore. She sought medications from medical doctors. She did
not walk the streets in a seedy part of town looking for suppliers.
Furthermore, Monroe
did not abuse the drugs to 'feel good' or to 'get high' as so many
actors and rock singers from the 1960s and onwards have done.
Monroe had psychological
problems and insecurities borne of a very troubled, sad, and lonely
childhood. Coupled with this, and as she got older and much was expected
of her by the studios, she could not handle the stress. She suffered
from insomnia and sought medical help.
The doctors Monroe
saw would give her pills that were to help her fall asleep, and they
gave her other pills for her to take in the mornings to help her become
alert so that she could report to work.
People should
not abuse medications, but in light of Monroe's problems, at least
one can sympathize and understand what led her to become dependent
upon them.
It is not as though
Monroe was loopy, out of control, rebellious, or a hippie who thought
it would be cool, fun, or nifty to 'experiment' with drugs.
Was Marilyn a
Whore?
According to various
Monroe biographies I have read that detail what life was like for
young actresses in the 1940s and 1950s, most young ladies who wanted
to break into show business had no choice but to exchange sexual favors
for movie roles.
Hollywood back
in Marilyn's day was much different from what it is now. The studios,
which were, by and large, run by white males, employed the actors
and actresses and held great power over them. These days, actors generally
operate as 'free agents' and so are not 'owned' by any studio.
If Monroe slept
around, it was to get work. It was back in the days of the "casting
couch."
Compare this
to someone like Madonna from the 1980s, a woman from an age when women
did not have to exchange sex for work, who despite this, willingly
chose to have sex with anyone who she believed could further her career.
Madonna had a
choice. Madonna did not have to use her body to get ahead.
Monroe, on the
other hand, did not have much of a choice. Outside of being a full
time wife, mother, secretary, or school teacher, women in her day
did not have many paths, and if they choose to follow a different
one, they generally had to use sex with the men in power as a means
of meeting career objectives.
In other words,
it is more than unfair and asinine to compare someone like Monroe
to someone like Madonna: it's anachronistic.
It's anachronistic
and unrealistic to expect a 1950s woman (such as Monroe) to display
qualities, or to make the same sort of accomplishments, we expect
of women from the 1970s onward (such as Madonna).
Monroe may have
been promiscuous for reasons not having to do with her career. However,
I do not believe she slept around as much as some people think or
say.
Monroe is considered
to be the single greatest sex symbol to ever exist, so it is no surprise
that so many men claim that they slept with her. I regard most of
them as being lying braggarts.
At the very least,
Monroe kept her sexual life private and did not force it on the public,
unlike celebrities such as Madonna, who openly flaunts it.
Further, Monroe's
brand of public sexuality was mostly mild and tasteful, unlike Madonna's
and that of Monroe's 1950s clone, Jayne Mansfield.
Monroe did show
streaks of what we think of as characteristsics of a contemporary
woman: during her "hey day," that is, the mid 1950s, she
left Hollywood, tired of the studio moguls mistreating her and underpaying
her, headed for New York, and created her own production company.
Marilyn's Intelligence
Quotient: Wasn't She a Dummy?
While Marilyn
was not a Rhodes Scholar, she was by no means the air headed, vapid
idiot some people either assume she must have been or like to portary
her as.
Marilyn did take
a literature course at a college in California. She loved to read
and learn. She seems to have regretted not receiving much of an education
beyond high school.
Monroe enjoyed
talking to noted authors and intellectuals of her time. She listed
Abraham Lincoln and Albert Einstein as people she admired. She enjoyed
art; if I recall correctly, one of her favorite artists was Goya.
These factors,
as well as an indication of wanting to learn and enjoying
education, are hardly marks of a vapid, brainless idiot.
CONCLUSION
Marilyn Monroe
was not perfect, nor was she an absolute angel at all times; I do
not know of any sane, rational Monroe fans, such as myself, who would
claim otherwise.
On the other
hand, too much has been made out of her problems, whether it was her
lack of formal education, substance abuse, or whatever else.
People who take
issue with Monroe sometimes do so unfairly, in that they either exaggerate
her flaws or else they do not consider why she did some of the things
she did.
Marilyn was not
wholly angelic intellectual or wholly brainless slut. The truth is
that she was some where in between those points. What it comes down
to is that Monroe did have her good characteristics, which the critics
sometimes unjustly refuse to concede in their rush to condemn her.