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An Essay

Death:Reality of Life
In life we see death all around hoping that it will never touch us. However you are not immune to that factor. Death is something that can not be stopped or cured. When someone close to you dies it hurts. It hurts a whole heckof a lot. You must however always remeber the good times you have had with that person. You can not remeber bad things that happened between you and that person only the good.
Death is the hardest thing in life you will deal with. It is very hard to cope with losing someone you cared for. That person maybe dead in body, but they will always be with you. They will be in your heart and in your memories of them. Possibly a part of that person will become part of you in a way.
When someone you lve is gone talk to them. it may seem weird, however it helps to cope with the reality that they are gone. You should never blame yourself for thier death or say why couldn't it of been me. If it had been imagine how your friends or family would feel. The thing is your alive and you can help keep the memory of him/her alive always. They would do the same thing if itwere you who had died.
When you are told that someone you loved is dead you must cope with the reality right away. Some people dont believe it till they see the person in the coffin at the funeral home. then there is even more of a world of hurt. You have to face reality right away not later, because then it is even harder to say goodbye.
Saying goodbye thats the toughest part about death. When you say goodbye it is alright to cry. Something you should try that might help is also saying goodbye in your own personnal way. That can help alot.
Death in general is hard to cope with. You should always remeber to face the realityof the death of someone to you right away. If you wait till you see them in the coffin you will be in a world of hurt. death is reality and reality is death.