There are those that are quality women, and there are those that act like quality women. I am here to encourage all of you that are not quality women, to at least try to act like it.

First of all, there is no intrinsic reason that some women are considered quality and others are considered trash. There is no blood type or gene that determines it, though surroundings don’t necessarily help. If you were raised to be a two bit hooker, then you probably will turn out to be just that. If you want to get beyond your past and to the point where you can gain some self-respect, if not some respect from other people…here is a list of things to avoid:

1. Being a Slut.

I realize that this is very general, but I will define it for you. A slut is a person that has no respect for sexuality. A slut uses her sexuality for a cheap feeling of worthiness, money, or power. I don’t care if it makes you feel beautiful, you are cheapening yourself and cheapening women as a gender. I don’t care if you can make better money on your back or on a pole. If you are willing to put a price on something of immeasurable value, you are a whore. Do not blame me for this, I didn’t do it. If you want power over someone and you are using your sexuality to do it, you are pathetic. If you have no sense of power beyond a routine leg spread, then I suggest you seek counseling. You need to control yourself before you try to control others.

2. Dressing like a Slut

Are you shocked and amazed that I could be so backwards as to think that how one appears has any relation whatsoever to the way one is perceived? If you are, then you are in for a nasty surprise. The way you look has everything to do with the way you are perceived. You will have to deal with this, for it isn’t going to change. People will not automatically know from looking at you what a wonderful and interesting person you are. There is a world of difference between sexy and slutty. If you wear clothing that suggests you work the corner of 1st and Main, yes, people should know that it doesn’t mean you actually do. However, they don’t. They will think that you are very available for any sexual pleasure they desire until you prove to them you are not. How many girls complain about not getting respect? Quality women demand respect, and it starts with the way they present themselves.

3. Giving disrespect

This involves disrespecting both one’s self and others. A quality woman respects who she is as a person and gives thought to who she wants to be. You are not powerless to control who you are. Be the person you want to be, it is insanely simple. If you aren’t a person that you, yourself, can respect, how can you expect others to respect you? You can’t. You are the one who knows yourself best, if you aren’t respecting yourself, other people will see no reason to. Additionally, if you don’t treat others with respect, you really are as unworthy as you think you are.

4. Talking like a tavern wench

Ladies do not talk like common whores. They just don’t. If your mouth is filthy, people can and will assume that everything else about you is too. If you have no problem yelling, “@#$ you, lick my !@#$#,” across a crowded room…then you are trash. It is just a fact. Vulgar language reveals a vulgar person. Particularly when it comes to women. Is this fair? No. Will it change? NO! You can complain about the unfairness of the world if you wish, or you can grow up and deal with the facts.

4a. Being loud

If your voice and laugh carries over everyone else’s, tone it down. Loudness is associated with vulgarity, so can it. Draw attention to yourself by other means.

5. Continuing unsavory habits

This can apply to any number of things, but substance abuse in particular. Anything that makes you smell, act, and look like a tramp is not a positive influence on your life. Figure it out, please. Control your own life, don’t let a chemical substance take over.

6. Dating freaks

Girls, don’t date people who aren’t worthy of you. This goes back to respect. No self-respecting woman would stay with a guy who doesn’t give her the respect she deserves. I don’t care if you love him, get over it. If you want to feel beautiful, work out. Don’t date a fool, it reflects poorly on you. If he is cheating on you, hitting you, or treating you like anything less than a princess, do not say, “Boys will be boys.” You should not hold a boy to lesser standards than you have for yourself. If you have no standards, then you are well matched, but do you really want to be on crack for the rest of your life? Wake up, break up and move on.

Summary:

Women of quality are becoming a rare commodity. If you wish to seem as though you are part of this exclusive breed, listen to my advice. This world is based on perception. The way you act, look, and sound is the only way people can tell who you are. If all these things point to “white trash slut” then don’t waste time asking me why men don’t respect and love you as you so clearly deserve. If you don’t want to be treated as disposable, then don’t act like trash.