Alot of tribulations were thrown at Tabitha over a period of time that led to the creation of Meltdown. I think mainly it was her fault for becoming very selfish and allowing herself to become very close to certain individuals. One example would be Victor Creed, also known as Sabretooth. Victor was cased as "Animalistic coma" due to Wolverine popping his claws straight throw Vic's head. Tabitha helped nurse Victor back to health (X-Force #44-48), only to be used by Sabretooth in letting him free to go back to his criminal activities (Uncanny X-Men #328). Her father would also be another case. After finally putting away her anger she decided to establish a relationship with her father. But it was short lived because he was soon hospitalized by Sebastian Shaw and Holocaust (X-Force #49). And then of course there were also her love intrests. Sam Githrie for one seemed to be very inconsiderate of Tabitha's needs, him being on the X-Men didn't help much either. The relationship soon hit the wall when Sam caught Tabi and his best freind Roberto DaCoasta making out (X-Force #76). Roberto and Tabi didn't last long as couple very long either.
The change from Boomer to Meltdown was to show the rest of the world that she wasn't going to take anymore crap off of anyone that would push her to do anything she wouldn't want to. She was becoming more like Cable, agressive, without remorse, and a bad attitude to match (too bad Cable was going a bit soft on his old tactics during this point). Over the period of several issues, Tabitha has slowly returned to her lovable self that she once was. But keeping the look and the name of Meltdown is a way for her never to forget the past, its good to see that she's finally learning the lessons in life properly.