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We have been repeatedly asked what are the
guidelines for the room. As of
this date we have refrained from having a published set
of rules in order
not to become "legalistic." However, the popularity
of the room is growing
and it is becoming increasingly difficult to have a presence
in the room
24/7. Therefore, we would like to lay down these guidelines
for members
and non-members to follow. Members are those of the D/s
community that have
sought to become active in the room and have given a statement
as to what
they believe D/s should be and affirmed their stand to uphold
the "Code" in the room.
RESPECT AND CORRECT LANGUAGE MUST ALWAYS
BE HAD IN THE ROOM.
SPANKINGS,WHIPPINGS, OR HUMILITAIONS WILL NOT TAKE PLACE
IN THE ROOM.
Please bear in mind that these are merely
guidelines so that the room can
be maintained with dignity, honor, and respect. Dom/mes
are in charge;
they are there to maintain order, offer advice, guidance,
and if need be, protection.
Submissives are just that - submissive.
They are rare jewels with a very
valuable gift to bestow upon the one he/she feels worthy
of that gift.
Everyone in the room should be treated with
respect and dignity. Rudeness
will not be condoned, nor will it be tolerated. Full ignore
will be placed
on those that violate this.
The upper area should be reserved for the
Dom/mes. Only when a sub is
asked to join a Dom/me should the sub be in the upper area.
Mega's are allowed in the room, but with
the following guidelines:
1) Be courteous of those around you.
2) Submissives need to ask the member Dom(s) in the room
permission to
mega. If there are no member Dom(s) present in the room,
then the sub must
ask any Dom in the room.
Fighting will not be tolerated in the room.
If you have a quarrel, take it elsewhere.
On the subject of Nude AV's:
No one in the room is a prude; however what you advertise
is how you will
be perceived. If you wish to be treated as a gentleman or
a lady, then
behave as one and appear as one. If you come in looking
like a slut and
behaving as one then that is how you will be treated. What
you wear in
private is your business - what you wear in public makes
it everyone's business.
To the subs:
Help teach the newcomers. For example, if a sub comes in
and mega's
without permission, it is better that you instruct the sub
before it is
initially done so by a Dom.
To the Dom/mes:
In order to maintain the room we must uphold the Code. Show
and prove why
the "old ways" are still the foundation of what
we believe.
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