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Bosnian Bulletin #10

July 26, 1999

Dobar dan! (DOH-bar DAHN! Meaning "Good day!")

We thought it was about time that we start greeting you the way all Bosnians do (during most of the day).

We are enjoying unseasonably cool, rainy days after a stretch of hot weather. It's nice for a change, but soon we'll be ready for some sun again!

We wanted to send you a quick update before we leave for retreat and vacation and are out of e-mail contact for about 3 weeks. I'm sure we'll have plenty of things to tell you about when we get back.

Today marks one year since we left Sioux Falls, South Dakota to begin our 3-year assignment with MCC. Hard to believe. In some ways it seems like a long time -since we ate at Taco Bell, since we played with nephews and nieces, and since we talked with friends over a cup of coffee. In other ways, time has passed in a flash -already a year since we met our MCC colleagues at retreat in Bled, Slovenia, already a year that we've been studying the language, already a year's worth of Bosnian coffee consumed, already 4 months since we started our new assignment in Sarajevo.

Sometimes we stop to realize how many little things were once so different to us that we are now quite familiar with: meal times around 10am, 4pm and 9pm, wearing wedding rings on the opposite hand, parking cars on the sidewalks (jump the curb!), milk out of tetra packs, greeting people with kisses on the cheeks (Serbs alternate 3 times, Croats and Muslims only 2), hot and cold on most faucets are on reverse sides, usually removing your shoes upon entering someone's home, carrying toilet paper when using public toilets, leaving the last swig of coffee in the cup, etc.

We've also seen a lot of progress here during the last year: Repaired roads and bridges, rebuilt houses with returned refugees in areas that were once completely destroyed, more foreign products available in stores (a sign of functioning international trade), small businesses opening up (a sign of economic recovery? at least a sign of hope!), more travel routes open via bus and train within the country, and small signs of healing in the lives of the people we've met.

However, a great deal of healing has yet to take place in Bosnia-Herzegovina. This week, with our MCC Europe director, Hansuli Gerber, we visited some of the most desperate people we've seen yet.

In Prijedor, Bosnia (in the Serb republic), we visited one Serb woman and daughter that are living in a small house for free (thanks to the kindness of the Muslim landlord). The mother is ill (both mentally and physically, I believe) and is unable to have a job or do housework. Her daughter is a teenager who is in school and takes care of her mother. They have no income at all. The husband/father died before the war. They told us that they have no hopes or dreams -they just think about surviving. "No one knows what it feels like to be a refugee until you've experienced it" the daughter told us. They are completely dependant upon food aid.

In an abandoned lime factory near Sanski Most, live a number of Serb families who are trying to clean up their heavily damaged or completely destroyed homes, in hopes that a large NGO will come to assist them with a rebuilding project. They are minorities trying to return to their homes, which are now part of Federation. They have absolutely nothing. They are completely dependent on food aid. God only knows when some NGO will choose their village for a reconstruction project. That money is rapidly being diverted to Kosovo while thousands of Bosnians are still waiting 4-8 years later.

It made me stop to imagine, if the US or Canada were destroyed from civil war and the international community came in to repair, probably starting with New York City and Los Angeles....when would they start to rebuild Freeman, SD or Hesston, KS or Rosedale, BC?

MCC is currently planning to send canned meat and other food aid to these areas where most other support has ended. We are also going to be exploring micro-credit loan programs and support for other local initiatives in Bosnia-Herzegovina. There is also a possibility of adding personal positions in the region.

The world's response to the war in Kosovo has been overwhelming, but money for peace initiatives that focus on the systemic causes of conflicts in order to prevent these situations, is hard to find. We are so glad that MCC looks for ways to support long-term peace in the region in addition to emergency aid.

As Joe Campbell, MCC conflict mediator in (his native) Northern Ireland told us, "As outsiders, you must walk with the people and the muck they are in and tell a good story, sing a good song and hold their hands. Don't tell them what to do. And remember, it looks dead easy from 1000 miles away."

So, now we'll take a break from everything here and travel to MCC summer retreat in Texel, Netherlands. We fly from Zagreb to Amsterdam on the 30th of July. We'll spend a week at retreat with our MCC colleagues, including a couple days in Amsterdam (with an Anabaptist historical tour) and Haarlem. Then, we'll visit my former high school foreign exchange classmate, Shirley Bakkeren in Rotterdam, our college foreign exchange friend, Thomas Wegner and his wife in Wuppertal, Germany and John's former pastor and his wife, Dick and Dorothy Rempel from British Columbia now living and working in Berlin. Our itinerary is still somewhat undecided, but we'll let you know how it turns out when we get back, hopefully around the 18th of August.

Our e-mail address will hold your messages until we return!

God's love and peace,

Karin & John

John & Karin Kaufman Wall
Inter-religious Service
Splitska 39
71000 Sarajevo
Bosnia-Herzegovina
Office tel/fax: 387 71 442 468
Home tel: 387 71 207 860

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