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Chatting Information
Information for use while in the Yahoo AKODs chatroom


So, you want to use our chatroom!

We're so happy you want to join us!  Here are some guidelines to use and consider while chatting:
 

               Sometimes the chats can last (with people leaving and others coming in) until 1 or 2 AM eastern.  Sometimes they are over in an hour.  It all depends on who's around, how many new people we are meeting, who wants to talk about what, and everyone's general mood.  If we're all "up" then a chat will last longer.  If everyone's "contemplative" we tend to sack out early!
                  A lot of us go in the chatroom to blow off steam.  We're stressed from work, parents, spouses, and sometimes we want to vent and sometimes we want to relax and have a good laugh.

                But sometimes people come in and want other things from chatting.  They want a sounding board.  They need someone to listen.  And that is absolutely ok!

                Sometimes the rest of us get so caught up in our good time, people get shuffled to the side, unintentionally.  If you want to talk about something, SPEAK UP!  The only way we can know you have something to talk about is if you say "Hey!  Guys!  I have a problem."

                The word "problem" strikes instant silence in the chat room.  AKODs seem mentally trained to recognize that word and instantly comprehendthat we are the ones to solve everyone's problems!  We've solved the problems of animal abuse, political injustice, prejudice, and school issues in our spare time, and loads of AKOD problems as our primary goal, so please just tell us you're hurting and need to talk!

                And when you have our attention, TALK!  It hurts, but it is the only way to get it out and get new perspectives.  While we're all AKODs, our stories are all vastly different and we all have our takes on various situations!

                Believe it or not, we were all once as you are now!  We didn't know each other.  The only way we got to know each other was to go in there, time after time and talk, discovering common bonds, debating over differences, laughing and telling jokes, crying and whining, and just discussing whatever topics we fell into.  It continues to this day.  We still don't know everything about each other!  When you come in, we get to talk about ourselves, talk about you, and you add a little something new to our mix!  So yes, we will laugh and joke and pal around and you may think we don't even know we know you're there!  A simple "Hi!" will wake us up if your name and the yahoo prompt doesn't do the job!  And trust us, visit the chat room once, and you're in for life!


A Brief Run-down of the Chatroom Functions

    Visiting the chatroom for the first time can be a bit tricky.  You don't know all the features.  You don't know who's in the room or where to look for anything.  Here is how it works!

    Like everything else about the club, the chatroom runs on Frames.  I personally hate frames, and if you simply hit the chat button in the main page, the 2 frames of the chatroom will show up in the 2 frames of the main club page and you'll be looking at 4 frames total.  Eyes getting buggy yet?

    Here is a quick tip to eliminate your frames by 50%.  But your arrow on the word chat and RIGHT click with your mouse instead of left clicking.  A menu bar will pop up.  Scan through the menu bar and click on "Open Link in New Window."  The chat room will pop up in a second browser window and you'll have the full screen to devote to it.

    As for the rest of the chat frame, it goes a little something like this:
 


    And that is it!  Unless you are still confused, you are now ready to use the chatroom!  If you are still confused, please email me!  Hope to see you in there!

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