If you want to do good in the game and be popular as well there are a few things you must do: 1) Respect Others even if they are jerks or if they steal from people and other unmentionables you should still not be a jerk back to them, just dont talk to them ignore them do whatever you can to avoid them, it makes life much easier. 2) Respect peoples stuff, if you see some gear laying around that isnt yours leave it alone obviously somone put it there so he could get it with a different crit.  Let players that are trading be, they dont like it when you take the items/money they are trading. Items on the counter in Steel Flower are ussually up for grabs so take what you need from there.