Jesus said in the New testiment to "Love each other as I have loved you." If you think on that thought, how did Jesus love us?
He was Self Sacrificing.
And how do we do that?
"It" doesn't mean to die for another person; yet that is included. It means...To be patient with the ones we care for, to have kindness for them, to keep a trust, to put them above yourself.
Relationships are often brought down by negitive memories of the past. It seems we are all willing to forgive, but no one wants to forget.
The hardest thing to do for yourself and the person you love it to forget... Forget not just the things they have done wrong to you; but the things you have done wrong as well.
If they truely love you, and you love them... they wont hold a grude and neighter should you.
In order to love someone you need to avoid some things. Such as ... Being envious, boastful, or having a bragging attitude.
You must not the the person with an over big ego; thinking you are number one. In all honesty in a good relationship no one is number one. Being number one is self seeking. In a relationship "I" doesnt come first, "What about me?" doesn't exsist. You are self sacrificing, not being the one sacrified to. Both people sacrifice to the other. No one should be rude with anyone they love... no matter what.
Step #2:
Listen to Jesus; he knows what he is talking about.Step #3
Always forgive, and forget.Step #4:
Avoid the negitives, reach for the possitives.
Step #4
Dont Forget The Facts On Love...
2. If you love someone you will always protect them, trust them and hope.
3. Always hope tomorrow will be better than today; because if you don't hat that hope... then what is there really to look forward to?